Guest guest Posted October 29, 2001 Report Share Posted October 29, 2001 Hi Folks. Thanks for all of your answers. is on his way to the doctor today so hopefully we'll get something ironed out. Tell me, he says the Sinemet was making him nauseous and very, very sore, particularly his legs and shoulders. Is this a side effect that may go away if he continues taking the Sinemet? The only other meds he is on are permax and selegeline. The paranoia is very upsetting but if he gets benefits from the Sinemet eventually and the paranoia goes away I would say it is worth it. How about cognitive disorganization? Is this a symptom or a side effect? Sometimes it seems to me he's just not quite there cognitively. Is that a fair assessment? I tell you, I second guess myself constantly with this. I'm never sure if it's just me or if it's actually happening. Bill, I read recently that Charlotte came home from rehab. I'm so glad and she must be as well. Any advice anyone can give me would be very much appreciated. Thanks Pat from Nova Scotia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 29, 2001 Report Share Posted October 29, 2001 Pat from NS, You may have stopped the wrong medicine as permax and selegeline have the same side effects. In fact it is more a sign of them than Sinemet. There is a lot of doubt that Permax will work without the L-dopa in the Sinemet. The Selegiline Hydrochloride info sheet states: " To treat Parkinsons disease, in conjunction with levodopa/carbidopa. Also used to treat Parkinson-like syndromes, which may occur following infection of or injury to the central nervous system (brain and spinal cord), because of damage to blood vessels in the brain, or after exposure to certain toxins. Without levodopa/carbidopa, this drug has no known benefit. So stopping the Sinemet and keeping those is not a good idea. On the other hand, stopping one of them and staying with the Sinemet may cut the side effects and still help rigidity. Of those three medicines, the Sinemet helps the most MSA patients. It is best to work closely with the doctor on changing meds. Take care, Bill and Charlotte pjd@... wrote: > Hi Folks. Thanks for all of your answers. is on his way to > the doctor today so hopefully we'll get something ironed out. Tell > me, he says the Sinemet was making him nauseous and very, very sore, > particularly his legs and shoulders. Is this a side effect that may > go away if he continues taking the Sinemet? The only other meds he > is on are permax and selegeline. The paranoia is very upsetting but > if he gets benefits from the Sinemet eventually and the paranoia goes > away I would say it is worth it. How about cognitive > disorganization? Is this a symptom or a side effect? Sometimes it > seems to me he's just not quite there cognitively. Is that a fair > assessment? I tell you, I second guess myself constantly with this. > I'm never sure if it's just me or if it's actually happening. > > Bill, I read recently that Charlotte came home from rehab. I'm so > glad and she must be as well. > > Any advice anyone can give me would be very much appreciated. > Thanks > Pat from Nova Scotia > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > shydrager-unsubscribe > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2001 Report Share Posted October 30, 2001 Dear Pat: I feel I must jump in here. The time does come in this disease when the patient can no longer make the rules about what goes on in the home. 's behavior has become Demented, and he cannot decide whether you may go to the doctor with him. If you are afraid of his hurting you if you do go, you MUST call the doctor and tell him your fears. You cannot allow to actually harm you physically because he is not in his right mind because of this illness. Not only could you be harmed, but he would have to live with the fact that he had harmed you. You also probably should notify the local police that he is not behaving normally, so they will respond quickly if you call them. I was told this by the members of my support group, but I put it off because ken was a retired Judge and well-known in our community. When the day came that he called and said he was being poisoned by his wife, I was able to talk to them and explain that I should have called them sooner. They said they would be aware now and thanked me. It is very very hard to realize that the person you married has become someone else, but this is what is going on with and you are now in charge whether you like it or not. The first time I went to the doctor with ken, he was very upset, but the doctor in front of ken asked me to always come with him, so there was very little he could do about that. By the way, because Ken actually had Lewy Body Disease, Aricept put a stop to all that crazy behavior. you might ask your doctor about that. You are in my prayers, Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2001 Report Share Posted October 30, 2001 Dear Bill and Charlotte. Well...the thing is, has forbidden me to contact or go to