Re: Help What Can I do. herbal

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Just read your remedy for this horrible pain and I was thinking the same

thing, but can't help but remark to your closing suggestion. LOL u are a riot,

I want to tell u I would tell my husband that and may have before when I have

felt as bad as this girl does. This is a pure torture when taken to the bed

with no let up and newlywed or not he should not be thinking of that. His body

part can't be anywhere near the pain she is in, and there will be a next time.

I would add though tell him to take a old sock! Take Care all of you, feel

better. Sharon thinking crazy today. No offense meant.

wrote:

> I am going to make this short. I hardly post, just read.

But I need

> help someone who understands. I lay in bed all day yesterday in soo

> much pain hands swollen so tight I can hardly bend my fingers. I

> literally wanted to die I was hurting so bad (any tips would be

> helpful for a flarfeup that bad. But then my DH who was home all

day

> with me. Came to bed to remind the last time we had sex. I wanted

to

> strangle him. Now mind you we are newlyweds. He knew whta he was

> getting into. I need some advice. I am setting her crying now. I

have

> a call into my rheumo, he should call back soon. Thanks so much...

>

> Holly

> 33, NC

>

> I thought about suggesting that the next time he isn't feeling

well, you turn the tables on him and ask him the same question! But

that's probably counter productive. But I think I would remind him

of the level of pain you are/were in and perhaps ask him if he would

have wanted to have sex the next time HE is sick or is in serious

pain.

I do wonder about my husband's response when I asked him if he could

remember the last time we had been that close? His response was

that " well, you keep getting reservations for us at hotels with two

double beds! We were close several times when we had a room with a

king size bed, but you stopped doing that! " What does that have to

do with us having any contact when we are home??? I do realize that,

because we don't sleep in the same bed and the same room --- because

of my restless leg syndrome, my insomina which so often leads me to

reading with a light on until I fall asleep --- it isn't always the

same, but he would get so mad when I had really bad problems. The

restless leg problem was so severe that my entire body would jerk and

it did distrub his sleep and while I didn't appreciate his yelling at

me, I could understand that it could have been hard on him!!!

But I can certainly understand that what your husband said was very

hurtful and also said at a most inappropriate time.

Hope you feel better soon!

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