Guest guest Posted March 7, 2008 Report Share Posted March 7, 2008 So sorry to hear of so much stress and worry honey. Just try to take it a day at a time. I don't know what would cause his white count to be low. Hope they figure that out. And as for dialysis, maybe he will decide to do it if he has to. It does not sound appealing to most people but the will to live will do alot for us. I truly feel for you. It is so hard to deal with the stress and worry of a loved one when we have this illness. I am almost feeling guilty about my husband's surgery next week... I seem to be worried more about me and how I will function than I am about him. That sounds so selfish. But I just don't know how I will deal with the change in routine when the smallest little thing is just too much for me to do. My heart is certainly with you honey. You are such a special person and always are here to give support to everyone. Try to take care of yourself. love and hugs from the heart, Debra V. --------------------------------- Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2008 Report Share Posted March 7, 2008 Thank you, Debra. You always seem to know just what to say. I'm feeling the same way about my dad as you are worrying about how you will handle your husband's surgery next week. I don't think we are selfish. It may seem that way to others, but we know how our bodies react to the changes in routine and stress, so it is quite alright to think about ourselves in addition to our loved ones. Sounds like next week could be a doozy for both of us. Big, soft hugs right back atcha. Jeanne in WI So sorry to hear of so much stress and worry honey. Just try to take it a day at a time. I don't know what would cause his white count to be low. Hope they figure that out. And as for dialysis, maybe he will decide to do it if he has to. It does not sound appealing to most people but the will to live will do alot for us. I truly feel for you. It is so hard to deal with the stress and worry of a loved one when we have this illness. I am almost feeling guilty about my husband's surgery next week... I seem to be worried more about me and how I will function than I am about him. That sounds so selfish. But I just don't know how I will deal with the change in routine when the smallest little thing is just too much for me to do. My heart is certainly with you honey. You are such a special person and always are here to give support to everyone. Try to take care of yourself. love and hugs from the heart, Debra V. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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