Re: Sex and affection/Cheryl ...still learning to reply to post forg

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This is almost like an epidemic when it comes to us women that are inflicted

with fibromyalga and/or chronic fatigue! I've read many many posts from now and

in the past years.It truely is very frightening that soo many of us have very

similar stories about our husbands,boyfrinds,partners,etc. purposley causing and

adding to our pain and laughing in our faces as they do it! The physical and

mental abuse they put us through it utterly uncalled for and sickens me to

death!! I too have been a victim of this so called " oops,i'm sorry hunieeeee,i

didn't mean to hurt you " line of crap that they feed us after they blacken our

eyes,choke us,elbow or knee us in the back until we are bruised, force

themselves on us sexually,slam on the car breaks and laugh as our foreheads

bounce off the dash or crack into the side of the window! I also have

experienced blackouts due to my husband at the time " now my ex " thank God for

that....getting my meds for me and adding more or

finding something that i wasn't even suppose to be taking " phsychotropic drug " !

As i would wake up hours later on the bathroom floor with tooth paste smeared

all over my face,in my hair,on my clothes and all over the bathroom,i would

scream for my husband to come help me,so scared and in wonder how on the face of

this planet did i end up on the floor in this mess,hoping he was going to help

me....NOT!!! All i heard was how i was losing my mind and going crazy,i was a

nut case he would tell me over and over again, " screaming at me and saying look

at yourself...you look like fool,you sick b?cth,and then drag me from the

bathroom and put my in front of the mirror and say " look,just look at what you

put me through,you are crazy and slap me or swear at me and all i could do was

to try to get up and get away from him! What a sick satisfaction they get out of

this!! that was the last straw for me and i went and filed for divorce

immediatly!! I would not be here

typing this if i would not have done it and that i can guarantee!!!! So

Please,anyone out there that is being abused in any way,shape or form you DO NOT

have to go thru this anymore!!! You have to get out b/4 it's too late!!!! You

Can do it and you Can make it through this horrific time in your life and you

Can do it on your own! If your case is a bit different,such as me..i had no

friends at all and that was the way my ex wanted it! I went to my family and i

thank god for them everyday and thank God that he gave me the strength to get

out of this living hell and be able to get at minimum my dignity back!! We are

human too and none of us deserve this no matter what!!! Be Strong and stand up

for yourself because sometimes noone else will!! Good luck to all and don't

hesittate to ask for our help here in our group! we are are always here for each

other and that makes a world of differnce!!! Thanks for reading and i hope this

can help at least 1 person

because then i know i did what i set out to do!! Give all women hope,never give

up no matter how bad it gets, " i know how hard that is to do believe you me,i've

been there and back and have the t-shirt " ! I suffer pain every second of every

day of my life yet i got rid of that black cloud that was hanging over my head

striking my down like a bolt of lightening every chance he got and more!! Bless

your hearts and lets be strong togetherWishing everyone a life with No black

cloud!! Syndi

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Syndi,

Oh, your story has touched me. Tears of pain came to my eyes when I read your

story. First of all I am so sorry! I am sorry for your pain, and the fact that

you had no friends to support you. I hope that some of my friends will step up

and help. But I dont' have many. I am going to take your advice and run with

it. I am hurting right now so badly. Just from the sick little things that he

does knowing that it will emotionally destroy me.

cbaker

Re: Sex and affection/Cheryl ...still learning to reply to post

forg

This is almost like an epidemic when it comes to us women that are inflicted

with fibromyalga and/or chronic fatigue! I've read many many posts from now and

in the past years.It truely is very frightening that soo many of us have very

similar stories about our husbands,boyfrinds, partners, etc. purposley causing

and adding to our pain and laughing in our faces as they do it! The physical and

mental abuse they put us through it utterly uncalled for and sickens me to

death!! I too have been a victim of this so called " oops, i'm sorry hunieeeee,i

didn't mean to hurt you " line of crap that they feed us after they blacken our

eyes,choke us,elbow or knee us in the back until we are bruised, force

themselves on us sexually,slam on the car breaks and laugh as our foreheads

bounce off the dash or crack into the side of the window! I also have

experienced blackouts due to my husband at the time " now my ex " thank God for

that....getting my meds for me and adding more

or

finding something that i wasn't even suppose to be taking " phsychotropi c drug " !

As i would wake up hours later on the bathroom floor with tooth paste smeared

all over my face,in my hair,on my clothes and all over the bathroom,i would

scream for my husband to come help me,so scared and in wonder how on the face of

this planet did i end up on the floor in this mess,hoping he was going to help

me....NOT!!! All i heard was how i was losing my mind and going crazy,i was a

nut case he would tell me over and over again, " screaming at me and saying look

at yourself...you look like fool,you sick b?cth,and then drag me from the

bathroom and put my in front of the mirror and say " look,just look at what you

put me through,you are crazy and slap me or swear at me and all i could do was

to try to get up and get away from him! What a sick satisfaction they get out of

this!! that was the last straw for me and i went and filed for divorce

immediatly!! I would not be here

typing this if i would not have done it and that i can guarantee!!! ! So

Please,anyone out there that is being abused in any way,shape or form you DO NOT

have to go thru this anymore!!! You have to get out b/4 it's too late!!!! You

Can do it and you Can make it through this horrific time in your life and you

Can do it on your own! If your case is a bit different,such as me..i had no

friends at all and that was the way my ex wanted it! I went to my family and i

thank god for them everyday and thank God that he gave me the strength to get

out of this living hell and be able to get at minimum my dignity back!! We are

human too and none of us deserve this no matter what!!! Be Strong and stand up

for yourself because sometimes noone else will!! Good luck to all and don't

hesittate to ask for our help here in our group! we are are always here for each

other and that makes a world of differnce!!! Thanks for reading and i hope this

can help at least 1 person

because then i know i did what i set out to do!! Give all women hope,never give

up no matter how bad it gets, " i know how hard that is to do believe you me,i've

