Re: Fwd: FW: Lori WoW Glad you were up also/ Thanks sharon

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Thank you Sharon. It just seems like you said some women have it made if they

would just look at what they have with the man they are with. Your son sounds

like a wonderful man and it sounds like he is a man now and she sees it but it

is too late. Too bad, so sad for her she blew it! AS far as the house goes he

should fight for that for when he finds the right person to share it with and

who appreciates it. And I have no doubt he will find her as Sorry and not to

offend anyone God has the right person for him and for mine. They just have to

all be patient.

I remember when I saw my husband for the first time! Man what a nerd horn

rimmed glasses (black) plaid shirt and striped pants. I was working at the

bakery in town and he and his mom and little brother walked in at first I

thought wow what a geeky family. But something about him made me keep thinking

about him. School started and he ended up hanging with my crowd. One of my

friends even ran off with his older brother so we had started talking on the

phone. I just knew in my heart that he was for me. The more I saw him the more

I knew he as to be a part of my life I even tried setting up with my other

friends but my jealousy got to be too much.I tried pushing him away but he kept

coming back.

Somehow I just knew! I try and tell the kids that story and how I felt at the

time. That you will know! I did anyway. My hubby is far from nerdy now he is

a Harley man and works very hard. When we first got married we lived in a very

small trailer. He did not have a job but I was still decorating cakes at the

bakery. Then all of the sudden one day he just grew up he would have 3-4 jobs

at one time.

It is interesting how life works itself out but unfortunately these days

anything goes anybody will sleep with anybody and its considered OK.

It scares me and when my daughters child comes into this world what is in

store for that baby. We love her fiance' but there are issues there that I

cannot talk about. He is African American and loves my daughter very much.

But he already has 5 children, which she has taken under her wing and loves

them all. But what happens when this baby comes? Scary. But we have always

instilled in our children that color does not matter. And to have respect for

all nationalities. Jonah is a good man and does take responsibility for all

those children. They have them every other weekend. Even my husband and I made

sure we included all those I guess they are grandchildren too and bought them

gifts at Christmas time. Actually it was kind of fun. I just really worry

about Kalli and what is going on in her life. We have already bought her

wedding dress. Hopefully it will fit when they decide to get married. Your

right you never get out of the parenting, I remember Saying

what you were talking about that i couldn't wait till they were grown and

gone. But when that time came it was the hardest time for me and the loneliest.

Empty Nest Syndrome. About the time my daughter and i were becoming friends she

grew up. They all 3 did. We use to go camping and have a 28ft fifth wheel

camper it was our family time. Now its over and it hurts. I still love to go

camping do not get me wrong but it is just not the same. I keep finding things

they left in the camper when they were little. Wonderful memories. And my kids

never fail to say I love you even in front of their friends and my boys are in

bands but they don't care if they hear or not it is always said not implied.

They were never in any real trouble when they hit their teens They were not

perfect either, I am not that kind of mother at all if they got in trouble they

were made to pay the price. Kalli was a cheerleader which made me proud as she

was heavy but stuck with it no matter

what for the 4 years Of High School, but even in her last year she never got

to be a varsity cheerleader. the middle one was all football and

continued to help coach after High School and the oldest is an awesome artist I

hope he finds some where in his life to do that for a living. I may post some

of his work in my album. He started drawing when he was 4. I was an artist

also, and so was my father The boys started rock bands and have awesome skills

with guitars drums whatever. singing. My husband was a singer in high school.

But when the boys had their first band practice in the basement I called my

father and held the phone so he could hear them and then thanked him for giving

them that talent and the noise. he laughed. On my parents 50th wedding

anniversary there were 3 generations on stage playing different things. It was

awesome.

Well I have to get going I have 2 schnauzer that need their baths and then

hair cuts which I taught my self to do. I had many a litter of them to learn

on. That was my thing for a while there is nothing like a baby schnauzer and

they were all home raised and pretty much potty trained before they were sold.

I loved everyone of them. At one point I had 2 females both have puppies at the

same time that was a blast , we took them all camping all 20 of them . of

course they were the hit of the campground. I miss it as this last female is

the last of the line and when she is gone the line that gave me so much

happiness is over. Oh well I probably couldn't keep up with anyway.

Well i am off to get started. i have 2 to get groomed.

