Guest guest Posted March 25, 2008 Report Share Posted March 25, 2008 --- I know Jill, I usually can put up and shut up but I guess this time because my sister is coming today I really didn't need a flare up now. Your right i don't deserve a flare now matter when it is. No matter what I did, even if it was dumb. Thanks for replying, it's good to know ya'll are out there...I do have a very understanding husband...I'm blessed...I'm sure your husband is too, it's just that i think because we look o.k. they think we are. I wouldn't wish this on anyone but if they just had it for a day just to see & feel It would make a BIG difference!!!...Hinky In Fibromyalgia_Support_Group , " jill larion " wrote: > > Hinky, > > No one deserves a flare-up for any reason. It's not fair we can't do simple things without getting slammed! I clean and over do all the time......... > > As far as your husband, sometimes I think they are overwhelmed by our illness. My husband is supportive, but occasionally he'll do something like your husband did last night. Once, I was in bed with a HUGE flare-up. The house and yard needed work. He was doing the yard work and guilted me into cleaning the house. I cried in pain the rest of the day. > > Jill > Feel like poop/ sister coming,/how dum can I get??? > > > > I'm feeling like the devil because I was dumb yesterday and I've got my > sister & husband coming today to stay through the weekend...I could > kick myself for doing all that housework yesterday!!! I don't keep a > dirty house so why I felt like I had to get on my hands & knees to > scrub the tub is beyond me...I deserve this flare up....You'd think > after all these years of having Fibro 15yrs at least I'd have some > common sense by now. I also mopped the floors.. How dumb???? I asked > my husband to vacuum today and he said sure. I would have mopped > yesterday if you had asked. O.K. don't get me wrong here,but if he > saw me mopping why didn't he offer to do it????Please don't think I'm > not grateful for all he does, he's very supportive and understanding. > I just don't get it....He saw me mopping..he knew I would regret it, so > he just let me do it anyway???? am I being bit-hy? Or am I just > feeling sorry for myself?? Please tell me, I've had 1 hydrocodiene > today so maybe I'm not thinking straight?? If I just let this fester > it will only get worse. This is good to be able to voice my feelings > on here... Thank You!!! Hinky > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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