Going NC or Low Contact, Need advice

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Hi Everyone,

I am considering going NC for awhile. I am wondering if those who are NC

or very LC could share how you did it and made it livable for yourself.

What I mean is do you change your phone number or block their numbers? DO

you just ignore their phone calls and voicemails? DO you only give them

one number to call like a cell instead of home?

My Nada will call and call she is relentless so I am not sure how to deal

with it. In the past I went NC once for a few years but I had moved so she

didn't have my address or phone number now she has both plus my cell number

and her MO is to call and leave drunk nasty messages etc. I am not sure how

to handle the mechanics of going NC and could really use some advice from

others who are doing it. Low Contact is also an option but I have to

figure out how to really keep her at bay because she has all my numbers and

my address. I want to create some barriers to her having access to me and

destroying my holidays and my mental well being. Luckily she lives a 24

hour drive away.....But she has been known to show up on my door step. My

concern is that I am the only child and she is 67 years old so I feel bad

doing it but I just can't take the drunk calls and drama anymore, I need a

break or at the very least very limited contact.

Anyway,,,If any of you could offer advice I would be very appreciative.

Tracey