Guest guest Posted August 5, 2012 Report Share Posted August 5, 2012 Its the fleas, I assume. But I get so offended at my friends when they change plans or slight me in any way and now I'm in tears and annoyed at myself for being upset with people for unrealistic reasons. I see my nada everyday pretty much. I went to the beach with my friends today a few hours away and called her a few times, no answer. When she finally answered it was no big deal, but yesterday when I left her apartment it was, oh you are not coming tomorrow, will you call me, don't forget about me. I am so angry at everything right now and I really feel like y'all are the only ones who really get it so thanks for listening. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2012 Report Share Posted August 5, 2012 Wow I think if I saw my nada everyday I would be almost suicidal. Once I spent a whole day with her and I tried to choke myself on the way home with my seatbelt. I don't know how you feel when you're with her, but if it's not good, or if you would prefer less time maybe you could set some boundaries so it's not everyday? I mean, if that is what you want. Do you think you react that way to your friends because of how your nada reacts? If so maybe when you start to feel like that, try to take a step back for a second and talk it through objectively in your head. I do this sometimes if I'm irrationally upset - I think " Why am I so angry at my boyfriend right now? What happened before this moment, did it trigger something? " . I find it works for me. > ** > > > Its the fleas, I assume. But I get so offended at my friends when they > change plans or slight me in any way and now I'm in tears and annoyed at > myself for being upset with people for unrealistic reasons. > I see my nada everyday pretty much. I went to the beach with my friends > today a few hours away and called her a few times, no answer. When she > finally answered it was no big deal, but yesterday when I left her > apartment it was, oh you are not coming tomorrow, will you call me, don't > forget about me. I am so angry at everything right now and I really feel > like y'all are the only ones who really get it so thanks for listening. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 6, 2012 Report Share Posted August 6, 2012 No way could I spend everyday with an untreated BPD. It would just crush my relationship with God and others.It would suck me so dry I wouldn't be able to fufill my responsibilities to others, work and myself. Even professionals have a hard time dealing with BPD's, so I don't feel guilty anymore saying, I couldn't spend everyday with an untreated BPD. I need to be around people that give me something back in the relationship and untreated BPD are incapable of doing that. I just don't get anything positive from that kind of relationship 24/7 anymore. Anyone that can is a superperson. My hat goes off to you!!! > > > ** > > > > > > Its the fleas, I assume. But I get so offended at my friends when they > > change plans or slight me in any way and now I'm in tears and annoyed at > > myself for being upset with people for unrealistic reasons. > > I see my nada everyday pretty much. I went to the beach with my friends > > today a few hours away and called her a few times, no answer. When she > > finally answered it was no big deal, but yesterday when I left her > > apartment it was, oh you are not coming tomorrow, will you call me, don't > > forget about me. I am so angry at everything right now and I really feel > > like y'all are the only ones who really get it so thanks for listening. > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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