the doctors. He says I cannot go to the neurologist any more and he won't let me see his GP either. He also thinks I tried to poison him with some chicken soup, which I had to give to my daugters family just to get it out of the house it was such a bone of contention. I must confess, I'm stymied. He has periods of rage, during one of which, he lifted a big oxygen cylinder out of the back of his truck and threw it. I've also noticed his memory has become very selective. He can't remember doing a thing wrong in his life but contends I have done very little right. Is this the progress of the disease or is this medication? He has been on Permax and Selegeline for almost a year and only started the Sinemet about 2 months ago. He discontinued it by himself about a week and half ago I guess. Again, any help would be appreciated. Thanks Pat from N.S. > > > Hi Folks. Thanks for all of your answers. is on his way to > > the doctor today so hopefully we'll get something ironed out. Tell > > me, he says the Sinemet was making him nauseous and very, very sore, > > particularly his legs and shoulders. Is this a side effect that may > > go away if he continues taking the Sinemet? The only other meds he > > is on are permax and selegeline. The paranoia is very upsetting but > > if he gets benefits from the Sinemet eventually and the paranoia goes > > away I would say it is worth it. How about cognitive > > disorganization? Is this a symptom or a side effect? Sometimes it > > seems to me he's just not quite there cognitively. Is that a fair > > assessment? I tell you, I second guess myself constantly with this. > > I'm never sure if it's just me or if it's actually happening. > > > > Bill, I read recently that Charlotte came home from rehab. I'm so > > glad and she must be as well. > > > > Any advice anyone can give me would be very much appreciated. > > Thanks > > Pat from Nova Scotia > > > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > > > shydrager-unsubscribe@y... > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2001 Report Share Posted October 30, 2001 Has anyone mentioned the possibility of Parkinsons Disease with Lewy Bodies. You might want to research. Rage comes with that disease. Marilyn in TN > From: pjd@... > Reply-To: shydrager > Date: Tue, 30 Oct 2001 14:39:23 -0000 > To: shydrager > Subject: Re: He's discontinued his Sinemet > > Dear Bill and Charlotte. Well...the thing is, has forbidden me > to contact or go to the doctors. He says I cannot go to the > neurologist any more and he won't let me see his GP either. He also > thinks I tried to poison him with some chicken soup, which I had to > give to my daugters family just to get it out of the house it was > such a bone of contention. I must confess, I'm stymied. He has > periods of rage, during one of which, he lifted a big oxygen cylinder > out of the back of his truck and threw it. I've also noticed his > memory has become very selective. He can't remember doing a thing > wrong in his life but contends I have done very little right. Is > this the progress of the disease or is this medication? He has been > on Permax and Selegeline for almost a year and only started the > Sinemet about 2 months ago. He discontinued it by himself about a > week and half ago I guess. Again, any help would be appreciated. > Thanks > > Pat from N.S. > > >> >>> Hi Folks. Thanks for all of your answers. is on his way to >>> the doctor today so hopefully we'll get something ironed out. > Tell >>> me, he says the Sinemet was making him nauseous and very, very > sore, >>> particularly his legs and shoulders. Is this a side effect that > may >>> go away if he continues taking the Sinemet? The only other meds > he >>> is on are permax and selegeline. The paranoia is very upsetting > but >>> if he gets benefits from the Sinemet eventually and the paranoia > goes >>> away I would say it is worth it. How about cognitive >>> disorganization? Is this a symptom or a side effect? Sometimes > it >>> seems to me he's just not quite there cognitively. Is that a fair >>> assessment? I tell you, I second guess myself constantly with > this. >>> I'm never sure if it's just me or if it's actually happening. >>> >>> Bill, I read recently that Charlotte came home from rehab. I'm so >>> glad and she must be as well. >>> >>> Any advice anyone can give me would be very much appreciated. >>> Thanks >>> Pat from Nova Scotia >>> >>> If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may >>> unsubscribe by sending a blank email to >>> >>> shydrager-unsubscribe@y... >>> >>> >>> >>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2001 Report Share Posted October 30, 2001 Pat, At this point you need to recognize that he needs help and that his instructions to you not to contact his doctors cannot be followed. Maybe you have to do it on the sly and ask them not to reveal that you contacted them, but some medical professional needs to evaluate him for your safety and his. Jerry Cash Re: He's discontinued his Sinemet Dear Bill and