Guest guest Posted August 20, 2012 Report Share Posted August 20, 2012 It's now been over a year since I went NC with my uBPD hermit mom and her family. I finally started confronting my demonS and not let her continue to step on me, so when she said something terrible to me a year ago I insisted she apologize, which she has never before done in her life. Instead of apologizing she sent me a four page hate missive about every delusional imagined slight I've ever " committed " against her. I refused to engage, and now it's been more than a year since I've heard from her, enabling Schizoid PD dad, or uBPD hermit grandma, uBPD queen aunt or uBPD waif aunt. (ive never met any of the members of my father's family because his disorder causes him to detach, so there's no one to turn to there) in the meantime I got divorced from my DD2's abusive uBPD queen dad and am in custody disputes trying to protect her, and lost my job. Anyone else going through these circumstances would have the support of their families, but not me. BPD has had an utterly devastating impact on my life. I have a beautiful daughter, great friends and a great new partner, so i am overall grateful for my life, but today I am sad. Thanks in advance for any words of support or wisdom, this board has been a source of great strength for me over the past year as I come to terms with the devastating aftermath of growing up surrounded by BPD. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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