Guest guest Posted May 10, 2012 Report Share Posted May 10, 2012 so, sending Nada the letter I did (in my last post) seems to be agreeing with me. it is the first time I have really denounced her crap. (other than a few times when she talked me out of my reality, yay for e-mail!) and this week when I went to Physical therapy I found out that I made huge strides this last week. I am well on my way to a well managed condition. I was just coming out of a regression, and then just like that I am hugely better this week. largely because I stood up for myself and got the classic Nada " but I am so wonderful why would you think there is anything wrong with what *I* said response. that used to really bother me. mostly because it made me question myself. but this time DH and my MIL were able to talk me out of taking that kind of crap. part of me still hopes she will learn to communicate in a nice way, but I am encouraged that I am starting to learn to cope with her complete lack of empathy, and non-existent introspection skills. and really happy that my REALLY HARD work in physical therapy is finally paying off! Meikjn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2012 Report Share Posted May 10, 2012 That's good to hear, I'm very happy for you! You GO, Grrrrl! -Annie > > so, sending Nada the letter I did (in my last post) seems to be agreeing with me. it is the first time I have really denounced her crap. (other than a few times when she talked me out of my reality, yay for e-mail!) > > and this week when I went to Physical therapy I found out that I made huge strides this last week. I am well on my way to a well managed condition. > > I was just coming out of a regression, and then just like that I am hugely better this week. > > largely because I stood up for myself and got the classic Nada " but I am so wonderful why would you think there is anything wrong with what *I* said response. that used to really bother me. mostly because it made me question myself. but this time DH and my MIL were able to talk me out of taking that kind of crap. > > part of me still hopes she will learn to communicate in a nice way, but I am encouraged that I am starting to learn to cope with her complete lack of empathy, and non-existent introspection skills. > > and really happy that my REALLY HARD work in physical therapy is finally paying off! > > Meikjn > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2012 Report Share Posted May 10, 2012 That's good to hear, I'm very happy for you! You GO, Grrrrl! -Annie > > so, sending Nada the letter I did (in my last post) seems to be agreeing with me. it is the first time I have really denounced her crap. (other than a few times when she talked me out of my reality, yay for e-mail!) > > and this week when I went to Physical therapy I found out that I made huge strides this last week. I am well on my way to a well managed condition. > > I was just coming out of a regression, and then just like that I am hugely better this week. > > largely because I stood up for myself and got the classic Nada " but I am so wonderful why would you think there is anything wrong with what *I* said response. that used to really bother me. mostly because it made me question myself. but this time DH and my MIL were able to talk me out of taking that kind of crap. > > part of me still hopes she will learn to communicate in a nice way, but I am encouraged that I am starting to learn to cope with her complete lack of empathy, and non-existent introspection skills. > > and really happy that my REALLY HARD work in physical therapy is finally paying off! > > Meikjn > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2012 Report Share Posted May 10, 2012 That's good to hear, I'm very happy for you! You GO, Grrrrl! -Annie > > so, sending Nada the letter I did (in my last post) seems to be agreeing with me. it is the first time I have really denounced her crap. (other than a few times when she talked me out of my reality, yay for e-mail!) > > and this week when I went to Physical therapy I found out that I made huge strides this last week. I am well on my way to a well managed condition. > > I was just coming out of a regression, and then just like that I am hugely better this week. > > largely because I stood up for myself and got the classic Nada " but I am so wonderful why would you think there is anything wrong with what *I* said response. that used to really bother me. mostly because it made me question myself. but this time DH and my MIL were able to talk me out of taking that kind of crap. > > part of me still hopes she will learn to communicate in a nice way, but I am encouraged that I am starting to learn to cope with her complete lack of empathy, and non-existent introspection skills. > > and really happy that my REALLY HARD work in physical therapy is finally paying off! > > Meikjn > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2012 Report Share Posted May 11, 2012 Meikjn, YAY!! Good for you. What you did is HUGE -- saying what you meant despite knowing it probably won't be heard or received. What matters is you said it and that's that. I'm happy for you! It's such a good feeling. Congrats on your PT work, too. That's not easy. > > so, sending Nada the letter I did (in my last post) seems to be agreeing with me. it is the first time I have really denounced her crap. (other than a few times when she talked me out of my reality, yay for e-mail!) > > and this week when I went to Physical therapy I found out that I made huge strides this last week. I am well on my way to a well managed condition. > > I was just coming out of a regression, and then just like that I am hugely better this week. > > largely because I stood up for myself and got the classic Nada " but I am so wonderful why would you think there is anything wrong with what *I* said response. that used to really bother me. mostly because it made me question myself. but this time DH and my MIL were able to talk me out of taking that kind of crap. > > part of me still hopes she will learn to communicate in a nice way, but I am encouraged that I am starting to learn to cope with her complete lack of empathy, and non-existent introspection skills. > > and really happy that my REALLY HARD work in physical therapy is finally paying off! > > Meikjn > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2012 Report Share Posted May 11, 2012 Meikjn, YAY!! Good for you. What you did is HUGE -- saying what you meant despite knowing it probably won't be heard or received. What matters is you said it and that's that. I'm happy for you! It's such a good feeling. Congrats on your PT work, too. That's not easy. > > so, sending Nada the letter I did (in my last post) seems to be agreeing with me. it is the first time I have really denounced her crap. (other than a few times when she talked me out of my reality, yay for e-mail!) > > and this week when I went to Physical therapy I found out that I made huge strides this last week. I am well on my way to a well managed condition. > > I was just coming out of a regression, and then just like that I am hugely better this week. > > largely because I stood up for myself and got the classic Nada " but I am so wonderful why would you think there is anything wrong with what *I* said response. that used to really bother me. mostly because it made me question myself. but this time DH and my MIL were able to talk me out of taking that kind of crap. > > part of me still hopes she will learn to communicate in a nice way, but I am encouraged that I am starting to learn to cope with her complete lack of empathy, and non-existent introspection skills. > > and really happy that my REALLY HARD work in physical therapy is finally paying off! > > Meikjn > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2012 Report Share Posted May 11, 2012 Awesome! > > so, sending Nada the letter I did (in my last post) seems to be agreeing with me. it is the first time I have really denounced her crap. (other than a few times when she talked me out of my reality, yay for e-mail!) > > and this week when I went to Physical therapy I found out that I made huge strides this last week. I am well on my way to a well managed condition. > > I was just coming out of a regression, and then just like that I am hugely better this week. > > largely because I stood up for myself and got the classic Nada " but I am so wonderful why would you think there is anything wrong with what *I* said response. that used to really bother me. mostly because it made me question myself. but this time DH and my MIL were able to talk me out of taking that kind of crap. > > part of me still hopes she will learn to communicate in a nice way, but I am encouraged that I am starting to learn to cope with her complete lack of empathy, and non-existent introspection skills. > > and really happy that my REALLY HARD work in physical therapy is finally paying off! > > Meikjn > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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