Guest guest Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 I didn't have reconsturction. I had my surgery at age 44 and will be 61 shortly. I have never regretted not having reconsturction. There are lots of ladies here that had reconstruction. I do know some of it can be painful. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com DCIS > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I > have > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when > it > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet > still > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't > spread, > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. > I > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best > reconstructive > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > share with me their experience? > Thanks > Debbie > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > Psalm 50:15 > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 I didn't have reconsturction. I had my surgery at age 44 and will be 61 shortly. I have never regretted not having reconsturction. There are lots of ladies here that had reconstruction. I do know some of it can be painful. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com DCIS > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I > have > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when > it > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet > still > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't > spread, > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. > I > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best > reconstructive > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > share with me their experience? > Thanks > Debbie > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > Psalm 50:15 > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 Hello, I chose reconstruction with implants. Many women choose the Tram flap because for one, its a free tummy tuck and it feels more natural plus it comes from your own body. You have to have a certain amount of fat on your stomach. I am athletic and need my stomach muscles so this wasn't an option for me. Some women choose not to augement at all. It depends on how you feel about your body with your partner and with yourself. Prosthetics are fine as well but not for bathing suits and some clothing. Believe me, I cried over my prosthetic so many times I wanted to chuck it in the bin. But you get the right bra and you're golden. Especially if you're in a long time relationship with someone you love who cares about boobs? (I am single now, never married and no children) I have heard really good things about the tram, and I personally am very happy with what I have. No one can tell except when I jump up and down only the left side bounces, the other side only moves a little...sigh. The resonstruction can be started the same day you have the surgery to remove the cancer, a plastic surgeon comes in and inserts the expander. It takes quite a bit longer to recover but it's nice they do it in one surgery like that. Over the coming months you get more saline added through a port in the expander. It's weird because you have no feeling, and they are sticking this big needle in there and you watch your chest expand. Very bizarre. I had that in there for almost 8 months before they went back in and replaced the expander and did put a little one in the other side so they'd match up better. I didn't go very big, it would look funny on my body and I was happy with the ones I had had before anyway. You are young so both of those options for augmentation would be good providing you have enough tummy for the tram. I know how scared you must be, it's like a dream. There are a lot of decisions that are up to us. Ask your doctor to show you pictures of before and after for both surgeries. I did and was very surprised, when done well by a surgeon who has done a ton (and don't go with any plastic surgeon that hasn't done a lot of mastectomy patients) it can look really amazing. Good luck, you'll come to decide on what's right for you. Don't worry... Love K & nne Svihlik wrote: I didn't have reconsturction. I had my surgery at age 44 and will be 61 shortly. I have never regretted not having reconsturction. There are lots of ladies here that had reconstruction. I do know some of it can be painful. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com DCIS > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I > have > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when > it > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet > still > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't > spread, > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. > I > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best > reconstructive > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > share with me their experience? > Thanks > Debbie > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > Psalm 50:15 > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 Hello, I chose reconstruction with implants. Many women choose the Tram flap because for one, its a free tummy tuck and it feels more natural plus it comes from your own body. You have to have a certain amount of fat on your stomach. I am athletic and need my stomach muscles so this wasn't an option for me. Some women choose not to augement at all. It depends on how you feel about your body with your partner and with yourself. Prosthetics are fine as well but not for bathing suits and some clothing. Believe me, I cried over my prosthetic so many times I wanted to chuck it in the bin. But you get the right bra and you're golden. Especially if you're in a long time relationship with someone you love who cares about boobs? (I am single now, never married and no children) I have heard really good things about the tram, and I personally am very happy with what I have. No one can tell except when I jump up and down only the left side bounces, the other side only moves a little...sigh. The resonstruction can be started the same day you have the surgery to remove the cancer, a plastic surgeon comes in and inserts the expander. It takes quite a bit longer to recover but it's nice they do it in one surgery like that. Over the coming months you get more saline added through a port in the expander. It's weird because you have no feeling, and they are sticking this big needle in there and you watch your chest expand. Very bizarre. I had that in there for almost 8 months before they went back in and replaced the expander and did put a little one in the other side so they'd match up better. I didn't go very big, it would look funny on my body and I was happy with the ones I had had before anyway. You are young so both of those options for augmentation would be good providing you have enough tummy for the tram. I know how scared you must be, it's like a dream. There are a lot of decisions that are up to us. Ask your doctor to show you pictures of before and after for both surgeries. I did and was very surprised, when done well by a surgeon who has done a ton (and don't go with any plastic surgeon that hasn't done a lot of mastectomy patients) it can look really amazing. Good luck, you'll come to decide on what's right for you. Don't worry... Love K & nne Svihlik wrote: I didn't have reconsturction. I had my surgery at age 44 and will be 61 shortly. I have never regretted not having reconsturction. There are lots of ladies here that had reconstruction. I do know some of it can be painful. