Re: Marti you are always amazing me

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Marti I can not believe it, you also fly planes! That is amazing. You

truly. are the daredevil.. Do you still fly when you are feeling better? Hope to

find you feeling on the better then worst side. It is freezing here and

waiting another Nor easter with 10 inches. Hope Ct is kinder to you all there.

Take Care of yourself. Sharon in ME.

Marti Boguski wrote: Hi Cheryl,

What you Mom has had to go through is just horendous. It is so terrible that

these young men and women take a job to care for someone, who needs constant

care, and just don't do there job. It's hard to believe that people like that

are in this world, but I know all too well that they are. What a good idea to

call the police. They sounded very helpful. I so hope your mom is OK and that

the tests come back fine.

I'm sorry that you are afraid of flying. I've been a dare devil all my life and

not only love to fly, but get exilerated when the plane is taking off and

landing. I know that I am unusual in liking that, but I fly myself and have

flown in all sorts of conditions, even instuments only, and it just makes it

more fun.

I know there are many out there who are afaid of flying and I really feel for

you. I wish you could enjoy it like I do, but know that is not possible for a

lot of people. My daughter is deathly afraid of flying. She gets a window seat

and turns her head toward the window and just sobs. She has to travel some for

work, not flying is not an option. I have talked her into getting her doctor to

give her a Xanax or Valium to take before she gets on the plane next time so she

might not have the paralizing fear. I think that's a good idea for anyone who is

afraid of flying.

Luckily my son likes to fly with me, but on one trip to Nantucket (about 20 min

from Hyannis on the Cape) it was very overcast and I had to fly instruments

only, which worked out fine and didn't bother either of us We were going to my

daughter Liz's wedding and so my daughter Andi was already there. Most people

took the ferry; I hate ferries. It talkes over an hour and 1/2. So boring.

Anyway Andi found out what and I had done and yelled at me " I can't contol

your being crazy and flyng in these conditions but don't you ever take my

brother with you again. " I was a little put off by her tone (since she was 27),

but got over it quickly because I know she was just afraid for her brother. This

was in 2000 when both my daughters got married, Liz in May and Andi in October.

What a fun year!

Sorry I got side tracked. I do have AADD and it makes me wander from subject to

subject.

My prayers will be with you and your mom and with your having a very safe,

uneventful flight.

I hope you are able to get all of this straightened out for the best. It must be

hard having to take care of all of this when you live far away.

Blessed be,

Marti

Cheryl Deacon wrote:

Good Evening Everyone, Well I guess I am going back to Cal. My Mom who was only

a few days,is back in the hosptail,has fallen again,she has aid at the house,and

yesterday when I finally got someone to answer the phone,My Mom tells me that

just barely got her breakfast,because her aid had not gotten out of bed until

noon. Well,i guess this Morning she tried to do it herself, well she fell,and

ended up at Scripps La Holla Hosptail, in the heart unit,they were doing head

scans on her. If I hadnt call the police to do a welfare check on her,i never

would have found out.The police even gave me the phone number to the

hosptail,they were so helpful. Now,I am flying back there on Monday,and I am so

afraid to fly,I ask that you all keep me in your prayers. And my mom too. I will

keep you all informed of what happens,all I know at this point,the aid has got

some explaining to do,and it better be good.I am having her removed as my Mom's

aid,and bringing her up on charges,see

I warned

her twice about taking care of my Mom.Well she didnt listen,now it is time to

pay the piper.Thanks Cheryl

Just Being Me

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