Guest guest Posted March 28, 2008 Report Share Posted March 28, 2008 I must say that I have talked to several people who are not overweight and have fibro. Actually, I guess alot of us are overweight. But.... When we look at it that way then it may lead people to believe that fat causes fibro. I mean, if I dropped 50 pounds, I am sure my muscles and everything else would still hurt. It really has nothing to do with weight I think. And .... If they depicted an overweight person on that commercial.... then people might tend to just say " well, if the woman would lose weight maybe she would not hurt " . Fibro attacks people of every size, every ethnic group, socioeconomic group, every age and every walk of life. hugs, Debra V. wrote: " It really irks me when I see that aenorexic, thin boney women in Pfizer's Lyrica comercial. She is no good represention of a fibro patient. Based on what I have read here, many of you most likely may be overweight. Even I am bigger than that boney woman. How can she have a lot of muscle pain when she doesn't show much muscle? " Well, don't I feel like an idiot. I guess I must not have fibro since I am not overweight, although I'm not anorexic anymore. I was in high school but hey, who cares, right? Yeah, I can get out of bed most mornings and deal with my pain but only because I have to go to work so I can afford my meds. Sorry that I am also a " thin, boney woman " . Did it ever occur to anyone that most Americans are overweight? I'm sorry that I can't gain weight no matter what I do. I don't eat out a lot, in fact I don't eat a lot anyway because of my issues from having my gall bladder out. I don't show much muscle, but they are there and they hurt. And I also keep a diary. I might not write more than a few sentences but I keep one. Yes, my hand goes numb and my arm hurts but I do it. Guess I will go back to the doctor and tell them I have been misdiagnosed since I'm not overweight, thin and boney and I can write in a diary. You all may have thought that commercial didn't portray a " real " fibro patient. But it personally hurts me to feel like I can't have fibro because I'm not fat and because I can do things others can't. I understand that there are people out there that are disabled because of this disease, but you don't have to make others feel like we can't have it because we aren't disabled. Everyone is different. I won't be checking my mail for a few days so I have a chance to let this subject blow over so I don't get anymore upset than I am. --------------------------------- Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2008 Report Share Posted March 28, 2008 Good point Debra - that's American's answer to everything - well if she would loose weight she wouldn't need a handicap placard, if she would loose weight, she wouldn't have this or that. I've never assocated weight, one way or another, with fibro. For many years I thought MY aches and pains were due to weight but I don't now. I've lost 50lbs so far and you know what? I hurt just as much as I did 50 pounds heavier. I just think they chose a poor actress to protray fibro. debra van ness wrote: I must say that I have talked to several people who are not overweight and have fibro. Actually, I guess alot of us are overweight. But.... When we look at it that way then it may lead people to believe that fat causes fibro. I mean, if I dropped 50 pounds, I am sure my muscles and everything else would still hurt. It really has nothing to do with weight I think. And .... If they depicted an overweight person on that commercial.... then people might tend to just say " well, if the woman would lose weight maybe she would not hurt " . Fibro attacks people of every size, every ethnic group, socioeconomic group, every age and every walk of life. hugs, Debra V. wrote: " It really irks me when I see that aenorexic, thin boney women in Pfizer's Lyrica comercial. She is no good represention of a fibro patient. Based on what I have read here, many of you most likely may be overweight. Even I am bigger than that boney woman. How can she have a lot of muscle pain when she doesn't show much muscle? " Well, don't I feel like an idiot. I guess I must not have fibro since I am not overweight, although I'm not anorexic anymore. I was in high school but hey, who cares, right? Yeah, I can get out of bed most mornings and deal with my pain but only because I have to go to work so I can afford my meds. Sorry that I am also a " thin, boney woman " . Did it ever occur to anyone that most Americans are overweight? I'm sorry that I can't gain weight no matter what I do. I don't eat out a lot, in fact I don't eat a lot anyway because of my issues from having my gall bladder out. I don't show much muscle, but they are there and they hurt. And I also keep a diary. I might not write more than a few sentences but I keep one. Yes, my hand goes numb and my arm hurts but I do it. Guess I will go back to the doctor and tell them I have been misdiagnosed since I'm not overweight, thin and boney and I can write in a diary. You all may have thought that commercial didn't portray a " real " fibro patient. But it personally hurts me to feel like I can't have fibro because I'm not fat and because I can do things others can't. I understand that there are