Guest guest Posted October 28, 2012 Report Share Posted October 28, 2012 Hello, It's been a LONG time since I have posted anything, but I am needing some advice and am wondering if I am just having irrational fear or if others have experienced the same thing with their borderline parent. So here's the question. Have any of you been afraid that your borderline parent would kill you? I've had this fear for several years now. She's gotten worse over the past several years and I've finally limited contact with my mother to just email, but she is wanting to come up and visit my sister and I for Christmas. Upon discussing this with my sister, I started having anxiety. She has been violent with me in the past and she doesn't think rationally. I would prefer to see her only in " controlled " settings, such as in a public place. But if she comes, she will most likely stay with my sister. My sister doesn't like this idea either, but if we ask her to stay in a hotel, that is only going to spark problems from the get go. Do any of you have this same fear, that your borderline parent is so devious and irrational that you are afraid they would harm you or your family? Do you think your fears or my fears are sound? Could you share any of your experiences? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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