Don't need anyone putting the group down

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I have had a bad day too. Just like alot of people with this illness. I worked

all day and had to see a patient die.....(more than my share of seeing death

lately)...

Anyway, just want to say that I love this group and that is why I have been here

for over a year. There are wonderful people here. If someone is unhappy with

it and consider us to be rude no matter how appologetic we are, then I don't

need to read that kind of post. We are what we are here. We have many

members... some just read, some post sometimes, some post almost daily, and we

always have more posts than can be read or responded to. I never take it

personal when one of my posts is not answered. I do not expect everyone in this

group to answer every post I have because we are all sick. We don't have all

day to sit on the computer even if we might want to. Some of us still work and

have kids and families and suffer pain everyday. So, if my post is not

answered, I just assume people have not been able to read or respond to it due

to the volume of mail... about 200 in my box daily on average. If I don't

answer each and every email, it does not mean I don't care.

It just means I am ill, have been trying to work that way, and have not had

time or energy to read all 200 letters and respond. This is not a one on one

counseling session here because it is impossible to make it one. (although I am

more than happy to write personal emails to people and give support one on one

when I can).

But if all you have to say is how rude we are, then why hang around????? I have

seen several appologies here. If you can't accept that and have found a better

group, then so be it.

Debra V.

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