Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 Dear , I don't know what to say or do! I want to just cry with you! This is horrific and my heart sank just reading this. If there is anything in this world you need please do not hesitate to ask. We are all here for you and love you dearly. I just don't understand this world sometimes. It is such a scary place. I am going to be thinking of you and praying for you that you find comfort and strength from God. I am sorry you lost your sister. I am really sorry. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 Dear , I don't know what to say or do! I want to just cry with you! This is horrific and my heart sank just reading this. If there is anything in this world you need please do not hesitate to ask. We are all here for you and love you dearly. I just don't understand this world sometimes. It is such a scary place. I am going to be thinking of you and praying for you that you find comfort and strength from God. I am sorry you lost your sister. I am really sorry. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 Dear , I don't know what to say or do! I want to just cry with you! This is horrific and my heart sank just reading this. If there is anything in this world you need please do not hesitate to ask. We are all here for you and love you dearly. I just don't understand this world sometimes. It is such a scary place. I am going to be thinking of you and praying for you that you find comfort and strength from God. I am sorry you lost your sister. I am really sorry. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how things are doing. Thanks again, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 I am so sorry to hear of your loss.....you and your family are in my prayers.......If I can do anything to help you in any way, please let me know. Mark E. Armstrong www.top5plus5.com NW Chapter Rep Pancreatitis Association, International my sister died Monday > I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am > angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so > much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on > Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying > thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my > sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 > minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my > brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, > and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was > like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She > took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half > hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so > he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few > drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed > thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the > past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over > because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and > she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down > to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one > of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and > started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had > gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon > and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. > He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where > she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left > there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop > because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up > there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been > there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he > then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we > had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I > was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her > and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one > had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that > evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his > own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He > then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, > and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the > time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him > go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his > call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor > and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she > might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking > it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it > might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was > complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she > was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was > murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and > strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled > shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and > they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a > commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted > police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had > talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the > murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this > inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him > that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, > they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet > this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she > wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her > husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would > change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and > blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a > happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to > celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that > weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons > where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved > them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so > beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday > shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry > this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we > still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend > to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has > done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this > is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by > minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps > some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping > that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm > probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to > my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, > but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how > things are doing. > > Thanks again, > > > > > PANCREATITIS Association, Intl. > Online e-mail group > > To reply to this message hit " reply " or send an e-mail to: Pancreatitis (AT) Yahoo > > To subscribe to this e-mail group, simply send an e-mail to: Pancreatitis-subscribe (AT) Yahoo > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 I am so sorry to hear of your loss.....you and your family are in my prayers.......If I can do anything to help you in any way, please let me know. Mark E. Armstrong www.top5plus5.com NW Chapter Rep Pancreatitis Association, International my sister died Monday > I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am > angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so > much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on > Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying > thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my > sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 > minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my > brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, > and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was > like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She > took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half > hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so > he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few > drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed > thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the > past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over > because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and > she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down > to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one > of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and > started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had > gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon > and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. > He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where > she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left > there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop > because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up > there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been > there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he > then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we > had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I > was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her > and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one > had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that > evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his > own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He > then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, > and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the > time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him > go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his > call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor > and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she > might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking > it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it > might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was > complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she > was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was > murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and > strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled > shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and > they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a > commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted > police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had > talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the > murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this > inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him > that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, > they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet > this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she > wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her > husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would > change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and > blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a > happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to > celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that > weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons > where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved > them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so > beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday > shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry > this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we > still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend > to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has > done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this > is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by > minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps > some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping > that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm > probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to > my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, > but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how > things are doing. > > Thanks again, > > > > > PANCREATITIS Association, Intl. > Online e-mail group > > To reply to this message hit " reply " or send an e-mail to: Pancreatitis (AT) Yahoo > > To subscribe to this e-mail group, simply send an e-mail to: Pancreatitis-subscribe (AT) Yahoo > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 I am so sorry to hear of your loss.....you and your family are in my prayers.......If I can do anything to help you in any way, please let me know. Mark E. Armstrong www.top5plus5.com NW Chapter Rep Pancreatitis Association, International