Re: and 's story ('s perspective)/ - and new

[Guest guest]

You know, my husband and I are only in our 20's and have hardly ever

had sex without pain. I recently got better, finally, with combo. of

diet, meds and PT, and had some nice sex for a few months but now I'm

pregnant and no sex due to complications! I apologized to him (for the

umpteenth time) the other night and said, " I'm so sorry...I know this

isn't what you signed up for " . And he said, " That's ok, neither did

you! " . He knows it's been super hard on me too. There are good men out

there who stand by their women and are mature enough to handle living

without sex for a time or working with other forms of

intimacy/gratification if necessary. It just takes a lot of time and

communication to work out the details - some days are better than

others.=)

Melinda