Charlotte. Well...the thing is, has forbidden me to contact or go to the doctors. He says I cannot go to the neurologist any more and he won't let me see his GP either. He also thinks I tried to poison him with some chicken soup, which I had to give to my daugters family just to get it out of the house it was such a bone of contention. I must confess, I'm stymied. He has periods of rage, during one of which, he lifted a big oxygen cylinder out of the back of his truck and threw it. I've also noticed his memory has become very selective. He can't remember doing a thing wrong in his life but contends I have done very little right. Is this the progress of the disease or is this medication? He has been on Permax and Selegeline for almost a year and only started the Sinemet about 2 months ago. He discontinued it by himself about a week and half ago I guess. Again, any help would be appreciated. Thanks Pat from N.S. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2001 Report Share Posted October 30, 2001 Hi Pat, Did go to his neuro's appointment the other day by himself? I would think the doctor would find this unusual and wonder why you or someone weren't with him. I'd call his doctors (GP and Neuro) and tell them exactly what you told us. They'll be able to help figure out whether the drugs he's on are causing this or whether something else is going on... remember none of us are doctors. Do you know for sure which medications he is taking and how much of each or does he control the pills himself? As his wife and caregiver you have every right to speak to his doctors and you are the best observer of his behaviour, please call and tell them about his paranoia and rage, these are not normal. Hugs, Pam _______________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2001 Report Share Posted October 30, 2001 Pat; You wrote........Well...the thing is, has forbidden me to contact or go to the doctors. He says I cannot go to the neurologist any more and he won't let me see his GP either. What would you do Pat if he forbid you to cook for him and even refused to eat. Would you let him starve. Do what is right! You know he is wrong. Honestly I think you have to toughen up before there is nothing left of you. Spouses can berate you to the point of paralyzing you to do anything. Making you not only doubt yourself but not believing in yourself at all. And then start believing all the slanted negative stuff is the whole truth about you. That's why so many abused women stay with their abuser.( a little insight of my first marriage more than 20 yrs ago) The word FORBID should NEVER be said in a marriage. You have leverage. Pack your bags and put them by the door for him to see. What would he do if you left him? Sorry if I'm to rough on you Pat, but no matter how many years have gone by, the furry of my mind being so messed up puts me back on a soap box. Ann-MN _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com/intl.asp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2001 Report Share Posted October 30, 2001 Pat from N.S. Is that Nova Scotia? I'm sorry Pat but I can only suggest it is time to consider leaving going to the authorities. Any one who has a bottle of oxygen in the truck and picks it up and throws it, is dangerous. If the neck of the bottle broke off, it would become a missle and could kill someone. Not to mention the fire hazard of leaking oxygen. This does not sound like the type of behavior from Sinemet, but could be from any one of the meds. If he has been off the Sinemet for over a week, it is doubtful that it is the problem and the other meds should be considered. It is certainly not normal behavior for MSA. It sounds as if he has mental problems on top of whatever else he has. Here in the USA, Social Services could help make him seek mental health services. He will need your help later if he truly has MSA and must accept that now while you are able to put up with him. Marriage counciling would seem to be a minimum step and leaving him would be a possible step if he did not try to help matters. If you are to be his caregiver, contact with his doctors is essential. How about it Canadians, what type of mental health and legal services do you have up there? Your laws seem to be similar to ours for the most part. Take care, Bill and Charlotte pjd@... wrote: > Dear Bill and Charlotte. Well...the thing is, has forbidden me > to contact or go to the doctors. He says I cannot go to the > neurologist any more and he won't let me see his GP either. He also > thinks I tried to poison him with some chicken soup, which I had to > give to my daugters family just to get it out of the house it was > such a bone of contention. I must confess, I'm stymied. He has > periods of rage, during one of which, he lifted a big oxygen cylinder > out of the back of his truck and threw it. I've also noticed his > memory has become very selective. He can't remember doing a thing > wrong in his life but contends I have done very little right. Is > this the progress of