Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People

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Top 10 Terrific Traits of Autistic People

By Jo Rudy, About.com Guide

Updated February 09, 2010

If you're sick of hearing about all the "deficits" challenging people on the

autism spectrum, join the club. But for every down side to autism, there seems

to be a positive -- an unusual trait that rarely appears among the "typical"

community, but shines out among autistic folk. These plusses are well worth

celebrating.

1. Autistic People Rarely Lie

We all claim to value the truth, but almost all of us tell little white lies.

All, that is, except people on the autism spectrum. To them, truth is truth --

and a good word from a person on the spectrum is the real deal.

2. People on the Autism Spectrum Live in the Moment

How often do typical people fail to notice what's in front of their eyes because

they're distracted by social cues or random chitchat? People on the autism

spectrum truely attend to the sensory input that surrounds them. Many have

achieved the ideal of mindfulness.

3. People with Autism Rarely Judge Others

Who's fatter? Richer? Smarter? For people on the autism spectrum, these

distinctions hold much less importance than for typical folks. In fact, people

on the spectrum often see through such surface appearances to discover the real

person.

4. Autistic People are Passionate

Of course, not all autistic people are alike. But many are truly passionate

about the things, ideas and people in their lives. How many "typical" people can

say the same?

5. People with Autism Are Not Tied to Social Expectations

If you've ever bought a car, played a game or joined a club to fit in, you know

how hard it is to be true to yourself. But for people with autism, social

expectations can be honestly irrelevant. What matters is true liking, interest

and passion -- not keeping up with the es.

6. People with Autism Have Terrific Memories

How often do typical people forget directions, or fail to take note of colors,

names, and other details? People on the autism spectrum are often much more

tuned in to details. They may have a much better memory than their typical peers

for all kind of critical details.

7. Autistic People Are Less Materialistic

Of course, this is not universally true -- but in general, people with autism

are far less concerned with outward appearance than their typical peers. As a

result, they worry less about brand names, hairstyles and other expensive but

unimportant externals than most people do.

8. Autistic People Play Fewer Head Games

Who was that woman, and why were you looking at her? I know I TOLD you I didn't

mind if you went out, but why did you believe me? Most autistic people don't

play games like these -- and they assume that you won't either. It's a

refreshing and wonderful change from the Peyton Place emotional roller coaster

that mars too many typical relationships!

9. Autistic People Have Fewer Hidden Agendas

Most of the time, if a person on the autism spectrum tells you what he wants --

he is telling you what he wants. No need to beat around the bush, second guess,

and hope you're reading between the lines!

10. People with Autism Open New Doors for Neurotypicals

For some of us neurotypicals, having an autistic person in our lives has had a

profound positive impact on our perceptions, beliefs and expectations. For me,

at least, being the mom of a son on the autism spectrum has released me from a

lifetime of "should" -- and offered me a new world of "is."

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This is beautiful. I posted it on my wall to remind me that my kid shines, even

on the most challenging days!

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Me too. I just don't like saying autistic people. I wish everyone would say people with autism. My pet peeve, ugh

Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People

This is beautiful. I posted it on my wall to remind me that my kid shines, even on the most challenging days!

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I love this. How about writing down one gift your child has due to his autism? I bet it will make ALL of us smile! My son is musically gifted. He loves to sing the blues. If u want a big smile see him at www.YouTube.com/jalentube.Now--let us hear about your special child.With respect and admiration, s MahlerSent from my iPhone

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Top 10 Terrific Traits of Autistic People

By Jo Rudy, About.com Guide

Updated February 09, 2010

If you're sick of hearing about all the "deficits" challenging people on the

autism spectrum, join the club. But for every down side to autism, there seems

to be a positive -- an unusual trait that rarely appears among the "typical"

community, but shines out among autistic folk. These plusses are well worth

celebrating.

1. Autistic People Rarely Lie

We all claim to value the truth, but almost all of us tell little white lies.

All, that is, except people on the autism spectrum. To them, truth is truth --

and a good word from a person on the spectrum is the real deal.

2. People on the Autism Spectrum Live in the Moment

How often do typical people fail to notice what's in front of their eyes because

they're distracted by social cues or random chitchat? People on the autism

spectrum truely attend to the sensory input that surrounds them. Many have

achieved the ideal of mindfulness.

3. People with Autism Rarely Judge Others

Who's fatter? Richer? Smarter? For people on the autism spectrum, these

distinctions hold much less importance than for typical folks. In fact, people

on the spectrum often see through such surface appearances to discover the real

person.

4. Autistic People are Passionate

Of course, not all autistic people are alike. But many are truly passionate

about the things, ideas and people in their lives. How many "typical" people can

say the same?

5. People with Autism Are Not Tied to Social Expectations

If you've ever bought a car, played a game or joined a club to fit in, you know

how hard it is to be true to yourself. But for people with autism, social

expectations can be honestly irrelevant. What matters is true liking, interest

and passion -- not keeping up with the es.

6. People with Autism Have Terrific Memories

How often do typical people forget directions, or fail to take note of colors,

names, and other details? People on the autism spectrum are often much more

tuned in to details. They may have a much better memory than their typical peers

for all kind of critical details.

7. Autistic People Are Less Materialistic

Of course, this is not universally true -- but in general, people with autism

are far less concerned with outward appearance than their typical peers. As a

result, they worry less about brand names, hairstyles and other expensive but

unimportant externals than most people do.

