Re: New to the group and in a really tough spot

[Guest guest]

Welcome KS. . . .it is a very tough spot and I have no words of wisdom except

that knowledge is power and the more you understand of what it means to be a

child of a BPD parent the more you understand why you do the things you do. I

can honestly say that ALL of my bad traits and downfalls are due to my

upbringing of a Queen BPD mother and a NPD Schizoid father. My brother has very

similar relationship issues to yours and I would highly suggest therapy to work

through those issues but you should find someone that has experience with BPD

and understands how to deal with adult children of BPD people – since it is a

really damaging situation for people to be raised in that environment.

I look forward to hearing about your journey and wish you the best as you take

new steps forward in discovering yourself.