my sister died Monday > I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am > angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so > much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on > Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying > thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my > sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 > minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my > brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, > and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was > like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She > took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half > hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so > he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few > drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed > thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the > past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over > because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and > she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down > to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one > of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and > started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had > gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon > and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. > He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where > she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left > there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop > because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up > there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been > there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he > then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we > had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I > was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her > and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one > had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that > evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his > own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He > then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, > and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the > time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him > go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his > call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor > and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she > might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking > it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it > might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was > complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she > was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was > murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and > strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled > shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and > they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a > commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted > police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had > talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the > murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this > inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him > that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, > they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet > this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she > wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her > husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would > change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and > blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a > happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to > celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that > weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons > where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved > them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so > beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday > shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry > this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we > still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend > to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has > done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this > is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by > minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps > some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping > that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm > probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to > my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, > but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how > things are doing. > > Thanks again, > > > > > PANCREATITIS Association, Intl. > Online e-mail group > > To reply to this message hit " reply " or send an e-mail to: Pancreatitis (AT) Yahoo > > To subscribe to this e-mail group, simply send an e-mail to: Pancreatitis-subscribe (AT) Yahoo > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 , Wow, what can I say. I have had two people in my family murdered and neither time have they caught who did it. I am thankful that the police responded so quickly for your sister. I wish you did not have to go through the hardships you will meet but believe me, if you lean on your love for your sister you will get through this. No words I can say will take the pain away, but please know that there are many of us here that feel your pain. Please take care, lots of prayers will be said. Joy my sister died Monday I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how things are doing. Thanks again, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 , Wow, what can I say. I have had two people in my family murdered and neither time have they caught who did it. I am thankful that the police responded so quickly for your sister. I wish you did not have to go through the hardships you will meet but believe me, if you lean on your love for your sister you will get through this. No words I can say will take the pain away, but please know that there are many of us here that feel your pain. Please take care, lots of prayers will be said. Joy my sister died Monday I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how things are doing. Thanks again, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 , Wow, what can I say. I have had two people in my family murdered and neither time have they caught who did it. I am thankful that the police responded so quickly for your sister. I wish you did not have to go through the hardships you will meet but believe me, if you lean on your love for your sister you will get through this. No words I can say will take the pain away, but please know that there are many of us here that feel your pain. Please take care, lots of prayers will be said. Joy my sister died Monday I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how things are doing. Thanks again, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 , I'm so sorry for the loss of your sister. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as well as the rest of the family. God Bless KimNY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 , I'm so sorry for the loss of your sister. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as well as the rest of the family. God Bless KimNY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 , I'm so sorry for the loss of your sister. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as well as the rest of the family. God Bless KimNY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 , I wish I could make things better. You have all my prayers for your family and your nephews,etc. We're here to listen if you need to vent more as I know this will be a trying time for you. Kimber -- Kimber hominid2@... California State Chapter Representative Pancreatitis Association, International Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 , I wish I could make things better. You have all my prayers for your family and your nephews,etc. We're here to listen if you need to vent more as I know this will be a trying time for you. Kimber -- Kimber hominid2@... California State Chapter Representative Pancreatitis Association, International Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 , I wish I could make things better. You have all my prayers for your family and your nephews,etc. We're here to listen if you need to vent more as I know this will be a trying time for you. Kimber -- Kimber hominid2@... California State Chapter Representative Pancreatitis Association, International Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 , I very sorry to hear of your loss. The death of a family member is devastating and your sister will be much missed by many. Do lean on your faith, your family, and loved ones for support and guidance as the pain from this loss heals, and let your love and your solace aid those who need it the most. With prayers, Heidi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 , I very sorry to hear of your loss. The death of a family member is devastating and your sister will be much missed by many. Do lean on your faith, your family, and loved ones for support and guidance as the pain from this loss heals, and let your love and your solace aid those who need it the most. With prayers, Heidi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 Dear , I'm so sorry for you and for your family, and you are in my prayers in this most awful, horrible time. I hope that you will find strength and courage and faith in this dark hour. May God bless and keep you and bring you healing and wisdom. Peace & Love, Terry in KC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 Dear , I'm so sorry for you and for your family, and you are in my prayers in this most awful, horrible time. I hope that you will find strength and courage and faith in this dark hour. May God bless and keep you and bring you healing and wisdom. Peace & Love, Terry in KC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 Dear , I'm so sorry for you and for your family, and you are in my prayers in this most awful, horrible time. I hope that you will find strength and courage and faith in this dark hour. May God bless and keep you and bring you healing and wisdom. Peace & Love, Terry in KC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 I am so sorry to hear of this tragic news! I will have you and your sisters family in my prayers. Please take care of yourself! ________________________________________________________________ GET INTERNET ACCESS FROM JUNO! Juno offers FREE or PREMIUM Internet access for less! Join Juno today! For your FREE software, visit: http://dl.www.juno.com/get/web/. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 I am so sorry to hear of this tragic news! I will have you and your sisters family in my prayers. Please take care of yourself! ________________________________________________________________ GET INTERNET ACCESS FROM JUNO! Juno offers FREE or PREMIUM Internet access for less! Join Juno today! For your FREE software, visit: http://dl.www.juno.com/get/web/. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 In a message dated 4/13/02 12:14:41 PM Pacific Daylight Time, tan_1500@... writes: << I have no words for what I am feeling right now >> , I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost a brother 25 years ago and still remember his beautiful smile. There is nothing I can say to ease your pain right now. Only know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. Try to rest when you can and please take care of yourself. I too hope justice will be served. Remember the happy times and all the good times you shared with your sister. Feel free to email me privately if you feel the need any time. Tll619@.... Take care and let your family know we are keeping them all in our prayers also. Terri L. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 In a message dated 4/13/02 12:14:41 PM Pacific Daylight Time, tan_1500@... writes: << I have no words for what I am feeling right now >> , I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost a brother 25 years ago and still remember his beautiful smile. There is nothing I can say to ease your pain right now. Only know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. Try to rest when you can and please take care of yourself. I too hope justice will be served. Remember the happy times and all the good times you shared with your sister. Feel free to email me privately if you feel the need any time. Tll619@.... Take care and let your family know we are keeping them all in our prayers also. Terri L. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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