8. Autistic People Play Fewer Head Games

Who was that woman, and why were you looking at her? I know I TOLD you I didn't

mind if you went out, but why did you believe me? Most autistic people don't

play games like these -- and they assume that you won't either. It's a

refreshing and wonderful change from the Peyton Place emotional roller coaster

that mars too many typical relationships!

9. Autistic People Have Fewer Hidden Agendas

Most of the time, if a person on the autism spectrum tells you what he wants --

he is telling you what he wants. No need to beat around the bush, second guess,

and hope you're reading between the lines!

10. People with Autism Open New Doors for Neurotypicals

For some of us neurotypicals, having an autistic person in our lives has had a

profound positive impact on our perceptions, beliefs and expectations. For me,

at least, being the mom of a son on the autism spectrum has released me from a

lifetime of "should" -- and offered me a new world of "is."

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Mine tooooo!Via BlackBerry Sender: sList Date: Thu, 10 Mar 2011 17:06:01 -0500 (EST)To: <sList >ReplyTo: sList Subject: Re: Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People Me too. I just don't like saying autistic people. I wish everyone would say people with autism. My pet peeve, ugh Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People This is beautiful. I posted it on my wall to remind me that my kid shines, even on the most challenging days!

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,

Thank you so much for sharing your video! I'm still beaming! Your son made my

day!

My son is 4.5 and also musically gifted. Did your son take any music/singing

lessons? If so, when did he start?

I would also like to share that my son draws beautifully and he has the biggest

and most genuine smile. Never to kiss up or get something he wants, just a real

true smile with beaming brown eyes that warms anyone who sees it

Shiri

>

> >

> >

> > ----- Forwarded Message ----

> >

> > To: Autism-Florida

> > Sent: Thu, March 10, 2011 6:21:59 AM

> > Subject: [Autism-Florida] Some Positives

> >

> >

> > Top 10 Terrific Traits of Autistic People

> > By Jo Rudy, About.com Guide

> > Updated February 09, 2010

> >

> > If you're sick of hearing about all the " deficits " challenging people on the

> > autism spectrum, join the club. But for every down side to autism, there

seems

> > to be a positive -- an unusual trait that rarely appears among the " typical "

> > community, but shines out among autistic folk. These plusses are well worth

> > celebrating.

> >

> > 1. Autistic People Rarely Lie

> > We all claim to value the truth, but almost all of us tell little white

lies.

> > All, that is, except people on the autism spectrum. To them, truth is truth

--

> > and a good word from a person on the spectrum is the real deal.

> >

> > 2. People on the Autism Spectrum Live in the Moment

> > How often do typical people fail to notice what's in front of their eyes

because

> > they're distracted by social cues or random chitchat? People on the autism

> > spectrum truely attend to the sensory input that surrounds them. Many have

> > achieved the ideal of mindfulness.

> >

> > 3. People with Autism Rarely Judge Others

> > Who's fatter? Richer? Smarter? For people on the autism spectrum, these

> > distinctions hold much less importance than for typical folks. In fact,

people

> > on the spectrum often see through such surface appearances to discover the

real

> > person.

> >

> > 4. Autistic People are Passionate

> > Of course, not all autistic people are alike. But many are truly passionate

> > about the things, ideas and people in their lives. How many " typical " people

can

> > say the same?

> >

> > 5. People with Autism Are Not Tied to Social Expectations

> > If you've ever bought a car, played a game or joined a club to fit in, you

know

> > how hard it is to be true to yourself. But for people with autism, social

> > expectations can be honestly irrelevant. What matters is true liking,

interest

> > and passion -- not keeping up with the es.

> >

> > 6. People with Autism Have Terrific Memories

> > How often do typical people forget directions, or fail to take note of

colors,

> > names, and other details? People on the autism spectrum are often much more

> > tuned in to details. They may have a much better memory than their typical

peers

> > for all kind of critical details.

> >

> > 7. Autistic People Are Less Materialistic

> > Of course, this is not universally true -- but in general, people with

autism

> > are far less concerned with outward appearance than their typical peers. As

a

> > result, they worry less about brand names, hairstyles and other expensive

but

> > unimportant externals than most people do.

> >

> > 8. Autistic People Play Fewer Head Games

> > Who was that woman, and why were you looking at her? I know I TOLD you I

didn't

> > mind if you went out, but why did you believe me? Most autistic people don't

> > play games like these -- and they assume that you won't either. It's a

> > refreshing and wonderful change from the Peyton Place emotional roller

coaster

> > that mars too many typical relationships!

> >

> > 9. Autistic People Have Fewer Hidden Agendas

> > Most of the time, if a person on the autism spectrum tells you what he wants

--

> > he is telling you what he wants. No need to beat around the bush, second

guess,

> > and hope you're reading between the lines!

> >

> > 10. People with Autism Open New Doors for Neurotypicals

> > For some of us neurotypicals, having an autistic person in our lives has had

a

> > profound positive impact on our perceptions, beliefs and expectations. For

me,

> > at least, being the mom of a son on the autism spectrum has released me from

a

> > lifetime of " should " -- and offered me a new world of " is. "

> >

> >

> >

>

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My son has the greatest most infectious laugh in the entire world. I don't know if that's down to the autism or not but I live to hear it... RhondaSubject: Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic PeopleTo: sList Date: Thursday, March 10, 2011, 7:00 PM

,

Thank you so much for sharing your video! I'm still beaming! Your son made my day!

My son is 4.5 and also musically gifted. Did your son take any music/singing lessons? If so, when did he start?

