Re: Sharon - your DH's ex To Sharon From Debra

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Sharon, she will get her paybacks someday. People like that just live to make

everyone else miserable and keep chaos around them. It is terribly sad for the

child and your husband. What the hell makes her even a fit mother? Your

husband has nothing to blame himself for. She is the evil in this matter. And

unfortunately, you also have to deal with the consequences since of course your

husbands problems are also yours.

The woman is obviously twisted. Someday maybe the boy will think for himself

and see the truth.

hugs,

Debra V.

sharon studley wrote:

Thankyou for your support. When we were in court with her one time, even my

husband's atty said she is a cold hearted hatefull woman. Isn't that sad that

someone is that miserable with there own life, they entertain themselves with

trying to distroy others, to bad though she has met her match with me because as

sick as I have been, I still am not backing down to her, and she is not worth

the energy to fight with her so I just keep letting the local P.D take record of

her calls here and eventually I can take her gold digging, butt back to court

and she faces 1 yr in jail and a 2,000 fine. I just don't have the energy to

drive to the courthouse 20 mins to see the judge letting them know she has

broken my harrasment protection order against her. Her day is coming, I am not

sitting waiting for it but just know it will.

Thanks again. Hope your finding today a

better day.

Sharon ME.

Jeanne and Dave wrote: Sharon - I

couldn't make it through your whole post, but from what I did read, this woman

sounds like the ideal " evil bitch " character on soap operas. I'm so sorry it is

a reality for you and your husband.

Jeanne in WI

Hey Marti- Well this is the thing. My husband has been stompled on his heart

broken when this evil woman took his son away changed his last name, and did

everything she could to prevent visitation. I met my husband, found she had a

judgement to allow visits anytime my husband wanted with a 24 hr notice, she had

been in contempt of this for 8yrs. when I got him to seek an atty. He is an

offshore scalloper and had just gotten tired of getting the police called any

time he contacted her to see him. She would be right at the dock when the boat

came in though to get her support. She has gone through life poisioning this

boy's mind. One time we were living in Ma. I had just had my knee operated on 2

days before, when she approved a 2 day visit up here in Me. my husband was so

excited, we or should I say I drove us up 3 hrs, as my husband had not had a

chance to renew his license being gone so much, expired, but I wanted so bad for

him the chance to re-meet and have a

relationship. We got to her house and were sitting out front, my knee in

bandage galore and killing, when we get surrounded by cops!,she had called them

once we called to let her know we had gotten in town, and told them we were

there and she feared we were going to kidnap her son!, she had taken him to his

g.mothers. The cops would not believe me that she had called and approved a

visit. He was mean dispite my telling him I was in no condition to kidnap a ant

let alone a 8yr old, and this has continued to be her pattern, she was married

before has another son, and did this same thing to that man, he moved away to

Fla with his wife as she continued to interupt his and her life same things. I

and my husband tried and tried to keep contact, keep peace but it is impossible

with her, she is a control freak and thinks she can tell me how, when, where,

why, and her way. My husband started going back and forth on how he felt with

this boy or suppose to be young man a couple yrs

ago, as he visited hear and there when he fought with his mother, then he

would go back and we would not hear and he would be angry because what his

mother has fed him. I asked him to give his father a chance now that he is older

showing him he is not the man she painted him to be. He hasn't, My husband feels

bad now that he feels not really anything for this boy, but yet how can he, he

new him 10 mo's and about 2wks out of a mo he was gone from home, at one time it

was??? whether he was the father as he came home early one trip and she was

caught, but recent test said yes. So now it stands it was last summer he was to

stay here, and now we are here to today! The ? is how can my husband have

feelings for someone he doesn't know, he has tried and tried and he was never

given the chance to know him, love him, and help him grow. He lives with such an

awful turn out. I say it is not his fault, he tried, he did not give up until

now. And the mother paved the road for

this and now she wants to revamp? reconstruct? And the drug and under age

drinking, no job, sits around all day, I can't handle. I raised my childeren,

and I can't take my energy anymore with this exspecially with someone who is

20yrs old. Is this wrong? No moves can be made without her in it. Please

inlighten me if I am twisted in thinking this, and just distorted from all we

have been through with this for 11yrs. This is a woman who took her son to

Canada to drink with because it is legal his age up there. That son now is 25,

can not live on his own, wets himself and all over the house when she let's them

back home, because he is so intoxicated. Thanks for your concern because I do

not like that I let myself get that upset over this. Sharon