Take care

Lori

Lori- That is so sad!, and don't worry I am glad I was able to hear

your sorrow, and wish it were better. I don't understand how some can be so

cruel, and it hardens me to think there are woman out there so heartless to the

good men they have, that they walk all over them! My oldest son 24, who was 18

yrs and works a hard hard job pouring foundations, dropped at work one day, with

pain, after several scans, and hospitalization, liver bioposy, was diagnoised

with Chron's, except for this stay he has not missed a day of work ever, does

not take his vacations, works them, OT. He had been with his g.friend from that

age up until past Oct. He had bought land, built a 3bd, 3ba walk out basement

Cape home, well last July she woke and let him now he had passed in her mind

what she thought was the time limit of getting married! Now she had been this

sweet, quiet, lovable girl, we all thought the world of her. She WAS insecure

that my son did not want to marry her, I kept

telling her they had been together 5yrs, just had this big home which by the way

she wanted this style he wanted to start smaller, and a little less, he loved

her and they needed to get comfortable with getting some of it pd, before

rushing for a big wedding which she would of settled for non less. If she would

of comprimised he may have done it sooner, but kept telling her it would happen

they were still young. Oh and by the way the appliances that SHE wanted and got

are top of the line, stainless steel kitch. marble counters, whirlpool tub, Big

front load W/D. So as of Oct. she first moved out and found comfort on the couch

of his and her friends brother who is 34 divorced and lives in mobile home with

parents paying child support to two girls 9,7. This went on against all's

advice, he begged her to come home stay and talk things through, her sisters

told her to come to there house, I told her come here, this was not right, did

not look good, no matter what she

claimed, she said he was her friend and talking to her, he also was my son's

friend first! Anyway she came in and out of the house, never staying, broke his

heart, my son is a really mature, lovable guy, and it tore me apart, as he is

very sensitive, he lost more weight which he can't afford with that stupid

disease, she would not come home. Oh, then in Dec. she says she is moving back

and he has to decide he is going to go back with her, or he has to leave!, this

is because he finally broke out of his low point and started visiting his other

friends he had put on hold because he was with her. Long story short, I find out

she through all this time, had been choosing to spend her time with shopping,

g.friends, etc. when he did have some time off even though he wanted to hang out

with her. She was getting upset because coming home nights from work he was

falling asleep at the table, watching t.v without telling her he loved her! He

works 12-14 hr shifts. 50hrs a week.

Now he has moved out she was suppose to buy him out has not happened, she chases

him around, wants him back, and wants to forget that she found solace on the

couch of another man! My son is in a good place right now, I think, at least he

is smiling again. And when he is ready there are alot of mature young woman here

who would love to have him, though I still know he loves her. What is wrong with

these girls I am hearing more females then men doing this type of thing. So I

hope your sons will find, that somewhere out there is someone waiting to run

across the few guys young and just wanting to work hard, have a family life, and

have a home, this is what my oldest son has wanted from H.S, his brother is the

schooler, he is in college taking engineering as he likes money, and doesn't

want a g.friend steady as he has always had his mind on earning a living as

something that pays well, and he is very very smart and I am glad he is putting

it to good use. He is not ready to

share his money with a female. LOL. As for disability I am doing that now, I

started it but believe I have to start over! I filed it from the house here in

Me., and because we also live in Mass., but have been in Me all winter I filed

from here, but was reminded by Dr. yesterday I need to file from my residence

State which is Ma., See someone always has to check on what I am doing. I put

off filing, as I don't want believe I can not work, I have worked all my life,

but it was reassured yesterday by the Dr. after i had even tried cutting back,

and I even tried changing, jobs. Lori, I agree once your children are grown you

think your worries, concerns etc lighten. I don't find that either, and

truthfully as many people that I have heard say they are glad there's are gone,

I would love to have mine home again. My daughter and only 2 g children live in

Ca. and I wish so bad they were close as I know this would ease my days, of

pain, and frustration, I so love them

around. I hope things get better for you. Tell your son's they in the long run

as I told my son who went through the girl thing, some day he will look back and

know it was for the best, though I have told him he should get what he deserves

out of that house, but he won't fight for it. They had not even been it the

house 4mo's when she pulled this, you passed the date, we need to take a break!