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com DCIS > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I > have > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when > it > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet > still > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't > spread, > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. > I > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best > reconstructive > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > share with me their experience? > Thanks > Debbie > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > Psalm 50:15 > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 Hello, I chose reconstruction with implants. Many women choose the Tram flap because for one, its a free tummy tuck and it feels more natural plus it comes from your own body. You have to have a certain amount of fat on your stomach. I am athletic and need my stomach muscles so this wasn't an option for me. Some women choose not to augement at all. It depends on how you feel about your body with your partner and with yourself. Prosthetics are fine as well but not for bathing suits and some clothing. Believe me, I cried over my prosthetic so many times I wanted to chuck it in the bin. But you get the right bra and you're golden. Especially if you're in a long time relationship with someone you love who cares about boobs? (I am single now, never married and no children) I have heard really good things about the tram, and I personally am very happy with what I have. No one can tell except when I jump up and down only the left side bounces, the other side only moves a little...sigh. The resonstruction can be started the same day you have the surgery to remove the cancer, a plastic surgeon comes in and inserts the expander. It takes quite a bit longer to recover but it's nice they do it in one surgery like that. Over the coming months you get more saline added through a port in the expander. It's weird because you have no feeling, and they are sticking this big needle in there and you watch your chest expand. Very bizarre. I had that in there for almost 8 months before they went back in and replaced the expander and did put a little one in the other side so they'd match up better. I didn't go very big, it would look funny on my body and I was happy with the ones I had had before anyway. You are young so both of those options for augmentation would be good providing you have enough tummy for the tram. I know how scared you must be, it's like a dream. There are a lot of decisions that are up to us. Ask your doctor to show you pictures of before and after for both surgeries. I did and was very surprised, when done well by a surgeon who has done a ton (and don't go with any plastic surgeon that hasn't done a lot of mastectomy patients) it can look really amazing. Good luck, you'll come to decide on what's right for you. Don't worry... Love K & nne Svihlik wrote: I didn't have reconsturction. I had my surgery at age 44 and will be 61 shortly. I have never regretted not having reconsturction. There are lots of ladies here that had reconstruction. I do know some of it can be painful. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com DCIS > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I > have > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when > it > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet > still > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't > spread, > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. > I > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best > reconstructive > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > share with me their experience? > Thanks > Debbie > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > Psalm 50:15 > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 Cant the Tram Flap come from your behind as well? Seems I say some pics where they used skin from the back end? I dont have a very big stomach, but I do have extra meat in the seat...giggle char > I didn't have reconsturction. I had my surgery at age 44 and will be 61 > shortly. I have never regretted not having reconsturction. There are lots of > ladies here that had reconstruction. I do know some of it can be painful. I > will keep you in my prayers. > Hugs > nne > Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life > http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html > BreastCancerStories.com > http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ > Angel Feather Loomer > www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com > Check out my other ornaments at > www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html > Lots of info and gifts at: > www.cancerclub.com > DCIS > > > > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I > > have > > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when > > it > > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet > > still > > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non- invasive...hasn't > > spread, > > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. > > I > > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best > > reconstructive > > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > > share with me their experience? > > Thanks > > Debbie > > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > > Psalm 50:15 > > > > > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 Cant the Tram Flap come from your behind as well? Seems I say some pics where they used skin from the back end? I dont have a very big stomach, but I do have extra meat in the seat...giggle char > I didn't have reconsturction. I had my surgery at age 44 and will be 61 > shortly. I have never regretted not having reconsturction. There are lots of > ladies here that had reconstruction. I do know some of it can be painful. I > will keep you in my prayers. > Hugs > nne > Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life > http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html > BreastCancerStories.com > http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ > Angel Feather Loomer > www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com > Check out my other ornaments at > www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html > Lots of info and gifts at: > www.cancerclub.com > DCIS > > > > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I > > have > > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when > > it > > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet > > still > > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non- invasive...hasn't > > spread, > > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. > > I > > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best > > reconstructive > > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > > share with me their experience? > > Thanks > > Debbie > > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > > Psalm 50:15 > > > > > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 Thanks for sharing your experience with me. It really helps me feel better. I'm sure I'll make the right decision about which one to use. It really helps when people are positive than when they are negative. It really brings one down when someone is negative to everything. Thanks for your upbeat attitude and for your help. Debbie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 Thanks for sharing your experience with me. It really helps me feel better. I'm sure I'll make the right decision about which one to use. It really helps when people are positive than when they are negative. It really brings one down when someone is negative to everything. Thanks for your upbeat attitude and for your help. Debbie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 Thanks for sharing your experience with me. It really helps me feel better. I'm sure I'll make the right decision about which one to use. It really helps when people are positive than when they are negative. It really brings one down when someone is negative to everything. Thanks for your upbeat attitude and for your help. Debbie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2006 Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 Hi Debbie, I am 46 years old, I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer in oct 05. I recieved chemo, surgery{mastectomy}, then raditation. Since my surgery I have been suffering with Lymphedema, and do not have use of my left arm, Please be sure to ask your doctor about this. I have found it to be a horrible out come, and I would not repeat it. I am in daily constant pain, with what they call a frozen shoulder, but the doctors are not helping me with the pain. I am on Methadone, Celebrex, Lyrica, and many more...my point is, with all these drugs I am still feeling pain enough to keep me in tears. I did not want reconstructive surgery, I just wanted to get away from the doctors, and doctors and more doctors. Hopefully your experience will not be like mine. Please ask about the Lymphedema and frozen shoulder. My prayers are with you. Write anytime. Candy Debbie wrote: My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I have been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when it came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet still cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't spread, still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. I go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best reconstructive method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone share with me their experience? Thanks Debbie Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. Psalm 50:15 God Is Good!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2006 Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 Dear Candy, I jsut read your post and it scared me so much. I am 43- had stage 3b cancer, received A/C chemo, and am jsut now post surger of a week today. They had to take all 16 of my nodes and the lymphadema is a real possibility. My arm is not swollen yet, but the whole arm thing is so scary. What symptoms did u have right after surgery? Juli > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I have > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when it > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet still > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't spread, > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. I > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best reconstructive > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > share with me their experience? > Thanks > Debbie > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > Psalm 50:15 > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2006 Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 Dear Candy, I jsut read your post and it scared me so much. I am 43- had stage 3b cancer, received A/C chemo, and am jsut now post surger of a week today. They had to take all 16 of my nodes and the lymphadema is a real possibility. My arm is not swollen yet, but the whole arm thing is so scary. What symptoms did u have right after surgery? Juli > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I have > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when it > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet still > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't spread, > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. I > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best reconstructive > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > share with me their experience? > Thanks > Debbie > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > Psalm 50:15 > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 >I don't get it. Why are so many people with single sites of DCIS having such radical surgery? DCIS will only evolve into invasive cancer 50% of the time. Random breast biopsys on anyone (over a certain age) will probably reveal DCIS a large proportion of the time. I could see if a person had previous breast cancer, or had genetic markers (BRACA 1 or 2), or had multiple sites of DCIS, then one could justify the radical procedures. I am afraid that some people are unnecessarily scared by hearing the words " breast cancer " , and are being manipulated by their fear into wanting some magic procedure that will free them from ever having to even think about cancer again. But the reality is that there is no increased survival with having a mastectomy, even when invasive cancer is present. Survival