I would also like to share that my son draws beautifully and he has the biggest and most genuine smile. Never to kiss up or get something he wants, just a real true smile with beaming brown eyes that warms anyone who sees it

Shiri

>

> >

> >

> > ----- Forwarded Message ----

> >

> > To: Autism-Florida

> > Sent: Thu, March 10, 2011 6:21:59 AM

> > Subject: [Autism-Florida] Some Positives

> >

> >

> > Top 10 Terrific Traits of Autistic People

> > By Jo Rudy, About.com Guide

> > Updated February 09, 2010

> >

> > If you're sick of hearing about all the "deficits" challenging people on the

> > autism spectrum, join the club. But for every down side to autism, there seems

> > to be a positive -- an unusual trait that rarely appears among the "typical"

> > community, but shines out among autistic folk. These plusses are well worth

> > celebrating.

> >

> > 1. Autistic People Rarely Lie

> > We all claim to value the truth, but almost all of us tell little white lies.

> > All, that is, except people on the autism spectrum. To them, truth is truth --

> > and a good word from a person on the spectrum is the real deal.

> >

> > 2. People on the Autism Spectrum Live in the Moment

> > How often do typical people fail to notice what's in front of their eyes because

> > they're distracted by social cues or random chitchat? People on the autism

> > spectrum truely attend to the sensory input that surrounds them. Many have

> > achieved the ideal of mindfulness.

> >

> > 3. People with Autism Rarely Judge Others

> > Who's fatter? Richer? Smarter? For people on the autism spectrum, these

> > distinctions hold much less importance than for typical folks. In fact, people

> > on the spectrum often see through such surface appearances to discover the real

> > person.

> >

> > 4. Autistic People are Passionate

> > Of course, not all autistic people are alike. But many are truly passionate

> > about the things, ideas and people in their lives. How many "typical" people can

> > say the same?

> >

> > 5. People with Autism Are Not Tied to Social Expectations

> > If you've ever bought a car, played a game or joined a club to fit in, you know

> > how hard it is to be true to yourself. But for people with autism, social

> > expectations can be honestly irrelevant. What matters is true liking, interest

> > and passion -- not keeping up with the es.

> >

> > 6. People with Autism Have Terrific Memories

> > How often do typical people forget directions, or fail to take note of colors,

> > names, and other details? People on the autism spectrum are often much more

> > tuned in to details. They may have a much better memory than their typical peers

> > for all kind of critical details.

> >

> > 7. Autistic People Are Less Materialistic

> > Of course, this is not universally true -- but in general, people with autism

> > are far less concerned with outward appearance than their typical peers. As a

> > result, they worry less about brand names, hairstyles and other expensive but

> > unimportant externals than most people do.

> >

> > 8. Autistic People Play Fewer Head Games

> > Who was that woman, and why were you looking at her? I know I TOLD you I didn't

> > mind if you went out, but why did you believe me? Most autistic people don't

> > play games like these -- and they assume that you won't either. It's a

> > refreshing and wonderful change from the Peyton Place emotional roller coaster

> > that mars too many typical relationships!

> >

> > 9. Autistic People Have Fewer Hidden Agendas

> > Most of the time, if a person on the autism spectrum tells you what he wants --

> > he is telling you what he wants. No need to beat around the bush, second guess,

> > and hope you're reading between the lines!

> >

> > 10. People with Autism Open New Doors for Neurotypicals

> > For some of us neurotypicals, having an autistic person in our lives has had a

> > profound positive impact on our perceptions, beliefs and expectations. For me,

> > at least, being the mom of a son on the autism spectrum has released me from a

> > lifetime of "should" -- and offered me a new world of "is."

> >

> >

> >

>

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You're right , he tore that song up! Rhonda

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Top 10 Terrific Traits of Autistic People

By Jo Rudy, About.com Guide

Updated February 09, 2010

If you're sick of hearing about all the "deficits" challenging people on the

autism spectrum, join the club. But for every down side to autism, there seems

to be a positive -- an unusual trait that rarely appears among the "typical"

community, but shines out among autistic folk. These plusses are well worth

celebrating.

1. Autistic People Rarely Lie

We all claim to value the truth, but almost all of us tell little white lies.

All, that is, except people on the autism spectrum. To them, truth is truth --

and a good word from a person on the spectrum is the real deal.

2. People on the Autism Spectrum Live in the Moment

How often do typical people fail to notice what's in front of their eyes because

they're distracted by social cues or random chitchat? People on the autism

spectrum truely attend to the sensory input that surrounds them. Many have

achieved the ideal of mindfulness.

3. People with Autism Rarely Judge Others

Who's fatter? Richer? Smarter? For people on the autism spectrum, these

distinctions hold much less importance than for typical folks. In fact, people

on the spectrum often see through such surface appearances to discover the real

person.

4. Autistic People are Passionate

Of course, not all autistic people are alike. But many are truly passionate

about the things, ideas and people in their lives. How many "typical" people can

say the same?

5. People with Autism Are Not Tied to Social Expectations

If you've ever bought a car, played a game or joined a club to fit in, you know

how hard it is to be true to yourself. But for people with autism, social

expectations can be honestly irrelevant. What matters is true liking, interest

and passion -- not keeping up with the es.

6. People with Autism Have Terrific Memories

How often do typical people forget directions, or fail to take note of colors,

names, and other details? People on the autism spectrum are often much more

tuned in to details. They may have a much better memory than their typical peers

for all kind of critical details.

