Re: Fwd: FW: Lori WoW Glad you were up also

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Lori- That is so sad!, and don't worry I am glad I was able to hear your

sorrow, and wish it were better. I don't understand how some can be so cruel,

and it hardens me to think there are woman out there so heartless to the good

men they have, that they walk all over them! My oldest son 24, who was 18 yrs

and works a hard hard job pouring foundations, dropped at work one day, with

pain, after several scans, and hospitalization, liver bioposy, was diagnoised

with Chron's, except for this stay he has not missed a day of work ever, does

not take his vacations, works them, OT. He had been with his g.friend from that

age up until past Oct. He had bought land, built a 3bd, 3ba walk out basement

Cape home, well last July she woke and let him now he had passed in her mind

what she thought was the time limit of getting married! Now she had been this

sweet, quiet, lovable girl, we all thought the world of her. She WAS insecure

that my son did not want to marry her, I kept

telling her they had been together 5yrs, just had this big home which by the

way she wanted this style he wanted to start smaller, and a little less, he

loved her and they needed to get comfortable with getting some of it pd, before

rushing for a big wedding which she would of settled for non less. If she would

of comprimised he may have done it sooner, but kept telling her it would happen

they were still young. Oh and by the way the appliances that SHE wanted and got

are top of the line, stainless steel kitch. marble counters, whirlpool tub, Big

front load W/D. So as of Oct. she first moved out and found comfort on the

couch of his and her friends brother who is 34 divorced and lives in mobile home

with parents paying child support to two girls 9,7. This went on against all's

advice, he begged her to come home stay and talk things through, her sisters

told her to come to there house, I told her come here, this was not right, did

not look good, no matter what she

claimed, she said he was her friend and talking to her, he also was my son's

friend first! Anyway she came in and out of the house, never staying, broke his

heart, my son is a really mature, lovable guy, and it tore me apart, as he is

very sensitive, he lost more weight which he can't afford with that stupid

disease, she would not come home. Oh, then in Dec. she says she is moving back

and he has to decide he is going to go back with her, or he has to leave!, this

is because he finally broke out of his low point and started visiting his other

friends he had put on hold because he was with her. Long story short, I find

out she through all this time, had been choosing to spend her time with

shopping, g.friends, etc. when he did have some time off even though he wanted

to hang out with her. She was getting upset because coming home nights from

work he was falling asleep at the table, watching t.v without telling her he

loved her! He works 12-14 hr shifts. 50hrs a week.

Now he has moved out she was suppose to buy him out has not happened, she

chases him around, wants him back, and wants to forget that she found solace on

the couch of another man! My son is in a good place right now, I think, at

least he is smiling again. And when he is ready there are alot of mature young

woman here who would love to have him, though I still know he loves her. What is

wrong with these girls I am hearing more females then men doing this type of

thing. So I hope your sons will find, that somewhere out there is someone

waiting to run across the few guys young and just wanting to work hard, have a

family life, and have a home, this is what my oldest son has wanted from H.S,

his brother is the schooler, he is in college taking engineering as he likes

money, and doesn't want a g.friend steady as he has always had his mind on

earning a living as something that pays well, and he is very very smart and I am

glad he is putting it to good use. He is not ready to

share his money with a female. LOL. As for disability I am doing that now, I

started it but believe I have to start over! I filed it from the house here in

Me., and because we also live in Mass., but have been in Me all winter I filed

from here, but was reminded by Dr. yesterday I need to file from my residence

State which is Ma., See someone always has to check on what I am doing. I put

off filing, as I don't want believe I can not work, I have worked all my life,

but it was reassured yesterday by the Dr. after i had even tried cutting back,

and I even tried changing, jobs. Lori, I agree once your children are grown you

think your worries, concerns etc lighten. I don't find that either, and

truthfully as many people that I have heard say they are glad there's are gone,

I would love to have mine home again. My daughter and only 2 g children live in

Ca. and I wish so bad they were close as I know this would ease my days, of

pain, and frustration, I so love them

around. I hope things get better for you. Tell your son's they in the long

run as I told my son who went through the girl thing, some day he will look back

and know it was for the best, though I have told him he should get what he

deserves out of that house, but he won't fight for it. They had not even been

it the house 4mo's when she pulled this, you passed the date, we need to take a

break! She now realizes though what she lost, and your sons I think are better

off without woman like them to drag them down. Take Care Sharon

Lori Hammer wrote:

