Re: Re: - LINK CONTAINS SENSITIVE STUFF.

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- This is awful, for you, I am sure there is no sense to worry about

why she is like this, it seems like she is finding you a threat, as my

EX-sister-in-law felt I was the whole time they were married. I never

understood it, and never knew why she was this way until after they divorced and

my brother told me she was jealous of me. ???? She did not go that far as to

prohibit visiting, I don't think my brother would go for that, but it sure was

rough. I asked him why would she be jealous or threatened as I was his sister,

and could certainly not date him. He said, she just had her own issues, and did

not like that we were close, as I now know, and always summised she was not the

person she portrayed to him, and I believe this was the threat she new I saw

right through her and on a couple times only told him this and he sided with

her, being his wife,, well now he knows, she tried to stab him before he gave up

on his marriage! Now get this, today I get a

call from my husband's grown 20 yr old son, who long story short was the one to

fight for my husband's right to have his visitation awarded by the court's back

in 87, well we have fought all the way with his mother, who commited fraud

against the State,collecting a welfare check and getting her child support at

the same time. We discovered this along time ago, but no one would listen

there, until this yr., but it is past statue of limitation and nothing can be

done to her!, I can not believe u can commit fraud and there is a time limit on

the amt. of time to prosecute. Anyway he has basically been raised by her

because we just stopped fighting with her every step, she lied, desieved, and

cheated my husband, and the state all her life, but this kid, who is now grown

to be like her selfish, doesn't work, expect's to be catered to or no effort put

forth, smokes pot, and bums around, calls me and chews me out for his

relationship gone bad between his father he and the

mother! I as sick as I have been climbed up the stairs here last summer

changed my femine looking spare room to a male room because he called up and

told us he was sick of his mother, and she had thrown him and his brother out

because she had a new boyfriend she wanted in.!!!!!! He never came wanted us

to take his brother who is not ours in also. He has stomped on my husband's

heart and feelings for the last time, I have watched this for too too many yrs.

this woman is a cold cold hearted hatefull woman, and I don't hae time for her

anymore, nor him, if he wants to keep listening to her, he is grown now, and we

both have asked him to give my husband a chance at being his father that the

mother always prevented, now she is pushing. How do you let go of things like

this when we feel like we feel, mind our own businness, and people keep pushing

these issues on a person, well I blasted him 10yrs in the making! I hope I can

let go of it, now but I don't think it is over.

I am not usually that aggressive in less pushed and, end up feeling it for

letting myself get that mad, but it is done, and as you say sometimes it is not

in our control whether we can let go of something. I hope you get your brother

back soon as only a evil person would be that cruel to keep family members apart

.. Take Care Sun is out here but it is freezing. Better days

ahead??????? Let's help Sharon

wrote:

I agree with you to some extent . I am going thru some bad family

stuff right now and was going to just let it go but she gets away with too much

so I have decided to confront her on it all. I shall write it down first so I

can cover it all as you tend to forget some things when you are so hurt and

angry.

Mine is that my sister-in-law does not want my brother and I to see each other.

I moved here to be close to him as he requested. I am not allowed in the house

or him in mine. No phone contact. I don't even know what I did. Yesterday she

said she couldn't control my brother when I was around. do I tell him what is

going on. I hate to cause trouble between them but he has told me the marriage

is dead. He keeps telling me to hang on as I want to move back home. What to do?

Little

LINDA

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