Flea? Bad reaction?

[Guest guest]

So, the Nada rage is probably familiar, unfortunately, to many of you. My nada

was a big rager. It was scary.

Now, as an adult, I find myself really, really uncomfortable around anger. when

my wife gets angry about something I totally shut down and find myself afraid to

move or speak or do anything, and I find myself terrified that it will last

forever. Clearly, I turn into the terrified child at the mercy of my nada.

It's healthy to be angry sometimes, so I need to learn to deal with it. Any

thoughts on this?

Thanks!

Leah