7. Autistic People Are Less Materialistic

Of course, this is not universally true -- but in general, people with autism

are far less concerned with outward appearance than their typical peers. As a

result, they worry less about brand names, hairstyles and other expensive but

unimportant externals than most people do.

8. Autistic People Play Fewer Head Games

Who was that woman, and why were you looking at her? I know I TOLD you I didn't

mind if you went out, but why did you believe me? Most autistic people don't

play games like these -- and they assume that you won't either. It's a

refreshing and wonderful change from the Peyton Place emotional roller coaster

that mars too many typical relationships!

9. Autistic People Have Fewer Hidden Agendas

Most of the time, if a person on the autism spectrum tells you what he wants --

he is telling you what he wants. No need to beat around the bush, second guess,

and hope you're reading between the lines!

10. People with Autism Open New Doors for Neurotypicals

For some of us neurotypicals, having an autistic person in our lives has had a

profound positive impact on our perceptions, beliefs and expectations. For me,

at least, being the mom of a son on the autism spectrum has released me from a

lifetime of "should" -- and offered me a new world of "is."

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I feel this way as well because Autism is only a PART of who my children are, it does not define All that they are.  From: sList [mailto:sList ] On Behalf Of Nila BenitoSent: Thursday, March 10, 2011 5:31 PMTo: sList Subject: Re: Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People Mine tooooo!Via BlackBerry Sender: sList Date: Thu, 10 Mar 2011 17:06:01 -0500 (EST)To: <sList >ReplyTo: sList Subject: Re: Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People Me too. I just don't like saying autistic people. I wish everyone would say people with autism. My pet peeve, ugh Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People This is beautiful. I posted it on my wall to remind me that my kid shines, even on the most challenging days!No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 10.0.1204 / Virus Database: 1435/3495 - Release Date: 03/09/11

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My daughter has the most creative imagination, my son, the most endearing laugh, and my baby daughter, the most loving nature. J From: sList [mailto:sList ] On Behalf Of Rhonda MoserSent: Thursday, March 10, 2011 7:48 PMTo: sList Subject: Re: Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People My son has the greatest most infectious laugh in the entire world. I don't know if that's down to the autism or not but I live to hear it... RhondaSubject: Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic PeopleTo: sList Date: Thursday, March 10, 2011, 7:00 PM , Thank you so much for sharing your video! I'm still beaming! Your son made my day!My son is 4.5 and also musically gifted. Did your son take any music/singing lessons? If so, when did he start?I would also like to share that my son draws beautifully and he has the biggest and most genuine smile. Never to kiss up or get something he wants, just a real true smile with beaming brown eyes that warms anyone who sees it Shiri> > > > > > > ----- Forwarded Message ----> > > > To: Autism-Florida > > Sent: Thu, March 10, 2011 6:21:59 AM> > Subject: [Autism-Florida] Some Positives> > > > > > Top 10 Terrific Traits of Autistic People> > By Jo Rudy, About.com Guide> > Updated February 09, 2010> > > > If you're sick of hearing about all the " deficits " challenging people on the> > autism spectrum, join the club. But for every down side to autism, there seems> > to be a positive -- an unusual trait that rarely appears among the " typical " > > community, but shines out among autistic folk. These plusses are well worth> > celebrating.> > > > 1. Autistic People Rarely Lie> > We all claim to value the truth, but almost all of us tell little white lies.> > All, that is, except people on the autism spectrum. To them, truth is truth --> > and a good word from a person on the spectrum is the real deal.> > > > 2. People on the Autism Spectrum Live in the Moment> > How often do typical people fail to notice what's in front of their eyes because> > they're distracted by social cues or random chitchat? People on the autism> > spectrum truely attend to the sensory input that surrounds them. Many have> > achieved the ideal of mindfulness.> > > > 3. People with Autism Rarely Judge Others> > Who's fatter? Richer? Smarter? For people on the autism spectrum, these> > distinctions hold much less importance than for typical folks. In fact, people> > on the spectrum often see through such surface appearances to discover the real> > person.> > > > 4. Autistic People are Passionate> > Of course, not all autistic people are alike. But many are truly passionate> > about the things, ideas and people in their lives. How many " typical " people can> > say the same?> > > > 5. People with Autism Are Not Tied to Social Expectations> > If you've ever bought a car, played a game or joined a club to fit in, you know> > how hard it is to be true to yourself. But for people with autism, social> > expectations can be honestly irrelevant. What matters is true liking, interest> > and passion -- not keeping up with the es.> > > > 6. People with Autism Have Terrific Memories> > How often do typical people forget directions, or fail to take note of colors,> > names, and other details? People on the autism spectrum are often much more> > tuned in to details. They may have a much better memory than their typical peers> > for all kind of critical details.> > > > 7. Autistic People Are Less Materialistic> > Of course, this is not universally true -- but in general, people with autism> > are far less concerned with outward appearance than their typical peers. As a> > result, they worry less about brand names, hairstyles and other expensive but> > unimportant externals than most people do.> > > > 8. Autistic People Play Fewer Head Games> > Who was that woman, and why were you looking at her? I know I TOLD you I didn't> > mind if you went out, but why did you believe me? Most autistic people don't> > play games like these -- and they assume that you won't either. It's a> > refreshing and wonderful change from the Peyton Place emotional roller coaster> > that mars too many typical relationships!> > > > 9. Autistic People Have Fewer Hidden Agendas> > Most of the time, if a person on the autism spectrum tells you what he wants --> > he is telling you what he wants. No need to beat around the bush, second guess,> > and hope you're reading between the lines!> > > > 10. People with Autism Open New Doors for Neurotypicals> > For some of us neurotypicals, having an autistic person in our lives has had a> > profound positive impact on our perceptions, beliefs and expectations. For me,> > at least, being the mom of a son on the autism spectrum has released me from a> > lifetime of " should " -- and offered me a new world of " is. " > > > > > >> No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 10.0.1204 / Virus Database: 1435/3495 - Release Date: 03/09/11

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I have autism. I do not like being called a label.

