Re: [FSG Anger.. To Sharon, lil' and the group..(grief)

[Guest guest]

I am feeling somewhat better about the anger issues lately. I don't know. I

just went through a kind of phase for a while there. If we really stop and

think, anger is part of grief, and we all grieve the loss of the person we use

to be or who we wish we were. So I suppose we all cycle through these emotions

at times.

Thanks,

love and hugs,

Debra V.

sharon studley wrote:

Debra I just want to say though I am newer to the group, I totally am

with you on the angry issues, as I get there or had and have had to take control

to work on taming myself when having the urge to blow-up. But most of all I so

understand and can not deal with the energy it takes to deal with people who

don't understand, and since it takes me every bit of energy to fight the pain,

and whatever other garbage comes along with it on a daily basis, I don't think

we need to be using up energy getting upset , or trying to explain things to

people who don't understand, or just choose not to. You hang in there. And wish

you some angerless days ahead. Sharon

lilbit_sunnygirl wrote:

I hope not Debra

Little

>

> You see I have been through lots of issues lately with anger. But I

will overcome it. (you know... anger with the disease itself and the

idiots who refuse to believe it). But that is ok. I still love them

for who they are. I guess they just can't understand and never will. I

need to realize I cannot take on the world and the task of " making "

anyone understand this disease. It takes enough energy to just live

with it.

>

> But just to let you all know.... I love this group so much. It does

not matter that sometimes people here get a little aggravated with each

other or whatever. We are all going through the same illness together.

(some a little differently than others). I have been here for a long

time. I will never leave.

>

> Agape,

> Debra V.

>

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[Guest guest]

Definitely. I get angry all the time. I hate being so 'limited' in

what my body will let me do. I rebel, then pay for it later with more

pain, then get angry all over again.

debra van ness wrote:

> I am feeling somewhat better about the anger issues lately. I don't know. I

just went through a kind of phase for a while there. If we really stop and

think, anger is part of grief, and we all grieve the loss of the person we use

to be or who we wish we were. So I suppose we all cycle through these emotions

at times.

> Thanks,

> love and hugs,

> Debra V.

>

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