Re: Update on psycho neighbor

May 17, 2012

Unfortunately, I am the only one he ever threatened. He just does this stupid

stuff with everyone else, ranting and raving at them that they haven't replied

to his text or messages because they must be pissed at him. Classic BPD, he is

always putting everyone on the defensive and making them sooth him because he is

incapable of calming himself. I let him put me thru that crap for 18 months! I

still can't believe that it never occurred to me that he was likely BPD until

this year.

I do not know the mother of the minor that he has been harassing and hacking

into his FB acct. I know she is someone that was around a lot after I had my

problems with him. I talked to the neighbor and found out he also used this boys

account to say nasty things about the mother. Calling her awful things and

posting to make it look like her son said them. I wish she would talk to me. As

a mother of a boy not much younger than hers, I am deeply concerned that she is

even wavering on pressing charges!

I found out that he is seeing a therapist, but it is for grief counseling and

this person is telling him his behavior is NORMAL! I am sure this poor counselor

is getting a very sanitized and twisted glimpse of what is really going on in

his head.

My only relief is that I am leaving for two weeks to visit family (so not really

a relief cause there will be nada visits) I have a house sitter and another

friend that will be checking on my dogs daily. I am just about stressed to the

max tho. C

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> > > > ALSO, I am kinda freaked out by this. I am extremely concerned about

> > what he might do...He hasn't directly broken the restraining order. He has

> > never contacted me, but he takes it on himself to harass neighbors and

> > mutual friends that talk to me. Many of them do keep their distance from me

> > because of not wanting to " set him off' I wish I could force him to move

> > away! UGH

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