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This is beautiful. I posted it on my wall to remind me that my kid shines, even on the most challenging days!

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I could not even begin to count the endless terrific traits my daughter has as a person, however, she is such a blessing to me especially today - her 18th birthday!

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My son has the greatest most infectious laugh in the entire world. I don't know if that's down to the autism or not but I live to hear it... Rhonda

Subject: Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic PeopleTo: sList Date: Thursday, March 10, 2011, 7:00 PM

, Thank you so much for sharing your video! I'm still beaming! Your son made my day!My son is 4.5 and also musically gifted. Did your son take any music/singing lessons? If so, when did he start?I would also like to share that my son draws beautifully and he has the biggest and most genuine smile. Never to kiss up or get something he wants, just a real true smile with beaming brown eyes that warms anyone who sees it Shiri> > > > > > > ----- Forwarded Message ----> > > > To: Autism-Florida > > Sent: Thu, March 10, 2011 6:21:59 AM> > Subject: [Autism-Florida] Some Positives> > > > > > Top 10 Terrific Traits of Autistic People> > By Jo Rudy, About.com Guide> > Updated February 09, 2010> > > > If you're sick of hearing about all the "deficits" challenging people on the> > autism spectrum, join the club. But for every down side to autism, there seems> > to be a positive -- an unusual trait that rarely appears among

the "typical"> > community, but shines out among autistic folk. These plusses are well worth> > celebrating.> > > > 1. Autistic People Rarely Lie> > We all claim to value the truth, but almost all of us tell little white lies.> > All, that is, except people on the autism spectrum. To them, truth is truth --> > and a good word from a person on the spectrum is the real deal.> > > > 2. People on the Autism Spectrum Live in the Moment> > How often do typical people fail to notice what's in front of their eyes because> > they're distracted by social cues or random chitchat? People on the autism> > spectrum truely attend to the sensory input that surrounds them. Many have> > achieved the ideal of mindfulness.> > > > 3. People with Autism Rarely Judge Others> > Who's fatter? Richer? Smarter? For people

on the autism spectrum, these> > distinctions hold much less importance than for typical folks. In fact, people> > on the spectrum often see through such surface appearances to discover the real> > person.> > > > 4. Autistic People are Passionate> > Of course, not all autistic people are alike. But many are truly passionate> > about the things, ideas and people in their lives. How many "typical" people can> > say the same?> > > > 5. People with Autism Are Not Tied to Social Expectations> > If you've ever bought a car, played a game or joined a club to fit in, you know> > how hard it is to be true to yourself. But for people with autism, social> > expectations can be honestly irrelevant. What matters is true liking, interest> > and passion -- not keeping up with the es.> > > > 6. People with

Autism Have Terrific Memories> > How often do typical people forget directions, or fail to take note of colors,> > names, and other details? People on the autism spectrum are often much more> > tuned in to details. They may have a much better memory than their typical peers> > for all kind of critical details.> > > > 7. Autistic People Are Less Materialistic> > Of course, this is not universally true -- but in general, people with autism> > are far less concerned with outward appearance than their typical peers. As a> > result, they worry less about brand names, hairstyles and other expensive but> > unimportant externals than most people do.> > > > 8. Autistic People Play Fewer Head Games> > Who was that woman, and why were you looking at her? I know I TOLD you I didn't> > mind if you went out, but why did you

believe me? Most autistic people don't> > play games like these -- and they assume that you won't either. It's a> > refreshing and wonderful change from the Peyton Place emotional roller coaster> > that mars too many typical relationships!> > > > 9. Autistic People Have Fewer Hidden Agendas> > Most of the time, if a person on the autism spectrum tells you what he wants --> > he is telling you what he wants. No need to beat around the bush, second guess,> > and hope you're reading between the lines!> > > > 10. People with Autism Open New Doors for Neurotypicals> > For some of us neurotypicals, having an autistic person in our lives has had a> > profound positive impact on our perceptions, beliefs and expectations. For me,> > at least, being the mom of a son on the autism spectrum has released me from a> > lifetime of

"should" -- and offered me a new world of "is."> > > > > >>

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Thanks, , it's very enlightening to hear your take on it, being that you're "there" and we're (most of us, anyway) not.Regards,To: sList Sent: Thu, March 10, 2011 9:48:54 PMSubject: Re: Re:

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I have autism. I do not like being called a label.

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This is beautiful. I posted it on my wall to remind me that my kid shines, even on the most challenging days!

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I agree.

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Thanks, , it's very enlightening to hear your take on it, being that you're "there" and we're (most of us, anyway) not.Regards,

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I have autism. I do not like being called a label.

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This is beautiful. I posted it on my wall to remind me that my kid shines, even on the most challenging days!

