Guest guest Posted December 19, 2010 Report Share Posted December 19, 2010 Dear Jayne, So lovely that you were able to work out the prayers for Hanukah so you could share this time with Miki. Re: Wish you all peace and serenity this holiday season...and good health next year. All sincere good wishes right back to you..............and all the best for the Mikster. Lucille Happy Holidays to All; It's been kind of lonely here without Miki. When I called to ask the facility what they were doing for Hanukah we came up with a great idea. I lit my menorah and did the prayer at 5 pm every night and skyped to them. They have 2 other kids besides Miki that celebrated and none of the adults knew how to do the prayer. One of the boys had been Bat Mitzvahed and could do the prayer with me. The whole thing was too cute and helped to make it less lonely here without the Mikster. She's doing great. I still get weekly calls that she needs restraint. I can't expect her to change this quickly, but now with the new law it makes it more in my face when it needs to be done. I don't want flames on this, It is as difficult as when they took her to a hospital to x ray her hand they thought she broke during a tantrum. It is difficult to accept that my beautiful little girl hurts herself and I hope she learns not to. Wish you all peace and serenity this holiday season...and good health next year. Jayne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2010 Report Share Posted December 19, 2010 Happy Holidays to All; It's been kind of lonely here without Miki. When I called to ask the facility what they were doing for Hanukah we came up with a great idea. I lit my menorah and did the prayer at 5 pm every night and skyped to them. They have 2 other kids besides Miki that celebrated and none of the adults knew how to do the prayer. One of the boys had been Bat Mitzvahed and could do the prayer with me. The whole thing was too cute and helped to make it less lonely here without the Mikster. She's doing great. I still get weekly calls that she needs restraint. I can't expect her to change this quickly, but now with the new law it makes it more in my face when it needs to be done. I don't want flames on this, It is as difficult as when they took her to a hospital to x ray her hand they thought she broke during a tantrum. It is difficult to accept that my beautiful little girl hurts herself and I hope she learns not to. Wish you all peace and serenity this holiday season...and good health next year. Jayne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2010 Report Share Posted December 19, 2010 We haven't met but I wanted to tell you that I admire your strength, and share this quote with you............ Courage isn't always a lion's roar.It is sometimes the heart at the end of the day saying..."I will try again tomorrow." I wish you peace and I send you love from the heart of one mother of a special needs child to another.If you ever need to talk I'm here without judgment,RhondaSubject: Miki update & HanukahTo: deniseslist Date: Sunday, December 19, 2010, 4:23 PM Happy Holidays to All; It's been kind of lonely here without Miki. When I called to ask the facility what they were doing for Hanukah we came up with a great idea. I lit my menorah and did the prayer at 5 pm every night and skyped to them. They have 2 other kids besides Miki that celebrated and none of the adults knew how to do the prayer. One of the boys had been Bat Mitzvahed and could do the prayer with me. The whole thing was too cute and helped to make it less lonely here without the Mikster. She's doing great. I still get weekly calls that she needs restraint. I can't expect her to change this quickly, but now with the new law it makes it more in my face when it needs to be done. I don't want flames on this, It is as difficult as when they took her to a hospital to x ray her hand they thought she broke during a tantrum. It is difficult to accept that my beautiful little girl hurts herself and I hope she learns not to. Wish you all peace and serenity this holiday season...and good health next year. Jayne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2010 Report Share Posted December 19, 2010 I am happy to hear Miki is happy and healthy.. Wishing you both a Happy and Healthy Holiday season and 2011 ! Regards, Stacey Subject: Miki update & HanukahTo: deniseslist Date: Sunday, December 19, 2010, 4:23 PM Happy Holidays to All; It's been kind of lonely here without Miki. When I called to ask the facility what they were doing for Hanukah we came up with a great idea. I lit my menorah and did the prayer at 5 pm every night and skyped to them. They have 2 other kids besides Miki that celebrated and none of the adults knew how to do the prayer. One of the boys had been Bat Mitzvahed and could do the prayer with me. The whole thing was too cute and helped to make it less lonely here without the Mikster. She's doing great. I still get weekly calls that she needs restraint. I can't expect her to change this quickly, but now with the new law it makes it more in my face when it needs to be done. I don't want flames on this, It is as difficult as when they took her to a hospital to x ray her hand they thought she broke during a tantrum. It is difficult to accept that my beautiful little girl hurts herself and I hope she learns not to. Wish you all peace and serenity this holiday season...and good health next year. Jayne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 20, 2010 Report Share Posted December 20, 2010 Thank you for your update, and I hope nothing but the best for you and yours. My child never hurts himself but he finds great pleasure in hurting me and his grandma, it rips me to the core. I know he loves me and he tells me he does, but when he bites me I feel tortured. I know you must feel that way when Miki hurts herself. It is painful and isolating. I will pray for Miki as I pray for my son Zander. Happy holidays! Miki update & Hanukah Happy Holidays to All; It's been kind of lonely here without Miki. When I called to ask the facility what they were doing for Hanukah we came up with a great idea. I lit my menorah and did the prayer at 5 pm every night and skyped to them. They have 2 other kids besides Miki that celebrated and none of the adults knew how to do the prayer. One of the boys had been Bat Mitzvahed and could do the prayer with me. The whole thing was too cute and helped to make it less lonely here without the Mikster. She's doing great. I still get weekly calls that she needs restraint. I can't expect her to change this quickly, but now with the new law it makes it more in my face when it needs to be done. I don't want flames on this, It is as difficult as when they took her to a hospital to x ray her hand they thought she broke during a tantrum. It is difficult to accept that my beautiful little girl hurts herself and I hope she learns not to. Wish you all peace and serenity this holiday season...and good health next year. Jayne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 20, 2010 Report Share Posted December 20, 2010 Prayers and angels are being sent to you & Miki. Best wishes that the New Year will bring comfort to you both. To: sList Sent: Mon, December 20, 2010 7:30:26 AMSubject: Re: Miki update & Hanukah Thank you for your update, and I hope nothing but the best for you and yours. My child never hurts himself but he finds great pleasure in hurting me and his grandma, it rips me to the core. I know he loves me and he tells me he does, but when he bites me I feel tortured. I know you must feel that way when Miki hurts herself. It is painful and isolating. I will pray for Miki as I pray for my son Zander. Happy holidays! Miki update & Hanukah Happy Holidays to All; It's been kind of lonely here without Miki. When I called to ask the facility what they were doing for Hanukah we came up with a great idea. I lit my menorah and did the prayer at 5 pm every night and skyped to them. They have 2 other kids besides Miki that celebrated and none of the adults knew how to do the prayer. One of the boys had been Bat Mitzvahed and could do the prayer with me. The whole thing was too cute and helped to make it less lonely here without the Mikster. She's doing great. I still get weekly calls that she needs restraint. I can't expect her to change this quickly, but now with the new law it makes it more in my face when it needs to be done. I don't want flames on this, It is as difficult as when they took her to a hospital to x ray her hand they thought she broke during a tantrum. It is difficult to accept that my beautiful little girl hurts herself and I hope she learns not to. Wish you all peace and serenity this holiday season...and good health next year. Jayne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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