Guest guest Posted August 28, 2007 Report Share Posted August 28, 2007 Its been a long time since I posted. I had surgery for my VV and am about 98% pain free. It was alot of work to get from Point A (me & my therapist figuring out that my problem was mostly PHYSICAL and partly psychological) to... Point B (trying a variety of solutions for my vv and finally deciding on surgery) to... Point C (having the surgery and then using multiple-sized dilators for months) to... Point D (actually having intercourse and trying to get pregnant only to discover that I need fertility drugs because I wasn't ovulating) And here is where I'm stuck. After all this work, my partner is complaining that the sex is awkward and not enjoyable or frequent enough. I keep telling him that him talking to me like that is not going to put me in the mood! He remembers to try to be encouraging once in a while but I'm really stuck on the negative comments. I've done all this work so we can try to get pregnant but I don't feel like everything I've gone through is appreciated. I am miserable and just beside myself. I don't know what else to do. Any comments or suggestions? Please help. Jenni :-( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 30, 2007 Report Share Posted August 30, 2007 Jenni----I'm thinking that you both have been through SO much!! I had VV surgery too and know that it is quite a DEAl!! What about some couple's counseling for the 2 of you? Sandy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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