people out there that are disabled because of this disease, but you don't have to make others feel like we can't have it because we aren't disabled. Everyone is different. I won't be checking my mail for a few days so I have a chance to let this subject blow over so I don't get anymore upset than I am. --------------------------------- Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2008 Report Share Posted March 29, 2008 Statistically people with fibro are overweight. This is due to the fact that the thyroid and adrenals are often off and many of the meds cause weight gain. This does not mean thin people can not have fibro. I agree that they should not portray an overweight person in a fibro commercial because of the stigma of " fat " people in this country. Most people would probably think if she would lose weight she would be fine.....which we know is not true. Yes, even skinny can suffer as much as anyone else. Although, I think excess weight will contribute to more pain. I know when I'm carrying extra weight my joints hurt more which adds to my fibro pain. My complaint with the commercial is it does not portray the seriousness of fibro and how devastating it is on one's life, including their family. The woman sitting in the chair with her make up and hair done saying that she has had a tough day because she is sore........really? Is that what most fibro people feel is a tough day? To me, being sore is having a good day! A bad day is when my body hurts so bad that I feel like dieing. I have days when it's too painful to change the channel with the remote or I can't eat because I can't stop crying. On a good day I have my hair and make up done and am just sore and it hurts to write. ~Jill Re: fibro commercial..... fibro attacks us without regards to weight I must say that I have talked to several people who are not overweight and have fibro. Actually, I guess alot of us are overweight. But.... When we look at it that way then it may lead people to believe that fat causes fibro. I mean, if I dropped 50 pounds, I am sure my muscles and everything else would still hurt. It really has nothing to do with weight I think. And .... If they depicted an overweight person on that commercial.... then people might tend to just say " well, if the woman would lose weight maybe she would not hurt " . Fibro attacks people of every size, every ethnic group, socioeconomic group, every age and every walk of life. hugs, Debra V. wrote: " It really irks me when I see that aenorexic, thin boney women in Pfizer's Lyrica comercial. She is no good represention of a fibro patient. Based on what I have read here, many of you most likely may be overweight. Even I am bigger than that boney woman. How can she have a lot of muscle pain when she doesn't show much muscle? " Well, don't I feel like an idiot. I guess I must not have fibro since I am not overweight, although I'm not anorexic anymore. I was in high school but hey, who cares, right? Yeah, I can get out of bed most mornings and deal with my pain but only because I have to go to work so I can afford my meds. Sorry that I am also a " thin, boney woman " . Did it ever occur to anyone that most Americans are overweight? I'm sorry that I can't gain weight no matter what I do. I don't eat out a lot, in fact I don't eat a lot anyway because of my issues from having my gall bladder out. I don't show much muscle, but they are there and they hurt. And I also keep a diary. I might not write more than a few sentences but I keep one. Yes, my hand goes numb and my arm hurts but I do it. Guess I will go back to the doctor and tell them I have been misdiagnosed since I'm not overweight, thin and boney and I can write in a diary. You all may have thought that commercial didn't portray a " real " fibro patient. But it personally hurts me to feel like I can't have fibro because I'm not fat and because I can do things others can't. I understand that there are people out there that are disabled because of this disease, but you don't have to make others feel like we can't have it because we aren't disabled. Everyone is different. I won't be checking my mail for a few days so I have a chance to let this subject blow over so I don't get anymore upset than I am. --------------------------------- Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2008 Report Share Posted March 29, 2008 I agree...my hubby and I went to Lowe's today and he wanted me to take a ride on cart and I refused. I am overweight, not horrendously but I can just hear people think look at that tub riding, she should get some exercise and walk!! I was so sorry I didn't though..I didn't dare tell him, but I was dying half way through. It's too bad those of us who do have a weight problem have to deal with a double stigma. /Mi Re: fibro commercial..... fibro attacks us without regards to weight Good point Debra - that's American's answer to everything - well if she would loose weight she wouldn't need a handicap placard, if she would loose weight, she wouldn't have this or that. I've never assocated weight, one way or another, with fibro. For many years I thought MY aches and pains were due to weight but I don't now. I've lost 50lbs so far and you know what? I hurt just as much as I did 50 pounds heavier. I just think they chose a