is related to the metastatic disease---not the primary tumor in the breast. There is no question that sometimes a mastectomy is warrented; but not in the numbers that are currently being performed in this country. Once upon a time unnecessary hysterectomies were common, as were unnecessary tonsillectomies. Eventually, I believe women will realize that there is an awful lot of unjustified major surgery being performed; and there will be a lot of anger and resentment. Anne V. > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I have > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when it > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet still > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't spread, > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. I > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best reconstructive > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > share with me their experience? > Thanks > Debbie > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > Psalm 50:15 > > > > God Is Good!! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Hi Candy, Did you just have surgery? Your arm will be " frozen " for a while. Did your doctor give you a bunch of stretches to do? They seem hard at first but do them several times a day and your mobility will improve. Also seek out an experienced (with lymphedema) massage or other, therapist. I freaked out at first because I am a swimmer. I would go to the pool for months after and cry on the wall because my arm wouldn't stretch out long enough to hold the board. I am now doing full back and freestyle strokes. It's baby steps. Have you tried elevating your arm? a Candy Laughlin wrote: Hi Debbie, I am 46 years old, I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer in oct 05. I recieved chemo, surgery{mastectomy}, then raditation. Since my surgery I have been suffering with Lymphedema, and do not have use of my left arm, Please be sure to ask your doctor about this. I have found it to be a horrible out come, and I would not repeat it. I am in daily constant pain, with what they call a frozen shoulder, but the doctors are not helping me with the pain. I am on Methadone, Celebrex, Lyrica, and many more...my point is, with all these drugs I am still feeling pain enough to keep me in tears. I did not want reconstructive surgery, I just wanted to get away from the doctors, and doctors and more doctors. Hopefully your experience will not be like mine. Please ask about the Lymphedema and frozen shoulder. My prayers are with you. Write anytime. Candy Debbie wrote: My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I have been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when it came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet still cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't spread, still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. I go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best reconstructive method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone share with me their experience? Thanks Debbie Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. Psalm 50:15 God Is Good!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Doctors say their is no difference in survival rates between lumpectomy and mastectomy but there are a lot of women that would disagree. I have known several women that went with a lumpectomy only to have to go back to have a mastectomy. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com Re: DCIS >I don't get it. Why are so many people with single sites of DCIS having such radical surgery? DCIS will only evolve into invasive cancer 50% of the time. Random breast biopsys on anyone (over a certain age) will probably reveal DCIS a large proportion of the time. I could see if a person had previous breast cancer, or had genetic markers (BRACA 1 or 2), or had multiple sites of DCIS, then one could justify the radical procedures. I am afraid that some people are unnecessarily scared by hearing the words " breast cancer " , and are being manipulated by their fear into wanting some magic procedure that will free them from ever having to even think about cancer again. But the reality is that there is no increased survival with having a mastectomy, even when invasive cancer is present. Survival is related to the metastatic disease---not the primary tumor in the breast. There is no question that sometimes a mastectomy is warrented; but not in the numbers that are currently being performed in this country. Once upon a time unnecessary hysterectomies were common, as were unnecessary tonsillectomies. Eventually, I believe women will realize that there is an awful lot of unjustified major surgery being performed; and there will be a lot of anger and resentment. Anne V. > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I have > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when it > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet still > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't spread, > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. I > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best reconstructive > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > share with me their experience? > Thanks > Debbie > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > Psalm 50:15 > > > > God Is Good!! > ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.408 / Virus Database: 268.13.4/480 - Release Date: 10/17/2006 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 That would be me...part of the problem is there is no way to know for sure sometimes until the surgeon actually gets in there. Another thought would be had I had a double, I could have gotten away with a heavily padded bra instead of either a pain in the rump prosthesis forever or reconstruction. - Jen : ) Stage 1c, Grade 3, ER- HER2+ Lumpectomy, SLNB, Mastectomy Diagnosed: 7/2006 (1st Mammo) On Thu, 19 Oct 2006 07:05:02 -0500 " & nne Svihlik " writes: > Doctors say their is no difference in survival rates between > lumpectomy and mastectomy but there are a lot of women that would > disagree. I have known several women that went with a lumpectomy > only to have to go back to have a mastectomy. > Hugs > nne > Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life > http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html > BreastCancerStories.com > http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ > Angel Feather Loomer > www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com > Check out my other ornaments at > www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html > Lots of info and gifts at: > www.cancerclub.com > Re: DCIS > > > > >I don't