the disease or is this medication? He has been > on Permax and Selegeline for almost a year and only started the > Sinemet about 2 months ago. He discontinued it by himself about a > week and half ago I guess. Again, any help would be appreciated. > Thanks > > Pat from N.S. > > > > > > > Hi Folks. Thanks for all of your answers. is on his way to > > > the doctor today so hopefully we'll get something ironed out. > Tell > > > me, he says the Sinemet was making him nauseous and very, very > sore, > > > particularly his legs and shoulders. Is this a side effect that > may > > > go away if he continues taking the Sinemet? The only other meds > he > > > is on are permax and selegeline. The paranoia is very upsetting > but > > > if he gets benefits from the Sinemet eventually and the paranoia > goes > > > away I would say it is worth it. How about cognitive > > > disorganization? Is this a symptom or a side effect? Sometimes > it > > > seems to me he's just not quite there cognitively. Is that a fair > > > assessment? I tell you, I second guess myself constantly with > this. > > > I'm never sure if it's just me or if it's actually happening. > > > > > > Bill, I read recently that Charlotte came home from rehab. I'm so > > > glad and she must be as well. > > > > > > Any advice anyone can give me would be very much appreciated. > > > Thanks > > > Pat from Nova Scotia > > > > > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > > > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > > > > > shydrager-unsubscribe@y... > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2001 Report Share Posted October 30, 2001 > >> > >>> Hi Folks. Thanks for all of your answers. is on his way to > >>> the doctor today so hopefully we'll get something ironed out. > > Tell > >>> me, he says the Sinemet was making him nauseous and very, very > > sore, > >>> particularly his legs and shoulders. Is this a side effect that > > may > >>> go away if he continues taking the Sinemet? The only other meds > > he > >>> is on are permax and selegeline. The paranoia is very upsetting > > but > >>> if he gets benefits from the Sinemet eventually and the paranoia > > goes > >>> away I would say it is worth it. How about cognitive > >>> disorganization? Is this a symptom or a side effect? Sometimes > > it > >>> seems to me he's just not quite there cognitively. Is that a fair > >>> assessment? I tell you, I second guess myself constantly with > > this. > >>> I'm never sure if it's just me or if it's actually happening. > >>> > >>> Bill, I read recently that Charlotte came home from rehab. I'm so > >>> glad and she must be as well. > >>> > >>> Any advice anyone can give me would be very much appreciated. > >>> Thanks > >>> Pat from Nova Scotia > >>> > >>> If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > >>> unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > >>> > >>> shydrager-unsubscribe@y... > >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2001 Report Share Posted October 31, 2001 Greetings Pat! You noted: > has forbidden me to contact or go to > the doctors. He says I cannot go to the > neurologist any more and he won't let me > see his GP either. You can go see your doctor. Discuss it with that doctor. You need to find out to whom you can go to learn how to deal with a paranoid partner. Your husband can and should loose control over his medical situation if he becomes a threat to himself or others. This may be the case here. Regardless, he needs to go see a licensed psychiatrist. Another route is to go see one on your own to find out the process in this type of situation. Remember refusing to take medication and eat is a form of suicide. It is entirely possible your husbands situation can be improved with medication. Regards, =jbf= B. Fisher Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2001 Report Share Posted October 31, 2001 Hi and thanks. Actually, I'm seeing my Doctor tomorrow and have been in touch with a psychiatrist as well. We'll get past this one way or the other. Especially with the help I get from this group. regards Pat from NS > Greetings Pat! > > You noted: > > > has forbidden me to contact or go to > > the doctors. He says I cannot go to the > > neurologist any more and he won't let me > > see his GP either. > > You can go see your doctor. Discuss it with that doctor. You need to find > out to whom you can go to learn how to deal with a paranoid partner. Your > husband can and should loose control over his medical situation if he > becomes a threat to himself or others. This may be the case here. > > Regardless, he needs to go see a licensed psychiatrist. Another route is to > go see one on your own to find out the process in this type of situation. > Remember refusing to take medication and eat is a form of suicide. It is > entirely possible your husbands situation can be improved with medication. > > > Regards, > =jbf= > > B. Fisher Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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