Guest guest Posted August 3, 2012 Report Share Posted August 3, 2012 I agree w/ you 100%!!! Hubby called from work a while ago and I filled him in on some of the responses. He said he was hoping for the best but it's really not wise to get involved w/ her in anyway and he can hold out. He just wishes we didn't have to struggle so much financially and be indebt because of this. As for me... I know our finances will improve over the years and we have everything we need. Maybe not name brand things but our girls have what they need and so do we. And yes-MIL is slick but she is as sick as she is slick. her testimony was a farce and she knew there was no way she could w/stand any cross examination. ________________________________ To: WTOAdultChildren1 Sent: Friday, August 3, 2012 12:40 PM Subject: Re: Nada and my daughter  OK, this is a PS: I agree: your MIL is now aware that she can't win in court, so she has brilliantly come up with this scheme to get YOU to undo the protective order that the court has awarded you. So, my advice is DON'T DO IT. Do NOT agree to allow her to meet with you or your kids in person, that undoes the restraining order. She's trying to make you " drop the weapon " of your own free will. She is slick, man. She is really, really slick. Do not buy in to this manipulative ploy. You won, already: you have the power of the law on your side, don't make yourself vulnerable to her again. If you allow this visitation, she will USE IT to bring another suit with a legitimate basis: " See, Judge? They are inconsistent! They just want to keep my grandkids away from me out of spite! I demand another lawsuit to regain my grandparent rights! " That's my take on this, anyway. You must do what feels right and best for you, that's all anyone can do, is make their best call. -Annie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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