RE: My tigger

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((((((((Angie))))))))

Yeah, I did enjoy my corned beef and cabbage and I enjoyed playing this new

game (new for me). I did NOT need a lecture from my brother when I'm not

getting the medical help that I need (how many of us do?). I'm so

frustrated, angry, hurt and just lost that I can't stop crying. I know it

shouldn't get me this badly, but it shows truly how little he does

understand. I thought he had learned more.

I have more difficulty with meds because of my gastric by-pass. I need

higher doses and shorter time between them. the doctors don't get it. If it

has to be broken down in the intestine I'm screwed. I don't have the

intestine to break it down. I also don't have much acid in my stomach to

break it down.

I could scream right now. Everything you said is right. It's kind of like

what I've been saying lately. the crises is over, so my brother either

disappears or acts like a jerk. I think I'm going to have to take a break

from him and just do what I need to do for me.

I go from constant pain to really bad constant pain. Great choices, huh?

I'm about at the end of my rope and there is very little I care about right

now. except the fur kids.

Tigger (Ruth) in Rhode Island

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From: Fibromyalgia_Support_Group

[mailto:Fibromyalgia_Support_Group ] On Behalf Of Angie

Sent: Sunday, March 16, 2008 10:57 PM

To: Fibromyalgia_Support_Group

Subject: Re: My tigger

Tigger,

First of all, he's male.

Second, he's been insensitive to you a lot in the past. He doesn't want to

hear about the reality of your illness.

I'll say this much; guys want to fix things. If they can't just fix it, they

don't want to hear about it.

I know this is a generalization but its not derogative. Men and Women have

different traits. Generally, most men want to take charge and fix things. If

they can't they don't want to be reminded of it. That's why your brother has

been helpful to you when there was something he could do.

I don't want to make excuses for him here. I just want you to find a place

in your mind where he won't keep hurting you so deeply. Did you at least

enjoy your corned beef and cabbage?

Angie Harley Mama Double-D

Carson City, NV; Single, five children (3 at home), 2 dogs, 4 cats, snow

skiing, camping, Harley Rider, Lone Wolf, Blue Thong Society/High Sierra

Thong Snappers member, LFA Advocate, independent, opinionated, outspoken,

and open minded.

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My tigger

Hugs my friend. I so understand. I cannot talk about it to my family either

[Mr Wonderful and Mel} without eye rolling, shrugging me off or making a

rude comment. I don't look sick, thus I must not be. I was called a pain

pill seeker tonight. Is he for real? I am here if you need to talk. Email me

anytime.

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