hey sharon

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Hi sharon,

How are you hun? hope things are ok. Hubby would love nothing more than for

me to leave. He really dislikes me. hate maybe too strong a word. Yes I am

ready to end all of this crap. He will be getting out though, not me. If I

have to change the locks and put his stuff outside, maybe then he will get

it. No one should have to put up with this. He even took anger out on

last night. I was eating and he didn't like her near me while doing so and

grabbed her collar which fell off, called her a few choice words and

proceeded to drag her by the leg to put her outside, while yelling at me to

get up and help and I am eating? She was fine, but no he had to to that. I

stopped him by taking her out myself. She follows me right out. So there is

something more here than just me.

ty for being there for me. You are a grea friend. I am blessed.

Hugs,

[image: linda-gold]

On Sat, Mar 15, 2008 at 3:02 PM, sharon studley

wrote:

> I know it's the real world, and what I am about to say is easier

> said then done probably, but sounds like your at the point though to at

> least start protecting yourself from this man. I wonder if you can get out

> would he realize what he has done, lost, etc. get whatever help he needs to

> stop the abusive behavior? I think he thinks he has one over on you, and you

> figures because you have this disease will always need him so has no fear

> that you may get away from him. I hope things get better for you, and your

> pain from teeth continue to heal. And will pray that you have the strength

> to remove yourelf from the abuse, if not totally at least like you said each

> time he decides he has the right to have you be HIS batting post. Take Care,

> wishing you lighter days Sharon

>

> Andersen <Lander2004@... <Lander2004%40comcast.net>> wrote:

> , I'm glad you made it through the night...I sure don't know what to

> tell you about hubby...I hope you get through the weekend okay. I know,

> stress is not a good thing for us...but there is no shortage of it, it would

> seem.

> Take care of yourself,

> /Mi

> I survived the night/trigger maybe

>

> Morning,

> Thanks everyone for your prayers and support. It means so much to me. I

> survived the night. Not much sleep as the pain kept waking me up and of

> course last night's stress did not help.

> It is not up to me to try and change this man or for me to change to

> please him. He needs to do this for himself. I refuse to be his punching bag

> any longer verbally, mentally or otherwise. Now, what to do about it? that

> is my next step. I am going to remove myself from the situation everytime it

> arises. I cannot handle it and my disease cannot handle it either. So where

> does that leave me? Not sure yet.

> I wish someone would tell this man a thing or two about what a real

> husband is. How I deserve to be treated. His Mom dod not raise him this way

> and if alive, would not support it. So where does it come from? I am not

> taking the blame or trying to smooth thing over to suit him. He is an

> abuser. Plain and simple.

> After all he put me through last night, he finally coughed up the money

> for pet food. I knew he had some.

> My pain level is quite high still. I do not know what is gonna solve it at

> this point. I do know I cannot stand much more.

> Hope everyone is doing well. I could not do this without all of you.

> awesome friends is what I have. A true blessing.

> Hugs,

>

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