Re: and 's story ('s perspective)/

[Guest guest]

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As I emailed to your husband a little while ago, you and I are in very similar boats. Please have him show you my emails from today and you'll see what I mean.

I'm 47, husband 57 and in a marriage for 7 years. Just diagnosed with vulvar vestibulitis and lichen sclerosis about 2 months ago and still very scared and clueless. Our sex life is even worse then yours (none period for 6 years) and no intimacy anymore, we're actually hovering somewhere between divorce and a miracle, so I have no idea what's going on now. At least your husband is patient and loves you enough to want to help you and your relationship by finding these sights. His post today really helped me to understand a man's side of it and I forwarded it to my husband.

I don't have any answers for you medically, there are people on here much smarter then I am and that have much more experience, but everyone here is really kind and helpful and will give you all the support you need.

If you want to talk, at any time, feel free to email me....I know exactly what you're going through.

Hang in there Hun.

Hugs-

Ivy

[Guest guest]

Thanks Ivy, has been sharing your emails too and is so happy

to know that other people are dealing with this too, I mean that we're

not alone. Continue to encourage your husband to open up and discuss

these things. would probably even like to talk to him on the

phone if that works better for him - I found a real gem!! I hope he

can help everyone on this site get a better understanding of what our

men are going through and offer support to those committed men out there.

[Guest guest]

Will do , I told hubby about it and I'm urging him to but he's the kind that's very shut down in discussing things....I'll forward this to him too and we'll keep trying! Lol It would be nice for them both to have each other to talk to!!

-- Re: and 's story ('s perspective)/

Thanks Ivy, has been sharing your emails too and is so happy

to know that other people are dealing with this too, I mean that we're

not alone. Continue to encourage your husband to open up and discuss

these things. would probably even like to talk to him on the

phone if that works better for him - I found a real gem!! I hope he

can help everyone on this site get a better understanding of what our

men are going through and offer support to those committed men out there.