Sharon,

I am in South Dakota and it is 5:30 am central time. My hubby just left for

work. I still feel so bad I can't be going to work like I use to. It makes me

feel guilty. I need to get started on Disability. He gets mad at me he says I

haven't started yet because I still do not accept I have a disease. He is right

even after 17 years of it. I do not want to give up my life and right now my

children all grown and gone. Sorry I had to take my meds! I just lost my second

grandchild and the wedding for my daughter was put on hold for awhile and then

she calls me the other night and tells me she is pregnant . She had just found

out. My oldest is the one who was going to have a child with his girlfriend of 5

years when all of the sudden she calls him and tells him she miscarried and that

he needed to get a life and grow up. He is heart broken. He thinks she may have

gotten an abortion as her brother and her mother said she should not have the

baby as she already has

one. Buster he is so cute and loved him just like his own. He took care of

her as he was the only one with a job and was running her everywhere.

unbelievable! My oldest was born on my birthday and he is so much like me he

wears his heart on his sleeve! He called this week also and just needed to talk

and is still having a hard hard time. The other grandchild we lost my middle son

knew nothing about this girl being pregnant until she miscarried. They had lived

together for a while and I tell you what that girl scared me she was a psycho.

Well I am sorry i laid all this on you I don't mean too. I just thought after

they left it would be easier! LOL Guess not huh? My pain doesn't wake me up very

often I just end up getting up. If you ever need anything while I am still here

let me know. hasn't said she doesn't need me since she has gotten back,

so I am still here for now. Take care!

Thanks for listening to my issues, sorry,

Lori J

sharon studley wrote:

Hey don't apoligize as I never know when I may forget something and get caught

and would of possible opened when schrolling onto e-mails one after another.

plus you refreshed me to pass it on to family members. Sooooo Thank you better a

million times then not at all Take Care hope your having a light day, night? not

sure where you are I woke with screaming pain in lower back right hip etc.

waiting for meds to kick in...Sharon

Lori Hammer wrote: Sorry, I just got it a little bit

ago and just wanted to make sure everyone got it. I apologize. Have a great day.

And nice to hear from you,

Gentle Hugs,

Lori J

sharon studley wrote:

Thanks and I did get this forwarded to me by my sis-in law from Hawaii she is

right up on sending me these alerts.

Lori Hammer wrote:

http://www.snopes.com/computer/virus/postcard

It's very important that you check this out on snopes.com and type

" Postcard Virus " in the Search. There are a LOT of variations to this

virus.

Cindy

>> Subject: Fwd: Fw: New PC Virus

>>

>This is real. The FBI is even involved.

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> > Hi All,I checked with Norton Anti-Virus, and they are

>> > gearing up for this

>> > virus! I checked snopes.com, and it is for real!! Get

>> > this E-mail message sent around to your contacts

>> > ASAP. PLEASE FORWARD THIS WARNING AMONG FRIENDS,

>> > FAMILY AND CONTACTS!

>> >

>> >

>You should be alert during the next few days. Do not

>> > open any message with an attachment entitled

>> > " POSTCARD, " regardless of who sent it to you

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> > It is a virus which opens A POSTCARD IMAGE, which

>> > 'burns' the whole hard disc C of

>> > your computer. This virus will be received from

>> > someone who has your e-mail address in his/her contact

>> > list.

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> > This is the reason why you need to send this e-mailto

>> > all your contacts. It is better to receive this

>> > message 25 times than to receive the virus and open

>> > it. If you receive a mail called " POSTCARD, " even

>> > though sent to you by a friend, do not open it.!

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> > Shut down your computer immediately. This is the worst

>> > virus announced by CNN. It has been classified by

>> > Microsoft as the most destructive virus ever. This

>> > virus was discovered by McAfee yesterday, and there is

>> > no repair yet for this kind of virus.

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> > This virus simply destroys the Zero Sector of the Hard

>> > Disc, where the vital information is kept. COPY THIS

>> > E-MAIL, AND SEND IT TO YOUR FRIENDS. REMEMBER: IF YOU

>> > SEND IT TO THEM, YOU WILL BENEFIT ALL OF US.

>>

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God's Blessings To You and Yours, JoyBird and Dennis

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