Guest guest Posted April 26, 2011 Report Share Posted April 26, 2011 My 5 y.o. daughter has characteristics of Asperger's- one of which is unusual social behavior. She doesn't "read" people naturally or understand what their emotions are in relationship to herself. Her neurologist doesn't think she has autism or asperger's in particular, but I do. She also stands too close to people, talks without eye contact, monopolizes conversations with adults, ignores other children (although she wants to talk to them or play). She plays with her brothers but has "lost" her friends, all of whom play with her brothers and not her now. She likes "boy" things, like trucks and dinosaurs, not "girl" things. She asks daily for me to call her friends to play- but she needs friends. She needs friends who will play with her or at the same time as her. Any idea how I can meet play groups or individuals so she can start making friends of her own? My daughter also has severe sensory issues, some of which are improving, but it makes unknown situations treacherous for her. Hearing a siren or other sound of certain pitches, or being in crowds, or too much visual stimulation (Chuck E. Cheese was NOT the place for her a year ago) sent her over the edge. She cannot write yet but will draw what she wants for an hour if in the mood. She depends on me if she has a meltdown as she cannot usually calm herself. She is not in public school at this time so she isn't in school groups. Any ideas? I'd really appreciate any input. Seeing her ignored by other girls or now, by her friends, hurts me. I want to help her. Thank you. Khat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2011 Report Share Posted April 27, 2011 Why isn't she in school? If you're in Broward County and you need an advocate - call Family Network on Disabilities. (FND) They are awesome and can help you with an appropriate setting. Mom's know their children better than anyone so you may want to contact another neurologist or psychologist for a diagnosis and you know when something is not quite right. Follow your instincts. Is she getting therapy for her sensory issues? Good luck - we're all here for you. To: sList Sent: Tue, April 26, 2011 6:05:31 PMSubject: I need social suggestions My 5 y.o. daughter has characteristics of Asperger's- one of which is unusual social behavior. She doesn't "read" people naturally or understand what their emotions are in relationship to herself. Her neurologist doesn't think she has autism or asperger's in particular, but I do. She also stands too close to people, talks without eye contact, monopolizes conversations with adults, ignores other children (although she wants to talk to them or play). She plays with her brothers but has "lost" her friends, all of whom play with her brothers and not her now. She likes "boy" things, like trucks and dinosaurs, not "girl" things. She asks daily for me to call her friends to play- but she needs friends. She needs friends who will play with her or at the same time as her. Any idea how I can meet play groups or individuals so she can start making friends of her own? My daughter also has severe sensory issues, some of which are improving, but it makes unknown situations treacherous for her. Hearing a siren or other sound of certain pitches, or being in crowds, or too much visual stimulation (Chuck E. Cheese was NOT the place for her a year ago) sent her over the edge. She cannot write yet but will draw what she wants for an hour if in the mood. She depends on me if she has a meltdown as she cannot usually calm herself. She is not in public school at this time so she isn't in school groups. Any ideas? I'd really appreciate any input. Seeing her ignored by other girls or now, by her friends, hurts me. I want to help her. Thank you. Khat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2011 Report Share Posted April 27, 2011 Try a social skills group, like "blast" in coral springs.She sounds alot like my 5 yr old son althoughHe has improved tremendously now that he is in A typical preschool. He was diagnosed at 31 monthsWith PDd and although I'm very aware that heIs on the spectrum not all professionals see it In a short doctors visit. U can email me personally if u want to talk.DebbieSent from my iPhone Why isn't she in school? If you're in Broward County and you need an advocate - call Family Network on Disabilities. (FND) They are awesome and can help you with an appropriate setting. Mom's know their children better than anyone so you may want to contact another neurologist or psychologist for a diagnosis and you know when something is not quite right. Follow your instincts. Is she getting therapy for her sensory issues? Good luck - we're all here for you. To: sList Sent: Tue, April 26, 2011 6:05:31 PMSubject: I need social suggestions My 5 y.o. daughter has characteristics of Asperger's- one of which is unusual social behavior. She doesn't "read" people naturally or understand what their emotions are in relationship to herself. Her neurologist doesn't think she has autism or asperger's in particular, but I do. She also stands too close to people, talks without eye contact, monopolizes conversations with adults, ignores other children (although she wants to talk to them or play). She plays with her brothers but has "lost" her friends, all of whom play with her brothers and not her now. She likes "boy" things, like trucks and dinosaurs, not "girl" things. She asks daily for me to call her friends to play- but she needs friends. She needs friends who will play with her or at the same time as her. Any idea how I can meet play groups or individuals so she can start making friends of her own? My daughter also has severe sensory issues, some of which are improving, but it makes unknown situations treacherous for her. Hearing a siren or other sound of certain pitches, or being in crowds, or too much visual stimulation (Chuck E. Cheese was NOT the place for her a year ago) sent her over the edge. She cannot write yet but will draw what she wants for an hour if in the mood. She depends on me if she has a meltdown as she cannot usually calm herself. She is not in public school at this time so she isn't in school groups. Any ideas? I'd really appreciate any input. Seeing her ignored by other girls or now, by her friends, hurts me. I want to help her. Thank you. Khat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2011 Report Share Posted April 28, 2011 Hello! My name is Anisha Staton, behavior/social skills coach; I offer social skills groups across the tri-county area. What area are you located? I will be offering a younger group in the north miami, Aventura Area next month. I not sure what your exactly looking for but my groups for that age group specialize in social skills training in common play situations with peers (relationship building, connection with peers, etc.) as well as situations in the community that tend to be difficult with special needs children. Hope you find something that fits best! I would be glad to give you some reccomendations based on her needs. Anisha Staton, B.S.Behavior/Social Skills Coach Learning To Reach, Inc.learningtoreach@...(954)224-7857 "If the child is not learning the way you are teaching, then you must teach in the way the child learns" - Rita Dunn "Make the change you want to see in the world" -Gandhi To: sList Sent: Tue, April 26, 2011 6:05:31 PMSubject: I need social suggestions My 5 y.o. daughter has characteristics of Asperger's- one of which is unusual social behavior. She doesn't "read" people naturally or understand what their emotions are in relationship to herself. Her neurologist doesn't think she has autism or asperger's in particular, but I do. She also stands too close to people, talks without eye contact, monopolizes conversations with adults, ignores other children (although she wants to talk to them or play). She plays with her brothers but has "lost" her friends, all of whom play with her brothers and not her now. She likes "boy" things, like trucks and dinosaurs, not "girl" things. She asks daily for me to call her friends to play- but she needs friends. She needs friends who will play with her or at the same time as her. Any idea how I can meet play groups or individuals so she can start making friends of her own? My daughter also has severe sensory issues, some of which are improving, but it makes unknown situations treacherous for her. Hearing a siren or other sound of certain pitches, or being in crowds, or too much visual stimulation (Chuck E. Cheese was NOT the place for her a year ago) sent her over the edge. She cannot write yet but will draw what she wants for an hour if in the mood. She depends on me if she has a meltdown as she cannot usually calm herself. She is not in public school at this time so she isn't in school groups. Any ideas? I'd really appreciate any input. Seeing her ignored by other girls or now, by her friends, hurts me. I want to help her. Thank you. Khat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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