get it. Why are so many people with single sites of DCIS > having such radical > surgery? DCIS will only evolve into invasive cancer 50% of the > time. Random breast biopsys > on anyone (over a certain age) will probably reveal DCIS a large > proportion of the time. I > could see if a person had previous breast cancer, or had genetic > markers (BRACA 1 or 2), > or had multiple sites of DCIS, then one could justify the radical > procedures. I am afraid > that some people are unnecessarily scared by hearing the words > " breast cancer " , and are > being manipulated by their fear into wanting some magic procedure > that will free them > from ever having to even think about cancer again. But the reality > is that there is no > increased survival with having a mastectomy, even when invasive > cancer is present. > Survival is related to the metastatic disease---not the primary > tumor in the breast. There > is no question that sometimes a mastectomy is warrented; but not > in the numbers that are > currently being performed in this country. Once upon a time > unnecessary hysterectomies > were common, as were unnecessary tonsillectomies. Eventually, I > believe women will > realize that there is an awful lot of unjustified major surgery > being performed; and there > will be a lot of anger and resentment. Anne V. > > > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband > and I have > > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law > and a > > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good > health..no major > > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was > told when it > > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. > So I did > > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and > told me the > > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It > showed > > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. > He went > > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, > 2006. The > > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would > have to wait > > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went > to his > > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but > yet still > > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is > very > > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed > it). It was > > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). > Non-invasive...hasn't spread, > > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either > lumpectomy > > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much > prayer and > > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have > mastectomy. I > > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > > > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a > plastic > > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both > apprehensive. We > > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best > reconstructive > > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. > Can anyone > > share with me their experience? > > Thanks > > Debbie > > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > > Psalm 50:15 > > > > > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------- ----- > > > No virus found in this incoming message. > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > Version: 7.1.408 / Virus Database: 268.13.4/480 - Release Date: > 10/17/2006 > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Yes, I believe that nne is right. I did opt for a lumpectomy (April 2006) and now am facing either a further lumpectomy or the choice of mastectomy. It has to be an individual choice, one made considering history and knowledge. I wish NOW that I had been open enough to think along those lines initially, and maybe I wouldn't be facing the decision I have to make now....... Ellen > >I don't get it. Why are so many people with single sites of DCIS having such radical > surgery? DCIS will only evolve into invasive cancer 50% of the time. Random breast biopsys > on anyone (over a certain age) will probably reveal DCIS a large proportion of the time. I > could see if a person had previous breast cancer, or had genetic markers (BRACA 1 or 2), > or had multiple sites of DCIS, then one could justify the radical procedures. I am afraid > that some people are unnecessarily scared by hearing the words " breast cancer " , and are > being manipulated by their fear into wanting some magic procedure that will free them > from ever having to even think about cancer again. But the reality is that there is no > increased survival with having a mastectomy, even when invasive cancer is present. > Survival is related to the metastatic disease---not the primary tumor in the breast. There > is no question that sometimes a mastectomy is warrented; but not in the numbers that are > currently being performed in this country. Once upon a time unnecessary hysterectomies > were common, as were unnecessary tonsillectomies. Eventually, I believe women will > realize that there is an awful lot of unjustified major surgery being performed; and there > will be a lot of anger and resentment. Anne V. > > > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I have > > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in- law and a > > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when it > > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet still > > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non- invasive...hasn't spread, > > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. I > > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best reconstructive > > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > > share with me their experience? > > Thanks > > Debbie > > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > > Psalm 50:15 > > > > > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------- ----------- > > > No virus found in this incoming message. > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > Version: 7.1.408 / Virus Database: 268.13.4/480 - Release Date: 10/17/2006 > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 > >I don't get it. Why are so many people with single sites of DCIS having such radical > surgery? DCIS will only evolve into invasive cancer 50% of the time. Random breast biopsys > on anyone (over a certain age) will probably reveal DCIS a large proportion of the time. I > could see if a person had previous breast cancer, or had genetic markers (BRACA 1 or 2), > or had multiple sites of DCIS, then one could justify the radical procedures. I am afraid > that some people are unnecessarily scared by hearing the words " breast cancer " , and are > being manipulated by their fear into wanting some magic procedure that will free