Biopsy slit open....Scared what shall I do?

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As some of you may know, I had a vulvar biopsy almost two weeks ago

this Friday. The healing process was going well and it wasn't tender by

touch or when I wiped the area with toilet paper. Therefore, I felt

guilty because my b/f and I haven't been intimate two days prior to my

biopsy. Ouch, that was a big mistake because my skin felt like it was

tearing/pulling apart, so needless to say I wasn't completely able to

satifsy my b/f because the pain was excruiating! Not to mention the

burning aspect of it all, it felt like my skin was on fire. I examined

the biopsy area and it slit open on the right side and looks like a

tiny ulcer. By the way the incision was done a few centimeters under

the vaginal opening and slightly to the left. I can't figure out what

area that is, can anybody help me out? I'm sure you can understand why

a penis rubbing back and forth against that area would hurt like heck.

My OBGYN never told me how long to avoid intercourse or how long it

generally takes one to fully heal, so I have no idea. I don't know what

to do now and its so frustrating.

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