Re: Feel like poop/Jill

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I know Jill, I usually can put up and shut up but I guess this time

because my sister is coming today I really didn't need a flare up

now. Your right i don't deserve a flare now matter when it is. No

matter what I did, even if it was dumb. Thanks for replying, it's

good to know ya'll are out there...I do have a very understanding

husband...I'm blessed...I'm sure your husband is too, it's just that

i think because we look o.k. they think we are. I wouldn't wish this

on anyone but if they just had it for a day just to see & feel It

would make a BIG difference!!!...Hinky

In Fibromyalgia_Support_Group , " jill larion "

wrote:

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> Hinky,

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> No one deserves a flare-up for any reason. It's not fair we can't

do simple things without getting slammed! I clean and over do all

the time.........

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> As far as your husband, sometimes I think they are overwhelmed by

our illness. My husband is supportive, but occasionally he'll do

something like your husband did last night. Once, I was in bed with

a HUGE flare-up. The house and yard needed work. He was doing the

yard work and guilted me into cleaning the house. I cried in pain

the rest of the day.

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> Jill

> Feel like poop/ sister coming,/how dum can I get???

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> I'm feeling like the devil because I was dumb yesterday and I've

got my

> sister & husband coming today to stay through the weekend...I

could

> kick myself for doing all that housework yesterday!!! I don't

keep a

> dirty house so why I felt like I had to get on my hands & knees

to

> scrub the tub is beyond me...I deserve this flare up....You'd

think

> after all these years of having Fibro 15yrs at least I'd have

some

> common sense by now. I also mopped the floors.. How dumb???? I

asked

> my husband to vacuum today and he said sure. I would have mopped

> yesterday if you had asked. O.K. don't get me wrong here,but if

he

> saw me mopping why didn't he offer to do it????Please don't think

I'm

> not grateful for all he does, he's very supportive and

understanding.

> I just don't get it....He saw me mopping..he knew I would regret

it, so

> he just let me do it anyway???? am I being bit-hy? Or am I just

> feeling sorry for myself?? Please tell me, I've had 1

hydrocodiene

> today so maybe I'm not thinking straight?? If I just let this

fester

> it will only get worse. This is good to be able to voice my

feelings

> on here... Thank You!!! Hinky

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