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Me too! J From: sList [mailto:sList ] On Behalf Of Carol DIMAUROSent: Friday, March 11, 2011 10:01 AMTo: sList Subject: Re: Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People I agree.Subject: Re: Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic PeopleTo: sList Date: Friday, March 11, 2011, 9:29 AM Thanks, , it's very enlightening to hear your take on it, being that you're " there " and we're (most of us, anyway) not.Regards, To: sList Sent: Thu, March 10, 2011 9:48:54 PMSubject: Re: Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People  I have autism. I do not like being called a label. Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People This is beautiful. I posted it on my wall to remind me that my kid shines, even on the most challenging days!No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 10.0.1204 / Virus Database: 1435/3495 - Release Date: 03/09/11 No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 10.0.1204 / Virus Database: 1435/3495 - Release Date: 03/09/11

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My child is not one for conversation but he knows the lyrics to just about every Beatles song out there and sings them all the time! I love to hear him sing While My Guitar Gently Weeps, it will bring tears to your eyes!

[Autism-Florida] Some Positives

Top 10 Terrific Traits of Autistic People

By Jo Rudy, About.com Guide

Updated February 09, 2010

If you're sick of hearing about all the "deficits" challenging people on the

autism spectrum, join the club. But for every down side to autism, there seems

to be a positive -- an unusual trait that rarely appears among the "typical"

community, but shines out among autistic folk. These plusses are well worth

celebrating.

1. Autistic People Rarely Lie

We all claim to value the truth, but almost all of us tell little white lies.

All, that is, except people on the autism spectrum. To them, truth is truth --

and a good word from a person on the spectrum is the real deal.

2. People on the Autism Spectrum Live in the Moment

How often do typical people fail to notice what's in front of their eyes because

they're distracted by social cues or random chitchat? People on the autism

spectrum truely attend to the sensory input that surrounds them. Many have

achieved the ideal of mindfulness.

3. People with Autism Rarely Judge Others

Who's fatter? Richer? Smarter? For people on the autism spectrum, these

distinctions hold much less importance than for typical folks. In fact, people

on the spectrum often see through such surface appearances to discover the real

person.

4. Autistic People are Passionate

Of course, not all autistic people are alike. But many are truly passionate

about the things, ideas and people in their lives. How many "typical" people can

say the same?

5. People with Autism Are Not Tied to Social Expectations

If you've ever bought a car, played a game or joined a club to fit in, you know

how hard it is to be true to yourself. But for people with autism, social

expectations can be honestly irrelevant. What matters is true liking, interest

and passion -- not keeping up with the es.

6. People with Autism Have Terrific Memories

How often do typical people forget directions, or fail to take note of colors,

names, and other details? People on the autism spectrum are often much more

tuned in to details. They may have a much better memory than their typical peers

for all kind of critical details.

7. Autistic People Are Less Materialistic

Of course, this is not universally true -- but in general, people with autism

are far less concerned with outward appearance than their typical peers. As a

result, they worry less about brand names, hairstyles and other expensive but

unimportant externals than most people do.

8. Autistic People Play Fewer Head Games

Who was that woman, and why were you looking at her? I know I TOLD you I didn't

mind if you went out, but why did you believe me? Most autistic people don't

play games like these -- and they assume that you won't either. It's a

refreshing and wonderful change from the Peyton Place emotional roller coaster

that mars too many typical relationships!

9. Autistic People Have Fewer Hidden Agendas

Most of the time, if a person on the autism spectrum tells you what he wants --

he is telling you what he wants. No need to beat around the bush, second guess,

and hope you're reading between the lines!

10. People with Autism Open New Doors for Neurotypicals

For some of us neurotypicals, having an autistic person in our lives has had a

profound positive impact on our perceptions, beliefs and expectations. For me,

at least, being the mom of a son on the autism spectrum has released me from a

lifetime of "should" -- and offered me a new world of "is."

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I don't see the problem. People with diabetes are called diabetic but it doesn't offend me. Female, white, black, asian, male, poor, rich, kind, gentle, hateful, almost any adjective is a label that names only a smart part of the whole person. We are each greater than the sum of our parts and I don't think it's worth my energy or time to be upset about a word that names but part of who I am. No offense intended, I just thought I'd strike a blow for people being less sensitive about words that are not used to intentionally wound or demean.Subject: Re: Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic

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I have autism. I do not like being called a label.

Re: Top Ten TerrificTraits of Autistic People

This is beautiful. I posted it on my wall to remind me that my kid shines, even on the most challenging days!

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I have advocated about being less sensative especially when people call compassion pity which is just hatefull. However seeming I was born the way I am and do not eat incorrectly to develop blood sugar problems it's fine if folks want to apply a label to help me. However when it goes as far as media calling me a pathological term I choose not to embrace that. I think my individuality as I was born is primary and not secondary. It also is who and what I am regardless of a medical label that simply exist to help me. I don't need to live by a made up term other then my name that makes me feel no different then human.

People want to call themselves a label akin to name or identity then want to see themselves as it for reasons of pride as well. I see no reason for pride other then the abortion politics of autism becuase the label was just defined to help with the disability part of me. Also why would anyone want to tell their children by the way your autistic for life instead of being unique and that's just how you are. The more folks focus on any sort of negative especially to ingrain it the more need to re-define the whole idea of autism which is just a disability label to help. I think it effects self-esteem and frankly I think much of the autism political mess has to do with the label being akin to an identity and when folks hear about cure it makes the some of them go nuts. Cure is simply searching for ways to help and it's not a Nazi genonide of a race people call the autistics.

If folks stopped the bickering and started working together we'd get a whole lot more done. ly some of the folks are socially to complicated to even try to work with becuase of these distractions. I am a person, I was a person in assumption first such as my name and the pathological label came second and it's my individuality that will always matter and not the stereotypes of a label. Folks can call themselves pink with purple poke-a-dots just don't assume anyone wants to be called a label and in fact if folks don't want a label second why not drop the whole label thing all together now.

