Guest guest Posted October 11, 2012 Report Share Posted October 11, 2012 Hello everyone, I the adult child, I beleive of a BPD mother. I am 58 and have been in denial for years about this. How do I know if my mom was BPD? She was 30 when she had me. Growing up she blamed me for EVERYTHING, well every bad feeling she had. She would just hit me when she was angry. There was no dicipline just hitting sprees and then she would take me out and buy me stuff. Daddy was quite and nice. He never wanted to rock the boat with her. She was like a Hitler. When I was 5 she said I needed to grow up to be a physichiatrist. I now have my masters in counseling psychology LOL I remember not wanting to interact with mom very much and I drank and used srugs till I was 24 to not deal with it. I have two daughters and I am afraid they are both BPD. One is bipolar and BPD. I tell you my life has been one huge DRAMA. Mom was better as she grew older. I took care of her and I loved her very much. I always knew she never did anything to me on purpose. But I did take care of her. I am not BPD I have depression and I choose men that are BPD. I am just now getting in touch with all of this. i was brought up in a time when you never talked about these things about your family. Thanks for reading... Jean Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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