Guest guest Posted September 20, 2007 Report Share Posted September 20, 2007 My husband was like this for a long time. He is better now. I don't know if it's just time or understanding - I explain everything very specifically to him - like all about the nerves and how that works, and the skin part of it, and what all the different meds and treatments are doing. Also, he came to PT with me and learned how to do it at home and does that several times a week for me, so he feels like he's helping. Melinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2007 Report Share Posted September 20, 2007 Okay, this might sound crude, but try offering another suggestion. Maybe try learning some new fellatio techniques, or if the pain's not in your thigh region, that could work, too. I know it's hard to get geared up for anything when you're in pain (I know it's hard for me, at least, with my fiance and I), but it seems to work! Your husband understands your condition, though, right? Maybe he just needs a reminder that this is a physical, medical condition (not to say that you aren't doing that already), when he's not so hopped up. Hope any of this was helpful! Beth > > When my husband het all hopped up it is very hard to try and explain to him that I can't have sex. How does everyone else tell their husband no without hurting their feelings? No matter how I tell him, he is starting to think its something he is doing wrong. > > > > > --------------------------------- > Boardwalk for $500? In 2007? Ha! > Play Monopoly Here and Now (it's updated for today's economy) at Yahoo! Games. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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