She now realizes though what she lost, and your sons I think are better off

without woman like them to drag them down. Take Care Sharon

Lori Hammer wrote:

Sharon,

I am in South Dakota and it is 5:30 am central time. My hubby just left for

work. I still feel so bad I can't be going to work like I use to. It makes me

feel guilty. I need to get started on Disability. He gets mad at me he says I

haven't started yet because I still do not accept I have a disease. He is right

even after 17 years of it. I do not want to give up my life and right now my

children all grown and gone. Sorry I had to take my meds! I just lost my second

grandchild and the wedding for my daughter was put on hold for awhile and then

she calls me the other night and tells me she is pregnant . She had just found

out. My oldest is the one who was going to have a child with his girlfriend of 5

years when all of the sudden she calls him and tells him she miscarried and that

he needed to get a life and grow up. He is heart broken. He thinks she may have

gotten an abortion as her brother and her mother said she should not have the

baby as she already has

one. Buster he is so cute and loved him just like his own. He took care of

her as he was the only one with a job and was running her everywhere.

unbelievable! My oldest was born on my birthday and he is so much like me he

wears his heart on his sleeve! He called this week also and just needed to talk

and is still having a hard hard time. The other grandchild we lost my middle son

knew nothing about this girl being pregnant until she miscarried. They had lived

together for a while and I tell you what that girl scared me she was a psycho.

Well I am sorry i laid all this on you I don't mean too. I just thought after

they left it would be easier! LOL Guess not huh? My pain doesn't wake me up very

often I just end up getting up. If you ever need anything while I am still here

let me know. hasn't said she doesn't need me since she has gotten back,

so I am still here for now. Take care!

Thanks for listening to my issues, sorry,

Lori J

sharon studley wrote:

Hey don't apoligize as I never know when I may forget something and get caught

and would of possible opened when schrolling onto e-mails one after another.

plus you refreshed me to pass it on to family members. Sooooo Thank you better a

million times then not at all Take Care hope your having a light day, night? not

sure where you are I woke with screaming pain in lower back right hip etc.

waiting for meds to kick in...Sharon

Lori Hammer wrote: Sorry, I just got it a little bit

ago and just wanted to make sure everyone got it. I apologize. Have a great day.

And nice to hear from you,

Gentle Hugs,

Lori J

sharon studley wrote:

Thanks and I did get this forwarded to me by my sis-in law from Hawaii she is

right up on sending me these alerts.

Lori Hammer wrote:

http://www.snopes.com/computer/virus/postcard

It's very important that you check this out on snopes.com and type

" Postcard Virus " in the Search. There are a LOT of variations to this

virus.

Cindy

>> Subject: Fwd: Fw: New PC Virus

>>

>This is real. The FBI is even involved.

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> > Hi All,I checked with Norton Anti-Virus, and they are

>> > gearing up for this

>> > virus! I checked snopes.com, and it is for real!! Get

>> > this E-mail message sent around to your contacts

>> > ASAP. PLEASE FORWARD THIS WARNING AMONG FRIENDS,

>> > FAMILY AND CONTACTS!

>> >

>> >

>You should be alert during the next few days. Do not

>> > open any message with an attachment entitled

>> > " POSTCARD, " regardless of who sent it to you

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> > It is a virus which opens A POSTCARD IMAGE, which

>> > 'burns' the whole hard disc C of

>> > your computer. This virus will be received from

>> > someone who has your e-mail address in his/her contact

>> > list.

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> > This is the reason why you need to send this e-mailto

>> > all your contacts. It is better to receive this

>> > message 25 times than to receive the virus and open

>> > it. If you receive a mail called " POSTCARD, " even

>> > though sent to you by a friend, do not open it.!

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> > Shut down your computer immediately. This is the worst

>> > virus announced by CNN. It has been classified by

>> > Microsoft as the most destructive virus ever. This

>> > virus was discovered by McAfee yesterday, and there is

>> > no repair yet for this kind of virus.

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> > This virus simply destroys the Zero Sector of the Hard

>> > Disc, where the vital information is kept. COPY THIS

>> > E-MAIL, AND SEND IT TO YOUR FRIENDS. REMEMBER: IF YOU

>> > SEND IT TO THEM, YOU WILL BENEFIT ALL OF US.

>>

>>

>>

>>

God's Blessings To You and Yours, JoyBird and Dennis

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