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Well, I called my sister-in-law and asked if we could straighten out an issue I

had. I explained how I felt and she denied saying I couldn't come over. Guess

she figured I'd tell my brother which I most certainly will as she has gotten

away with enough of her lies and deceit. At least my brother sees thru her.

But unless I tell him what she has done to me he'd never know. I just hate

causing problems. But I am going over this week-end whether she likes it or

not. We'll she how she acts. I will not lose my only brother that I raised.

All she did today was put him down but I kept my mouth shut. I've had enough.

Can't wait for Saturday to get here!! Going aginst the devil himself.

God bless

Little

LINDA

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like it or not I will be right with you to stand up for yourself and

your brother, this does sound like the only solution, face her head on with your

brother there, and let them both know how you feel. I hope you make out for

the best. Take Care, Sharon

wrote: Well, I called my

sister-in-law and asked if we could straighten out an issue I had. I explained

how I felt and she denied saying I couldn't come over. Guess she figured I'd

tell my brother which I most certainly will as she has gotten away with enough

of her lies and deceit. At least my brother sees thru her. But unless I tell him

what she has done to me he'd never know. I just hate causing problems. But I am

going over this week-end whether she likes it or not. We'll she how she acts. I

will not lose my only brother that I raised. All she did today was put him down

but I kept my mouth shut. I've had enough. Can't wait for Saturday to get here!!

Going aginst the devil himself.

God bless

Little

LINDA

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Hi ,

I'm sorry you are having such a tough time with your sister-in-law or is she

his girl friend. It's terrible how she has lied to you and that she didn't want

you to come over. I'm glad that you think your brother can see right through

her. Taking a stand now before more time goes by seems to be the best idea.

Hope everything goes well.

Marti

wrote:

Well, I called my sister-in-law and asked if we could straighten out

an issue I had. I explained how I felt and she denied saying I couldn't come

over. Guess she figured I'd tell my brother which I most certainly will as she

has gotten away with enough of her lies and deceit. At least my brother sees

thru her. But unless I tell him what she has done to me he'd never know. I just

hate causing problems. But I am going over this week-end whether she likes it or

not. We'll she how she acts. I will not lose my only brother that I raised. All

she did today was put him down but I kept my mouth shut. I've had enough. Can't

wait for Saturday to get here!! Going aginst the devil himself.

God bless

Little

LINDA

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Hi Sharon,

It really sounds like you've been through the wringer on this one. Do you and

your husband want to stay in touch with his son who is 20. You said he called

today. Was that about not moving in? I admit I got a little confused - brain

fog! It was really nice of you to fix up a room for him to come live with you.

I hope all of this stuff gets worked out soon.

Marti

sharon studley wrote:

- This is awful, for you, I am sure there is no sense to worry

about why she is like this, it seems like she is finding you a threat, as my

EX-sister-in-law felt I was the whole time they were married. I never understood

it, and never knew why she was this way until after they divorced and my brother

told me she was jealous of me. ???? She did not go that far as to prohibit

visiting, I don't think my brother would go for that, but it sure was rough. I

asked him why would she be jealous or threatened as I was his sister, and could

certainly not date him. He said, she just had her own issues, and did not like

that we were close, as I now know, and always summised she was not the person

she portrayed to him, and I believe this was the threat she new I saw right

through her and on a couple times only told him this and he sided with her,

being his wife,, well now he knows, she tried to stab him before he gave up on

his marriage! Now get this, today I get a

call from my husband's grown 20 yr old son, who long story short was the one to

fight for my husband's right to have his visitation awarded by the court's back

in 87, well we have fought all the way with his mother, who commited fraud

against the State,collecting a welfare check and getting her child support at

the same time. We discovered this along time ago, but no one would listen there,

until this yr., but it is past statue of limitation and nothing can be done to

her!, I can not believe u can commit fraud and there is a time limit on the amt.

of time to prosecute. Anyway he has basically been raised by her because we just

stopped fighting with her every step, she lied, desieved, and cheated my

husband, and the state all her life, but this kid, who is now grown to be like

her selfish, doesn't work, expect's to be catered to or no effort put forth,

smokes pot, and bums around, calls me and chews me out for his relationship gone

bad between his father he and the

mother! I as sick as I have been climbed up the stairs here last summer changed

my femine looking spare room to a male room because he called up and told us he

was sick of his mother, and she had thrown him and his brother out because she

had a new boyfriend she wanted in.!!!!!! He never came wanted us to take his

brother who is not ours in also. He has stomped on my husband's heart and

feelings for the last time, I have watched this for too too many yrs. this woman

is a cold cold hearted hatefull woman, and I don't hae time for her anymore, nor

him, if he wants to keep listening to her, he is grown now, and we both have

asked him to give my husband a chance at being his father that the mother always

prevented, now she is pushing. How do you let go of things like this when we

feel like we feel, mind our own businness, and people keep pushing these issues

on a person, well I blasted him 10yrs in the making! I hope I can let go of it,

now but I don't think it is over.

I am not usually that aggressive in less pushed and, end up feeling it for

letting myself get that mad, but it is done, and as you say sometimes it is not

in our control whether we can let go of something. I hope you get your brother

back soon as only a evil person would be that cruel to keep family members apart

.. Take Care Sun is out here but it is freezing. Better days ahead???????

Let's help Sharon

wrote:

I agree with you to some extent . I am going thru some bad family stuff

right now and was going to just let it go but she gets away with too much so I

have decided to confront her on it all. I shall write it down first so I can

cover it all as you tend to forget some things when you are so hurt and angry.

Mine is that my sister-in-law does not want my brother and I to see each other.

I moved here to be close to him as he requested. I am not allowed in the house

or him in mine. No phone contact. I don't even know what I did. Yesterday she

said she couldn't control my brother when I was around. do I tell him what is

going on. I hate to cause trouble between them but he has told me the marriage

is dead. He keeps telling me to hang on as I want to move back home. What to do?

Little

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Dear Little ,

I hope all of this works out for you soon. I don't like hearing you being

upset :-(

Sending lots of hugs,

Annie

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Thank you to all who have made my decision easier with my sister-in-law. Well

we';; see what tomorrow brings and I'll let you know. I feel very strong now

and will not let her bully me in any way.

God bless

Little

LINDA

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