Re: Re: She is pulling out all the stops now and I am 37.5 weeks pregnant.

[Guest guest]

Annie's advice was really great. I'd just go NC. Who needs this junk? She

wants control. Why accommodate her?

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> BPD mother go batshit when we are pregnant. Or with any changes, weddings,

> vacations, family visits, etc.

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> The sad part is, when we are pregnant, this is the time we generally need

> our mother's again in adulthood--and ours become both unavailable and

> dangerous to our piece of mind.

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> Take care of yourself and your baby, & run away from the crazy. If she

> can't get with the program, then she has to be avoided.

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> > I have only in the last year accepted my mother's BPD. She is not in any

> kind of meaningful treatment. I came to understand her diagnosis through my

> own therapeutic relationship with my psychiatrist (who is excellent).

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> > My problem is that I am expecting a baby in two weeks and my BPD mother

> is doing everything in her power and using every weapon in her emotional

> arsenal to try to 'be part of this experience'. It is my

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[Guest guest]

When you see crazy, walk the other way!

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On Oct 13, 2012, at 1:03 PM, Millicent Kunstler millicentkunstler@...>

wrote:

> Annie's advice was really great. I'd just go NC. Who needs this junk? She

> wants control. Why accommodate her?

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>> BPD mother go batshit when we are pregnant. Or with any changes, weddings,

>> vacations, family visits, etc.

>>

>> The sad part is, when we are pregnant, this is the time we generally need

>> our mother's again in adulthood--and ours become both unavailable and

>> dangerous to our piece of mind.

>>

>> Take care of yourself and your baby, & run away from the crazy. If she

>> can't get with the program, then she has to be avoided.

>>

>>

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>>> I have only in the last year accepted my mother's BPD. She is not in any

>> kind of meaningful treatment. I came to understand her diagnosis through my

>> own therapeutic relationship with my psychiatrist (who is excellent).

>>>

>>> My problem is that I am expecting a baby in two weeks and my BPD mother

>> is doing everything in her power and using every weapon in her emotional

>> arsenal to try to 'be part of this experience'. It is my

>>

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