So sick of swallowing feelings and words...

[Guest guest]

Just want to rant for a sec.

As many of you have read I moved up here to help Nada when she got sick.

(not knowing she was a nada at time, learned this when I got here and

started questioning behavior, my childhood and found out about NPD / BPD)

Live with nada and dish rag step dad.

His - and now my ?!?!?!? strategy ?!?!?!? of living with Nada is to just be

agreeable and ROLL OVER AND TAKE any selfish, demanding, demeaning, mean,

self-centered, and or entitled thing she has to say... ARGGGGGGG!!!!! Or

dish rag step dad will " counsel " me as to how to deal with her.

Please pray I find a job soon so I can bid this NUT a fond farewell and go

LC, maybe NC.

She uses me! Expects me to wait on her hand and foot and belittles me..

She goes so far as to accuse me of leaching off her (she has never made a

dime in her life) although I moved 300 miles to care for her when she fell

ill, wait on her hand and foot, care for the entire house and property, buy

$600 a month in food, cook all meals, clean all that needs cleaning, care

for pets, ect ect ect. not to mention taking care of her meds. her

insurance, her appointments...

So is SOOOOO GD passive aggressive!!!!!!!!

Blah, blah, blah. just needed to vent.. thank you!

M-

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