been there and back and have the t-shirt " ! I suffer pain every second of every

day of my life yet i got rid of that black cloud that was hanging over my head

striking my down like a bolt of lightening every chance he got and more!! Bless

your hearts and lets be strong togetherWishing everyone a life with No black

cloud!! Syndi

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>Believe me,it's not as easy as it sounds when it comes to getting

out of this abusive relationship! After years of being bashed,slammed

and mentally tortured,you finally believe that you are worthless and

no good to anyone or anything! This abuse wears you down to the

ground like a squashed bug!! Without any outside contact you can't

help falling victim to whatever your partner is saying about you or

doing to you!! You lose your identity,any self esteem or selfworth!

There WILL come a point in time..sooner or later,that you will say " i

have to stop this and have to get out " ! Save Your Own Life..Nonone

Else Is Going To Do It For You " ! Be Strong,Your'e In My Prayers as is

everyone that is going through this Hell of their own!!!Thanks,Syndi

> Syndi,

> Oh, your story has touched me. Tears of pain came to my eyes when

I read your story. First of all I am so sorry! I am sorry for your

pain, and the fact that you had no friends to support you. I hope

that some of my friends will step up and help. But I dont' have

many. I am going to take your advice and run with it. I am hurting

right now so badly. Just from the sick little things that he does

knowing that it will emotionally destroy me.

> cbaker

>

>

> Re: Sex and affection/Cheryl ...still learning to

reply to post forg

>

> This is almost like an epidemic when it comes to us women that are

inflicted with fibromyalga and/or chronic fatigue! I've read many

many posts from now and in the past years.It truely is very

frightening that soo many of us have very similar stories about our

husbands,boyfrinds, partners, etc. purposley causing and adding to

our pain and laughing in our faces as they do it! The physical and

mental abuse they put us through it utterly uncalled for and sickens

me to death!! I too have been a victim of this so called " oops, i'm

sorry hunieeeee,i didn't mean to hurt you " line of crap that they

feed us after they blacken our eyes,choke us,elbow or knee us in the

back until we are bruised, force themselves on us sexually,slam on

the car breaks and laugh as our foreheads bounce off the dash or

crack into the side of the window! I also have experienced blackouts

due to my husband at the time " now my ex " thank God for

that....getting my meds for me and adding more

> or

> finding something that i wasn't even suppose to be

taking " phsychotropi c drug " ! As i would wake up hours later on the

bathroom floor with tooth paste smeared all over my face,in my

hair,on my clothes and all over the bathroom,i would scream for my

husband to come help me,so scared and in wonder how on the face of

this planet did i end up on the floor in this mess,hoping he was

going to help me....NOT!!! All i heard was how i was losing my mind

and going crazy,i was a nut case he would tell me over and over

again, " screaming at me and saying look at yourself...you look like

fool,you sick b?cth,and then drag me from the bathroom and put my in

front of the mirror and say " look,just look at what you put me

through,you are crazy and slap me or swear at me and all i could do

was to try to get up and get away from him! What a sick satisfaction

they get out of this!! that was the last straw for me and i went and

filed for divorce immediatly!! I would not be here

> typing this if i would not have done it and that i can

guarantee!!! ! So Please,anyone out there that is being abused in any

way,shape or form you DO NOT have to go thru this anymore!!! You have

to get out b/4 it's too late!!!! You Can do it and you Can make it

through this horrific time in your life and you Can do it on your

own! If your case is a bit different,such as me..i had no friends at

all and that was the way my ex wanted it! I went to my family and i

thank god for them everyday and thank God that he gave me the

strength to get out of this living hell and be able to get at minimum

my dignity back!! We are human too and none of us deserve this no

matter what!!! Be Strong and stand up for yourself because sometimes

noone else will!! Good luck to all and don't hesittate to ask for our

help here in our group! we are are always here for each other and

that makes a world of differnce!!! Thanks for reading and i hope this

can help at least 1 person

> because then i know i did what i set out to do!! Give all women

hope,never give up no matter how bad it gets, " i know how hard that is

to do believe you me,i've been there and back and have the t-shirt " !

I suffer pain every second of every day of my life yet i got rid of

that black cloud that was hanging over my head striking my down like

a bolt of lightening every chance he got and more!! Bless your hearts

and lets be strong togetherWishing everyone a life with No black

cloud!! Syndi

>

> ____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _

> Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your home page.

> http://www.yahoo. com/r/hs

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