I am my character nor my label and the Luther King Jr. spoke about judging not by the skin color but by the character. So I'd say judge not by the label but by the individual character. Go ahead and keep self-sterotyping and wanting to redefine a label becuase of the need to make it out to be something other then a disability label to help but not hurt but it's your choices to keep focusing on the negatives to begin with.

Young

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This is beautiful. I posted it on my wall to remind me that my kid shines, even on the most challenging days!

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Beautiful, ! Funny how the Beatles touches so many, including our kids. I bet this is one of your favorite moments together..

xoxo

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My child is not one for conversation but he knows the lyrics to just about every Beatles song out there and sings them all the time! I love to hear him sing While My Guitar Gently Weeps, it will bring tears to your eyes!

[Autism-Florida] Some Positives

Top 10 Terrific Traits of Autistic PeopleBy Jo Rudy, About.com GuideUpdated February 09, 2010If you're sick of hearing about all the "deficits" challenging people on theautism spectrum, join the club. But for every down side to autism, there seemsto be a positive -- an unusual trait that rarely appears among the "typical"community, but shines out among autistic folk. These plusses are well worthcelebrating.1. Autistic People Rarely LieWe all claim to value the truth, but almost all of us tell little white lies.All, that is, except people on the autism spectrum. To them, truth is truth --and a good word from a person on the spectrum is the real deal.2. People on the Autism Spectrum Live in the MomentHow often do typical people fail to notice what's in front of their

eyes becausethey're distracted by social cues or random chitchat? People on the autismspectrum truely attend to the sensory input that surrounds them. Many haveachieved the ideal of mindfulness.3. People with Autism Rarely Judge OthersWho's fatter? Richer? Smarter? For people on the autism spectrum, thesedistinctions hold much less importance than for typical folks. In fact, peopleon the spectrum often see through such surface appearances to discover the realperson.4. Autistic People are PassionateOf course, not all autistic people are alike. But many are truly passionateabout the things, ideas and people in their lives. How many "typical" people cansay the same?5. People with Autism Are Not Tied to Social ExpectationsIf you've ever bought a car, played a game or joined a club to fit in, you knowhow hard it is to be true to yourself. But for people with autism,

socialexpectations can be honestly irrelevant. What matters is true liking, interestand passion -- not keeping up with the es.6. People with Autism Have Terrific MemoriesHow often do typical people forget directions, or fail to take note of colors,names, and other details? People on the autism spectrum are often much moretuned in to details. They may have a much better memory than their typical peersfor all kind of critical details.7. Autistic People Are Less MaterialisticOf course, this is not universally true -- but in general, people with autismare far less concerned with outward appearance than their typical peers. As aresult, they worry less about brand names, hairstyles and other expensive butunimportant externals than most people do.8. Autistic People Play Fewer Head GamesWho was that woman, and why were you looking at her? I know I TOLD you I didn'tmind if you went out,

but why did you believe me? Most autistic people don'tplay games like these -- and they assume that you won't either. It's arefreshing and wonderful change from the Peyton Place emotional roller coasterthat mars too many typical relationships!9. Autistic People Have Fewer Hidden AgendasMost of the time, if a person on the autism spectrum tells you what he wants --he is telling you what he wants. No need to beat around the bush, second guess,and hope you're reading between the lines!10. People with Autism Open New Doors for NeurotypicalsFor some of us neurotypicals, having an autistic person in our lives has had aprofound positive impact on our perceptions, beliefs and expectations. For me,at least, being the mom of a son on the autism spectrum has released me from alifetime of "should" -- and offered me a new world of "is."

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Thanks for sharing your feelings with us. Well noted!

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 I have advocated about being less sensative especially when people call compassion pity which is just hatefull. However seeming I was born the way I am and do not eat incorrectly to develop blood sugar problems it's fine if folks want to apply a label to help me. However when it goes as far as media calling me a pathological term I choose not to embrace that. I think my individuality as I was born is primary and not secondary. It also is who and what I am regardless of a medical label that simply exist to help me. I don't need to live by a made up term other then my name that makes me feel no different then human.

People want to call themselves a label akin to name or identity then want to see themselves as it for reasons of pride as well. I see no reason for pride other then the abortion politics of autism becuase the label was just defined to help with the disability part of me. Also why would anyone want to tell their children by the way your autistic for life instead of being unique and that's just how you are. The more folks focus on any sort of negative especially to ingrain it the more need to re-define the whole idea of autism which is just a disability label to help. I think it effects self-esteem and frankly I think much of the autism political mess has to do with the label being akin to an identity and when folks hear about cure it makes the some of them go nuts. Cure is simply searching for ways to help and it's not a Nazi genonide of a race people call the autistics.

If folks stopped the bickering and started working together we'd get a whole lot more done. ly some of the folks are socially to complicated to even try to work with becuase of these distractions. I am a person, I was a person in assumption first such as my name and the pathological label came second and it's my individuality that will always matter and not the stereotypes of a label. Folks can call themselves pink with purple poke-a-dots just don't assume anyone wants to be called a label and in fact if folks don't want a label second why not drop the whole label thing all together now.

I am my character nor my label and the Luther King Jr. spoke about judging not by the skin color but by the character. So I'd say judge not by the label but by the individual character. Go ahead and keep self-sterotyping and wanting to redefine a label becuase of the need to make it out to be something other then a disability label to help but not hurt but it's your choices to keep focusing on the negatives to begin with.

