Re: To - about those HUSBANDS! Re: NEW & have NO IDEA where to begin...

[Guest guest]

Hi Kandi,

My husband just doesn't get it. He tries, but just doesn't get it!!!!! He thinks

all pain is alike and all exhaustion is alike! NOT. Have a good day. It started

off sunny and nice here, now it's cloudy and maybe gonna rain, my muscles are

starting to complain!

/Mi

To - about those HUSBANDS! Re: NEW & have NO IDEA where

to begin...

Hi ! Great to meet you! I find myself saying " me too! " constantly

while reading others posts. That's what's so comforting about this

group...we can all identify with one another. And I SO know what you

mean about the husbands! I think mine's gotten in the habit of

complaining along with me, for instance, if his back is bothering him

or whatever... & I really think he thinks that we have a similar type

of pain & is maybe trying to commiserate with me??? I dunno...but

sometimes I do just want to say " buddy, you have no idea!!! " But I

don't...cause I love him & he's a sweet guy. Since we're on the

subject ( & hey, we all need to vent)...ANOTHER thing that bothers me

is that he just seems to " forget " that the fibro is there sometimes &

expects me to do things or go about things normally & I have to gently

remind him. You'd think by now he'd know...

God bless them...I know they do their best but...jeesh...

Do you think they think we're mad at them because they feel helpless?

Sometimes I think that...

Do you have the same issues or is it just my darling hubby???

~Kandi/a smidgen east of Pittsburgh

> Hi Kandi,

> Welcome, and I'm sorry you have to be here, but I've found it's a great

> place to be. I was reading your post and said out loud, " me too " about

> 5 times!! I'm so sick of my husband whenever I mention my pain(which I

> don't very often because of his response) he says, oh, I know what you

> mean....NO you don't! I think he feels I'm mad at him too, well,

> sometimes I am!!! Hang in there, we are all in this boat together.

> /Mi