+Re: Really need advice ...want to scream till my voice is gone, can'

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Hi Cheavon,

I completely understand your feelings and agree. I am so sorry that your nada

allowed your GP to abuse you for the sake of what she probably thought was

giving you a stable home.

I had mentioned the truck loan only as one of the holds 'my nada thinks she has

on us' and WILL TRY to use against us. My husband and I have already spoken and

have a couple plans of actions. One of which is my car is 100% mine and worth

twice what the truck is...so if she insist on taking it, for whatever reason she

decides justifies her actions. We will either take a loan on mine and buy him

another or sell mine and buy 2 different cars. It's always best to have a plan

so she won't be able to hurt us emotionally. Because believe me, it wouldn't be

about the truck. It would be about me being a liar, untrustworthy and only

interested in money while she just gives and gives....oh poor her.

I would rather live in a box with my family then allow her to 'give' us anything

ever.

Again, I am sorry that your nada didn't hear you. HUGS and keep taking care of

yourself.

Tikivixen

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> I am a child of a GP with BPD, and my Mother is a Nada or was Hypnotized by

> the fact that my Grandma " Held the loan! " when I read this I want wanted to

> cry for your daughter... PLEASE DO NOT LET HER SEE HERE GRAND MOTHER

> ANYMORE!! PLEASE!! I was that child! I feel like my Mom sold me for a

> dollar... My Grandmother is dead... And i wanted to sing " ding dong the

> witch is dead " At her funeral. That's why my Mom is now a Nada!! She failed

> to protect me for a dollar.... She turned a blind eye to her sickery for a

> dollar. I do not trust my Mother. Do not do this.. I would rather let my

> daughter resent me now... About not being able to see her. And when she

> becomes an Adult she will be able to visit her and see she was a quack. I

> was too kid knapped... My Step father protected me... But then he passed

> when I was 14 yrs old. I knew nothing about my Grandmothers sickery until

> then... She moved in our house and I moved in to Hell. I was beat,

> threatening, called all types of names... Everyday after school... I would

> tell my Mother and she would say... She is helping with the rent.... I

> would rather been homeless. Living in a women and children's shelter!! At

> the age of 17 years old... I didn't even want to go to College but I left

> that was my only way out... I never went back... I'm 30 soon to be 31.... I

> feel my mother has no excuse. For doing what she did. There are to many

> community programs available... Selling your child for a dollar " Not

> protecting your child out of fear some material item will be removed from

> you. " is not worth it! I am permanently emotionally scared I am still in

> therapy.. There is always something new being uncovered... Please don't

> allow this get a restraining order... OMG! I would rather walk to work with

> no car, ride, a bike, hitch hike or whatever your husband has to do.. Your

> Child is worth way more than a car please don't.

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> Sent from my Windows Phone

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