Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 In a message dated 4/13/02 12:14:41 PM Pacific Daylight Time, tan_1500@... writes: << I have no words for what I am feeling right now >> , I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost a brother 25 years ago and still remember his beautiful smile. There is nothing I can say to ease your pain right now. Only know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. Try to rest when you can and please take care of yourself. I too hope justice will be served. Remember the happy times and all the good times you shared with your sister. Feel free to email me privately if you feel the need any time. Tll619@.... Take care and let your family know we are keeping them all in our prayers also. Terri L. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 Dear , Please know that your sister is OK now, at peace, and rests in the palm of God. The violence that was done to her passed quickly and she was welcomed on the other side. I know that may not help much now, when you are filled with grief and sadness. It is so painful when those we love are ripped away from us in a senseless act. But everyone here is with you, praying for you, and trying to be with you at least in our minds. Words don't mean much at a time like this, but it's all we have. Please accept them with the love with which they are offered. Jerry/NC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2002 Report Share Posted April 13, 2002 Dear , Please know that your sister is OK now, at peace, and rests in the palm of God. The violence that was done to her passed quickly and she was welcomed on the other side. I know that may not help much now, when you are filled with grief and sadness. It is so painful when those we love are ripped away from us in a senseless act. But everyone here is with you, praying for you, and trying to be with you at least in our minds. Words don't mean much at a time like this, but it's all we have. Please accept them with the love with which they are offered. Jerry/NC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2002 Report Share Posted April 14, 2002 , I know no words that will make things easier for you and your family. I have never lost a sibling, but I am sure it is a tremendous hurt that will take much time to get through. I hope they give the guy exactly what he deserves, but remember if they don't.... You reap what You sow... He will get his in the end. I never used to believe that you know... but I think as I grow older, I see the way people I know that have done bad things in thier lives, seem to get better then all He** breaks lose on them. They pay for their sins tenfold. As for your sister, I know this may not be a comfort right now, but she is still around you. She is in every memory etched onto you and your families hearts and her spirit is still with you... always. Take Care , my prayers are with you and your family. {{{{HUGE HEARTFELT HUGZ}}}} tan_1500 tan_1500@...> wrote: I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how things are doing. Thanks again, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2002 Report Share Posted April 14, 2002 , I know no words that will make things easier for you and your family. I have never lost a sibling, but I am sure it is a tremendous hurt that will take much time to get through. I hope they give the guy exactly what he deserves, but remember if they don't.... You reap what You sow... He will get his in the end. I never used to believe that you know... but I think as I grow older, I see the way people I know that have done bad things in thier lives, seem to get better then all He** breaks lose on them. They pay for their sins tenfold. As for your sister, I know this may not be a comfort right now, but she is still around you. She is in every memory etched onto you and your families hearts and her spirit is still with you... always. Take Care , my prayers are with you and your family. {{{{HUGE HEARTFELT HUGZ}}}} tan_1500 tan_1500@...> wrote: I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how things are doing. Thanks again, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2002 Report Share Posted April 14, 2002 , I know no words that will make things easier for you and your family. I have never lost a sibling, but I am sure it is a tremendous hurt that will take much time to get through. I hope they give the guy exactly what he deserves, but remember if they don't.... You reap what You sow... He will get his in the end. I never used to believe that you know... but I think as I grow older, I see the way people I know that have done bad things in thier lives, seem to get better then all He** breaks lose on them. They pay for their sins tenfold. As for your sister, I know this may not be a comfort right now, but she is still around you. She is in every memory etched onto you and your families hearts and her spirit is still with you... always. Take Care , my prayers are with you and your family. {{{{HUGE HEARTFELT HUGZ}}}} tan_1500 tan_1500@...> wrote: I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how things are doing. Thanks again, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2002 Report Share Posted April 14, 2002 : Words simply cannot express feelings at a time like this. I'm sorry seems shallow but what do you say that can make the pain better? I'm not sure. I've never lost a sibling but I did lose a daughter and understand the anguish your mom much be feeling. lean on each other and your Faith. You are probably mad at God and asking how he could let this happen if is is so loving? The answer is He didn't sometimes evil is stronger- see Sept. 11th. The person that did this will pay for an eternity. I have to believe that I hope you do as well. Please know that I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Tuten _________________________________________________________________ Send and receive Hotmail on your mobile device: http://mobile.msn.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2002 Report Share Posted April 14, 2002 : Words simply cannot express feelings at a time like this. I'm sorry seems shallow but what do you say that can make the pain better? I'm not sure. I've never lost a sibling but I did lose a daughter and understand the anguish your mom much be feeling. lean on each other and your Faith. You are probably mad at God and asking how he could let this happen if is is so loving? The answer is He didn't sometimes evil is stronger- see Sept. 11th. The person that did this will pay for an eternity. I have to believe that I hope you do as well. Please know that I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Tuten _________________________________________________________________ Send and receive Hotmail on your mobile device: http://mobile.msn.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2002 Report Share Posted April 14, 2002 , I´m really sorry about your sister. I`ll pray for your family. My heart goes with you, Liane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2002 Report Share Posted April 14, 2002 , I´m really sorry about your sister. I`ll pray for your family. My heart goes with you, Liane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2002 Report Share Posted April 14, 2002 , I´m really sorry about your sister. I`ll pray for your family. My heart goes with you, Liane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2002 Report Share Posted April 14, 2002 Dear , I cannot even imagine the hell you're going thru right now. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers, as I'm sure in others as well. Feel free to talk anytime. Also know that you have another angel following you, your sister. God Bless. Armantrout Indiana Re: my sister died Monday > > , > I know no words that will make things easier for you and your family. I have never lost a sibling, but I am sure it is a tremendous hurt that will take much time to get through. > I hope they give the guy exactly what he deserves, but remember if they don't.... You reap what You sow... He will get his in the end. I never used to believe that you know... but I think as I grow older, I see the way people I know that have done bad things in thier lives, seem to get better then all He** breaks lose on them. They pay for their sins tenfold. > As for your sister, I know this may not be a comfort right now, but she is still around you. She is in every memory etched onto you and your families hearts and her spirit is still with you... always. > Take Care , my prayers are with you and your family. > {{{{HUGE HEARTFELT HUGZ}}}} > > tan_1500 tan_1500@...