poor actress to protray fibro. debra van ness wrote: I must say that I have talked to several people who are not overweight and have fibro. Actually, I guess alot of us are overweight. But.... When we look at it that way then it may lead people to believe that fat causes fibro. I mean, if I dropped 50 pounds, I am sure my muscles and everything else would still hurt. It really has nothing to do with weight I think. And .... If they depicted an overweight person on that commercial.... then people might tend to just say " well, if the woman would lose weight maybe she would not hurt " . Fibro attacks people of every size, every ethnic group, socioeconomic group, every age and every walk of life. hugs, Debra V. wrote: " It really irks me when I see that aenorexic, thin boney women in Pfizer's Lyrica comercial. She is no good represention of a fibro patient. Based on what I have read here, many of you most likely may be overweight. Even I am bigger than that boney woman. How can she have a lot of muscle pain when she doesn't show much muscle? " Well, don't I feel like an idiot. I guess I must not have fibro since I am not overweight, although I'm not anorexic anymore. I was in high school but hey, who cares, right? Yeah, I can get out of bed most mornings and deal with my pain but only because I have to go to work so I can afford my meds. Sorry that I am also a " thin, boney woman " . Did it ever occur to anyone that most Americans are overweight? I'm sorry that I can't gain weight no matter what I do. I don't eat out a lot, in fact I don't eat a lot anyway because of my issues from having my gall bladder out. I don't show much muscle, but they are there and they hurt. And I also keep a diary. I might not write more than a few sentences but I keep one. Yes, my hand goes numb and my arm hurts but I do it. Guess I will go back to the doctor and tell them I have been misdiagnosed since I'm not overweight, thin and boney and I can write in a diary. You all may have thought that commercial didn't portray a " real " fibro patient. But it personally hurts me to feel like I can't have fibro because I'm not fat and because I can do things others can't. I understand that there are people out there that are disabled because of this disease, but you don't have to make others feel like we can't have it because we aren't disabled. Everyone is different. I won't be checking my mail for a few days so I have a chance to let this subject blow over so I don't get anymore upset than I am. --------------------------------- Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2008 Report Share Posted March 30, 2008 I'm the exact same way ! And really - do we really CARE what people think? After all - these people are strangers. hugs Andersen wrote: I agree...my hubby and I went to Lowe's today and he wanted me to take a ride on cart and I refused. I am overweight, not horrendously but I can just hear people think look at that tub riding, she should get some exercise and walk!! I was so sorry I didn't though..I didn't dare tell him, but I was dying half way through. It's too bad those of us who do have a weight problem have to deal with a double stigma. /Mi --------------------------------- No Cost - Get a month of Blockbuster Total Access now. Sweet deal for Yahoo! users and friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2008 Report Share Posted March 30, 2008 Yes, Debra, that is what I think, too. The body image of the woman is fine, but not what she is reading from her journal, or how she is reading it. Jeanne in WI I must say that I have talked to several people who are not overweight and have fibro. Actually, I guess alot of us are overweight. But.... When we look at it that way then it may lead people to believe that fat causes fibro. I mean, if I dropped 50 pounds, I am sure my muscles and everything else would still hurt. It really has nothing to do with weight I think. And .... If they depicted an overweight person on that commercial.... then people might tend to just say " well, if the woman would lose weight maybe she would not hurt " . Fibro attacks people of every size, every ethnic group, socioeconomic group, every age and every walk of life. hugs, Debra V. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2008 Report Share Posted March 30, 2008 , I know, we shouldn't give a darn what ;people think...it's for our own health. Next time, I'll bite the bullet and use one. /Mi Re: fibro commercial..... fibro attacks us without regards to weight I'm the exact same way ! And really - do we really CARE what people think? After all - these people are strangers. hugs Andersen wrote: I agree...my hubby and I went to Lowe's today and he wanted me to take a ride on cart and I refused. I am overweight, not horrendously but I can just hear people think look at that tub riding, she should get some exercise and walk!! I was so sorry I didn't though..I didn't dare tell him, but I was dying half way through. It's too bad those of us who do have a weight problem have to deal with a double stigma. /Mi --------------------------------- No Cost - Get a month of Blockbuster Total Access now. Sweet deal for Yahoo! users and friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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