Re: Not much support seems more like a clique- Sharon

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Sharon, you are so right girl. Thanks for being here. I welcome anyone here

that I have time to. Glad you are with us.

hugs to you,

Debra V.

sharon studley wrote: Hi-

I am not sure how to adress u only see your e-mail name, but wanted to say. I am

really truley sorry this has happened to you, but I am not sure what happened, I

have not even caught you on as for just now, I have been away, but also have

been in and out in the what I call in twilight zone feeling, and get into

trouble in many areas when I am like this, my loving do anything for me husband

is getting mad at me as I continue to space him out,not be able to make

decisions, have not even answered phones which is really got him puzzled as I am

a phone aholic! But anyway moving on, I somehow missed that you have been on,

and for whatever reason I missed you as I usually say hi if nothing more when

someone I see comes on. I am pretty new myself and don't know how to get around

on the site much except to read the e-mail way, and that means they come in by

the hundred's, and also belong newly to chai

group, and Beliefnet, so I scan through quite a bit through and

sometimes loose even important family e-mails because of my mind set!, but I

don't want you to think I would ever offend you or intentionally or anyone else.

I don't think anyone else here would either. I did not even know our post's can

be deleted out and not put on. I do know some funny things have been going on

with Yahoo. I have found the site to be very welcoming, I do hear from some, on

my post's more then others, and just figure like anyone else even though there

Posts maybe others and we also gravitate to each other more then others like if

we were out in the real world, personalities click better then others crafts,

gardening etc. that has been posted bring them closer and they go back and

forth, but I really do not see a clique even on my worst days that have been

frequent and I know myself I can be defensive, negative, jumpy and all the bad

traits I know I should not let out, and have worked on hard over the yrs to

conquer, and know at these times I if on the

site need to rethink, count to ten and go back off if I see something I don't

agree with, don't like, or feel members are being whatever I may think is

unfair. I feel there are hundred's of us on this site and most do there best to

be kind, we all have our days, and may appear rude, non caring and unresponsive

to questions posted, a cry of help, a response to a new member, with this

disease all this can happen, this is not a excuse for what happened to you, just

a heart felt apoligy from me as a member that you found yourself alone, and the

group was not interested in you, we were, I really think you got by passed in

the mist of hundreds of posts, or because things have not been happy for any of

us for quite awhile, around anywhere, if you had noticed factors being bad

weather, Pain, Space-out MInds, alot of illnesses beyond the Fibro. Anyway if

you are still able to access this I hope you read it and understand what could

of gone wrong, and just being on my fun Chia

site, know I am a newbie they are all established, I post, but they go back

and forth posting each other out by name, and sending either pic's of there

dogs. They don't respond to me unless I have a question, and they converse with

each other all day long every day. I stay on as I do like the cute pic's and

read the new info about the breed as this is new to me. I also though don't

think they mean not to adress me daily when I am on, but if in real need with a

question have been there. I am sorry you feel this way about this site, and

think you should give it another try. We can only post so much or I can at one

time, and it may take me days to get through all. Take Care, and wish you

better days no matter where you may go. Sharon

chainedtoabutterfly wrote: I've posted

twice and now my other one is not even posted.Well to heck

with it. I'm done here and will be canceling this group out! I found a

much better one where the people actually talk to you so good bye and I

hope you all get things worked out one day.