> wrote: I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am > angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so > much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on > Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying > thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my > sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 > minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my > brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, > and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was > like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She > took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half > hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so > he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few > drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed > thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the > past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over > because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and > she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down > to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one > of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and > started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had > gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon > and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. > He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where > she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left > there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop > because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up > there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been > there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he > then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we > had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I > was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her > and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one > had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that > evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his > own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He > then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, > and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the > time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him > go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his > call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor > and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she > might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking > it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it > might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was > complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she > was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was > murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and > strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled > shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and > they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a > commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted > police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had > talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the > murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this > inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him > that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, > they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet > this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she > wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her > husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would > change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and > blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a > happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to > celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that > weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons > where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved > them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so > beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday > shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry > this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we > still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend > to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has > done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this > is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by > minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps > some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping > that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm > probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to > my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, > but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how > things are doing. > > Thanks again, > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2002 Report Share Posted April 14, 2002 Dear , I cannot even imagine the hell you're going thru right now. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers, as I'm sure in others as well. Feel free to talk anytime. Also know that you have another angel following you, your sister. God Bless. Armantrout Indiana Re: my sister died Monday > > , > I know no words that will make things easier for you and your family. I have never lost a sibling, but I am sure it is a tremendous hurt that will take much time to get through. > I hope they give the guy exactly what he deserves, but remember if they don't.... You reap what You sow... He will get his in the end. I never used to believe that you know... but I think as I grow older, I see the way people I know that have done bad things in thier lives, seem to get better then all He** breaks lose on them. They pay for their sins tenfold. > As for your sister, I know this may not be a comfort right now, but she is still around you. She is in every memory etched onto you and your families hearts and her spirit is still with you... always. > Take Care , my prayers are with you and your family. > {{{{HUGE HEARTFELT HUGZ}}}} > > tan_1500 tan_1500@...> wrote: I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am > angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so > much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on > Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying > thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my > sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 > minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my > brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, > and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was > like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She > took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half > hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so > he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few > drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed > thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the > past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over > because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and > she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down > to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one > of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and > started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had > gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon > and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. > He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where > she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left > there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop > because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up > there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been > there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he > then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we > had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I > was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her > and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one > had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that > evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his > own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He > then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, > and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the > time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him > go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his > call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor > and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she > might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking > it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it > might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was > complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she > was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was > murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and > strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled > shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and > they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a > commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted > police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had > talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the > murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this > inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him > that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, > they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet > this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she > wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her > husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would > change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and > blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a > happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to > celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that > weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons > where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved > them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so > beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday > shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry > this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we > still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend > to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has > done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this > is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by > minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps > some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping > that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm > probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to > my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, > but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how > things are doing. > > Thanks again, > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2002 Report Share Posted April 14, 2002 Dear , I cannot even imagine the hell you're going thru right now. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers, as I'm sure in others as well. Feel free to talk anytime. Also know that you have another angel following you, your sister. God Bless. Armantrout Indiana Re: my sister died Monday > > , > I know no words that will make things easier for you and your family. I have never lost a sibling, but I am sure it is a tremendous hurt that will take much time to get through. > I hope they give the guy exactly what he deserves, but remember if they don't.... You reap what You sow... He will get his in the end. I never used to believe that you know... but I think as I grow older, I see the way people I know that have done bad things in thier lives, seem to get better then all He** breaks lose on them. They pay for their sins tenfold. > As for your sister, I know this may not be a comfort right now, but she is still around you. She is in every memory etched onto you and your families hearts and her spirit is still with you... always. > Take Care , my prayers are with you and your family. > {{{{HUGE HEARTFELT HUGZ}}}} > > tan_1500 tan_1500@...> wrote: I have no words for what I am feeling right now exept that I am > angry, confused, lost,hurt, crushed, disbelief, numbness and am in so > much agony. She was murdered, my sweet sister,40 years old, on > Monday, her and her husband went out for the first time since buying > thier new home a year ago,they came home at 11:30 at night and my > sister with her never ending energy wanted to go to a local bar 5 > minutes away for one last drink before retiring for the night, my > brother in law had to work the next day so he declined on the idea, > and tried to talk her into just calling it a night, but my sister was > like that, if she wanted to do something she did it regardless. She > took a 20 dollar bill from him and said she'd be home in about a half > hour, he knew the bar well and knew alot of people there knew her so > he had no reason to worry about her welfare, she did have a few > drinks, but was by no means drunk. So she went, and went to bed > thinking she would be home shortly, she sometimes did this in the > past and would end up at a friends house or at my house to sleep over > because she didn't want to drive drunk, and when woke up and > she wasn't there this is what he thought, that she had wandered down > to my town 15 minuted away and come to my house or had went over one > of her many friends to spend the night, but he called into work and > started his day long search anyways because he was worried. I had > gone to Boston that day for a surgical consult with a thyroid surgeon > and had no idea about anything until I returned home that afternoon. > He thought maybe she might've picked her check up at the salon where > she worked, they are closed on Mondays and the checks where left > there early each Monday for the girls, Cheryl had the key to the shop > because she was the most trusted, so she would pick her check up > there like clockwork every Monday. found that she hadn't been > there to collect her check and became very worried by this time, he > then drove back to his house and called my house again to see if we > had heard from her, and we hadn't. I knew something was wrong but I > was denying it,I felt it so strong that something had happened to her > and so did my mother, we where all worried sick by this point, no one > had seen or heard from her. he called the police at 7:00 pm that > evening and reported her missing, then he went searching again on his > own, he would call us every hour to see if we heard from her yet. He > then got a call from police saying her car was found but was locked, > and was told to come with a spare key to open the doors, but by the > time he got there the car had been moved and police would not let him > go to the car, they said she was found dead in the car,we got his > call at 11:05 Monday night with the news, I collapsed on the floor > and my mother screamed forever,later that night we thought maybe she > might've taken her pain meds. {she had lupus} and with the drinking > it counteracted and she pulled off the road or something, or maybe it > might've been her heart because she had high cholesterol and was > complaing about palpitataions, but later that day we found out she > was found in the trunk and it changed everything, we knew she was > murdered, but didn't know how, but we now know she was raped and > strangled by a 20 year old, he was caught in Maine and had fled > shortly after he did this, I guess he went to his friends house and > they helped him to flee, then had taken her car with her in it, to a > commuter parking lot. a tip came from a local jail gaurd who alerted > police and that's how they found the car, I guess an inmate there had > talked to one of the kids who where involvd and told him about the > murder, the inmate then told the guard, I am so thankful that this > inmate told this guard who contacted police, because they caught him > that day. The newspapers wrote an article that outraged my family, > they tried to make it sound as if she intentionally went out to meet > this guy, the guy says that she died during rough sex and that she > wanted to be strangled!!!!!!! she would never, ever cheat on her > husband and hated even watching sex scenes on movies, she would > change the channel until it was over!!so we called the paper and > blasted them out and made then re write the article. My sister was a > happy woman, she loved her job as a hairstylist,she was going to > celebrate her 22nd marriage anniversary with her husband that > weekend, she loved her husband and thier three sons, two of her sons > where special needs and she took such good care of them and loved > them so much, she had such plans for her house, it was decorated so > beautifully and she was proud. I would go with her every Monday > shopping for things for the house, or clothes shopping. I'm sorry > this is so incredibly long, but I really needed to write this:-{ we > still don't know all the details of what exactly happened, but intend > to find out, and to make this sick monster suffer for what he has > done to her. the wake had 300 people, and the funeral had more, this > is a nightmare to me and my family and I'm only going minute by > minute right now, I'm on Xanax along with my usual meds. and it helps > some, my whole body hurts and pancreas is protesting, I'm just hoping > that I don't have a major flare. thank you all for reading this, I'm > probably not going to be around as much now, all my energy will go to > my nephews and my family and to seeing justice done for my sister, > but I will still be around reading your posts, I'll let yo know how > things are doing. > > Thanks again, > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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