Guest guest Posted August 13, 2008 Report Share Posted August 13, 2008 Vicky ... I know you're hurting about your auntie/mom. Try to remember what I said before, her reality isn't your reality and like Bruce wrote, she may well hear/understand more than you think. Talk to her like you would otherwise...about the kids, what they are doing, the weather, you. You just won't get appropriate answers, if any but you are communicating on some level. I'm so sorry you are feeling so much grief on top of all the rest you deal with. Your whole family is in a grief process aren't they. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Much love. MamaSher, age 69. IPF 3-06, OR. NasturtiumsDon't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! Just a hello HI everyone, I'm sorry I havent kept up with the posts, Im dealing with something here that hurts me more than my own disease. My dear sweet aunt who helped raise me and is just like a mom to me has slipped into the next stage of Dementia and shes not remembering things. This breaks my heart even more so than my own self being sick. She is so sweet,shes lived with me 45 of my 51 yrs. It's hard to go see her cause I cry but I cry if I dont so I've been sleeping alot, taking a lot of Xanax and Morphine. My Hospice nurse wants me to talk to my Social Worker, she comes Thursday. I pray you are all doing well, and you are all still in my prayers at night. I love you all...... Vicky81856 Looking for a car that's sporty, fun and fits in your budget? Read reviews on AOL Autos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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