Re: To send a Mothers Day card or not....

[Guest guest]

Good one, C!

I got a card for one dollar, signed it, and mailed it. Done. Now, the card I'd

REALLY like to send would be " PAINTED BLACK " , just like me! ROFLOL.

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> " I look at it as concessions to a dictatorial war lord to keep the psycho from

blowing anything up. Was that too harsh? " ;-p C

>

> C, That was FAN-FRICKIN-TASTIC!!!!! And, NO WAY too harsh. U read my mind.

>

> , When they lived across the country from me I'd send them (nada &

gnada) the same card bc I didn't want or need any of the backlash if I didn't

send something. What worked for me was a funny one or something from the

children's section that was general...no mushy, gushy Ever!! Now they're both

here and I live w/gnada, nada's just down the street, so I'm giving the same $5

bouquet and NO card...I'm done with cards...there are none that say what I'd

REALLY like to say. ;-)

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> Besides, the only reason I'm giving the flowers is to keep the " Dictatorial

Warlords from going PSYCHO (any more than they already do) and blowing anything

up. " =) I have to live here for now...and I'd like to be sane and in 1 piece.

$10 isn't a bad deal to ensure wholeness and avoid their wraths. And, one more

thing, it really isn't conceding to me bc by doing this I am controlling the

situation and their behavior. There's no meaning in the flowers. They're just

pretty flowers...which I will enjoy seeing on the table. There's also no card,

hence, no meaning, too. Yay!! :-) When I go NC, things will be different. For

now though, I try to keep the peace ON MY TERMS.

>

> IMO, just think what would be best for YOU and do that. Good luck, .

>

> GG

>

[Guest guest]

Good one, C!

I got a card for one dollar, signed it, and mailed it. Done. Now, the card I'd

REALLY like to send would be " PAINTED BLACK " , just like me! ROFLOL.

>

> " I look at it as concessions to a dictatorial war lord to keep the psycho from

blowing anything up. Was that too harsh? " ;-p C

>

> C, That was FAN-FRICKIN-TASTIC!!!!! And, NO WAY too harsh. U read my mind.

>

> , When they lived across the country from me I'd send them (nada &

gnada) the same card bc I didn't want or need any of the backlash if I didn't

send something. What worked for me was a funny one or something from the

children's section that was general...no mushy, gushy Ever!! Now they're both

here and I live w/gnada, nada's just down the street, so I'm giving the same $5

bouquet and NO card...I'm done with cards...there are none that say what I'd

REALLY like to say. ;-)

>

> Besides, the only reason I'm giving the flowers is to keep the " Dictatorial

Warlords from going PSYCHO (any more than they already do) and blowing anything

up. " =) I have to live here for now...and I'd like to be sane and in 1 piece.

$10 isn't a bad deal to ensure wholeness and avoid their wraths. And, one more

thing, it really isn't conceding to me bc by doing this I am controlling the

situation and their behavior. There's no meaning in the flowers. They're just

pretty flowers...which I will enjoy seeing on the table. There's also no card,

hence, no meaning, too. Yay!! :-) When I go NC, things will be different. For

now though, I try to keep the peace ON MY TERMS.

>

> IMO, just think what would be best for YOU and do that. Good luck, .

>

> GG

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