Young

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I love the way you point out that many people are just socially too complicated to deal with. I find this true every day, for this reason I work with animals. They live for the moment and they are not sentimental or sensitive about anything. I despise how sensitive people are about just about everything. I just watched a documentary on a woman who watched unspeakable horrific things happen to her five year old daughter in Africa. Then, she had to lay beside her and watch her die for days. Spend time helping this woman or the countless people just like her suffering in depravity. In my humble opinion, people should spend a little less time worrying about frivolous things like semantics and seemingly insensitive rhetoric and put that energy towards making a difference in people's lives. Donate some time, read a book to a child, visit a children's shelter and volunteer your time.

Great post !

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I have advocated about being less sensative especially when people call compassion pity which is just hatefull. However seeming I was born the way I am and do not eat incorrectly to develop blood sugar problems it's fine if folks want to apply a label to help me. However when it goes as far as media calling me a pathological term I choose not to embrace that. I think my individuality as I was born is primary and not secondary. It also is who and what I am regardless of a medical label that simply exist to help me. I don't need to live by a made up term other then my name that makes me feel no different then human.

People want to call themselves a label akin to name or identity then want to see themselves as it for reasons of pride as well. I see no reason for pride other then the abortion politics of autism becuase the label was just defined to help with the disability part of me. Also why would anyone want to tell their children by the way your autistic for life instead of being unique and that's just how you are. The more folks focus on any sort of negative especially to ingrain it the more need to re-define the whole idea of autism which is just a disability label to help. I think it effects self-esteem and frankly I think much of the autism political mess has to do with the label being akin to an identity and when folks hear about cure it makes the some of them go nuts. Cure is simply searching for ways to help and it's not a Nazi genonide of a race people call the autistics.

If folks stopped the bickering and started working together we'd get a whole lot more done. ly some of the folks are socially to complicated to even try to work with becuase of these distractions. I am a person, I was a person in assumption first such as my name and the pathological label came second and it's my individuality that will always matter and not the stereotypes of a label. Folks can call themselves pink with purple poke-a-dots just don't assume anyone wants to be called a label and in fact if folks don't want a label second why not drop the whole label thing all together now.

I am my character nor my label and the Luther King Jr. spoke about judging not by the skin color but by the character. So I'd say judge not by the label but by the individual character. Go ahead and keep self-sterotyping and wanting to redefine a label becuase of the need to make it out to be something other then a disability label to help but not hurt but it's your choices to keep focusing on the negatives to begin with.

Young

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Sometimes he plays with the words and puts his name in the songs, I love that about him! Additionally, his smile will light up a room! I love him like I love oxygen!

Thanks,

[Autism-Florida] Some Positives

Top 10 Terrific Traits of Autistic People

By Jo Rudy, About.com Guide

Updated February 09, 2010

If you're sick of hearing about all the "deficits" challenging people on the

autism spectrum, join the club. But for every down side to autism, there seems

to be a positive -- an unusual trait that rarely appears among the "typical"

community, but shines out among autistic folk. These plusses are well worth

celebrating.

1. Autistic People Rarely Lie

We all claim to value the truth, but almost all of us tell little white lies.

All, that is, except people on the autism spectrum. To them, truth is truth --

and a good word from a person on the spectrum is the real deal.

2. People on the Autism Spectrum Live in the Moment

How often do typical people fail to notice what's in front of their

eyes because

they're distracted by social cues or random chitchat? People on the autism

spectrum truely attend to the sensory input that surrounds them. Many have

achieved the ideal of mindfulness.

3. People with Autism Rarely Judge Others

Who's fatter? Richer? Smarter? For people on the autism spectrum, these

distinctions hold much less importance than for typical folks. In fact, people

on the spectrum often see through such surface appearances to discover the real

person.

4. Autistic People are Passionate

Of course, not all autistic people are alike. But many are truly passionate

about the things, ideas and people in their lives. How many "typical" people can

say the same?

5. People with Autism Are Not Tied to Social Expectations

If you've ever bought a car, played a game or joined a club to fit in, you know

how hard it is to be true to yourself. But for people with autism,

social

expectations can be honestly irrelevant. What matters is true liking, interest

and passion -- not keeping up with the es.

6. People with Autism Have Terrific Memories

How often do typical people forget directions, or fail to take note of colors,

names, and other details? People on the autism spectrum are often much more

tuned in to details. They may have a much better memory than their typical peers

for all kind of critical details.

7. Autistic People Are Less Materialistic

Of course, this is not universally true -- but in general, people with autism

are far less concerned with outward appearance than their typical peers. As a

result, they worry less about brand names, hairstyles and other expensive but

unimportant externals than most people do.

8. Autistic People Play Fewer Head Games

Who was that woman, and why were you looking at her? I know I TOLD you I didn't

mind if you went out,

but why did you believe me? Most autistic people don't

play games like these -- and they assume that you won't either. It's a

refreshing and wonderful change from the Peyton Place emotional roller coaster

that mars too many typical relationships!

9. Autistic People Have Fewer Hidden Agendas

Most of the time, if a person on the autism spectrum tells you what he wants --

he is telling you what he wants. No need to beat around the bush, second guess,

and hope you're reading between the lines!

10. People with Autism Open New Doors for Neurotypicals

For some of us neurotypicals, having an autistic person in our lives has had a

profound positive impact on our perceptions, beliefs and expectations. For me,

at least, being the mom of a son on the autism spectrum has released me from a

lifetime of "should" -- and offered me a new world of "is."