them > from ever having to even think about cancer again. But the reality is that there is no > increased survival with having a mastectomy, even when invasive cancer is present. > Survival is related to the metastatic disease---not the primary tumor in the breast. There > is no question that sometimes a mastectomy is warrented; but not in the numbers that are > currently being performed in this country. Once upon a time unnecessary hysterectomies > were common, as were unnecessary tonsillectomies. Eventually, I believe women will > realize that there is an awful lot of unjustified major surgery being performed; and there > will be a lot of anger and resentment. Anne V. > > > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My husband and I have > > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, daughter-in-law and a > > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good health..no major > > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and was told when it > > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 mos. So I did > > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself and told me the > > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. It showed > > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a surgeon. He went > > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, 2006. The > > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but would have to wait > > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we went to his > > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, but yet still > > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It is very > > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram showed it). It was > > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non-invasive...hasn't spread, > > still in same area. So we were given the option to have either lumpectomy > > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much prayer and > > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have mastectomy. I > > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they would > > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see a plastic > > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both apprehensive. We > > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best reconstructive > > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own body. Can anyone > > share with me their experience? > > Thanks > > Debbie > > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > > Psalm 50:15 > > > > > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- -- > > > No virus found in this incoming message. > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > Version: 7.1.408 / Virus Database: 268.13.4/480 - Release Date: 10/17/2006 > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Char - I intially had a lumpectomy (which would have been followed by radiation), however, when the path came back it showed my margins were not clear so I ended up going back for a mastectomy. I was told I would not need radiation, that I could go straight to chemo (oh, joy) because the mastectomy negated the need. - Jen : ) Stage 1c, Grade 3, ER- HER2+ Lumpectomy, SLNB, Mastectomy Diagnosed: 7/2006 (1st Mammo) On Thu, 19 Oct 2006 22:13:43 -0000 " starshinespedestal " writes: > I agree, thats where I am, just dont know what I am going to do. > Cancer in one.. remove one? Or both? Or partical mastectomy?. Did I > read somewhere that if you have a full mastectomy you dont need > radiation? Does anyone know? > > char > > > > > > > > >I don't get it. Why are so many people with single sites of > DCIS having such radical > > > surgery? DCIS will only evolve into invasive cancer 50% of the > > time. Random breast > > biopsys > > > on anyone (over a certain age) will probably reveal DCIS a > large proportion of the time. > > I > > > could see if a person had previous breast cancer, or had > genetic markers (BRACA 1 or > > 2), > > > or had multiple sites of DCIS, then one could justify the > radical procedures. I am afraid > > > that some people are unnecessarily scared by hearing the > words " breast cancer " , and > > are > > > being manipulated by their fear into wanting some magic > procedure that will free them > > > from ever having to even think about cancer again. But the > reality is that there is no > > > increased survival with having a mastectomy, even when > invasive > cancer is present. > > > Survival is related to the metastatic disease---not the > primary > tumor in the breast. > > There > > > is no question that sometimes a mastectomy is warrented; but > not in the numbers that > > are > > > currently being performed in this country. Once upon a time > unnecessary > > hysterectomies > > > were common, as were unnecessary tonsillectomies. Eventually, > I > believe women will > > > realize that there is an awful lot of unjustified major > surgery > being performed; and > > there > > > will be a lot of anger and resentment. Anne V. > > > > > > > My name is Debbie. I am 51 years old. I am married. My > husband and I have > > > > been married for almost 33 years. We have a son, > daughter-in- > law and a > > > > precious 2 year old grandson. I have always been in good > health..no major > > > > problems. However, I had a mammogram as part of my YP, and > was told when it > > > > came back that I needed to arrange to have another one in 6 > mos. So I did > > > > in July 2006. This time my gynecologist called me himself > and > told me the > > > > results and that I needed to have a biopsy just to be safe. > It showed > > > > microcalcifications. He called and set me up to see a > surgeon. He went > > > > over the mammogram with us and we had the biopsy on Oct. 6, > 2006. The > > > > surgeon told my family that everything looked okay, but > would > have to wait > > > > on pathology report. Last Wed. I got the news. On Friday we > went to his > > > > office and he explained it to us. He said it was pre-cancer, > > but yet still > > > > cancer. It is located in the milk duct behind the nipple. It > > is very > > > > small.(Radiologists said it was a miracle the mammogram > showed it). It was > > > > classified as DCIS(ductal carcinoma in situ). Non- > invasive...hasn't spread, > > > > still in same area. So we were given the option to have > either lumpectomy > > > > with radiation or mastectomy with no radiation. After much > prayer and > > > > talking with a some friends who had both, we decided to have > > mastectomy. I > > > > go tomorrow morning to make the arrangements. He said they > would > > > > reconstructive surgery at the same time. I would have to see > > a plastic > > > > surgeon prior to the surgery. My husband and I are both > apprehensive. We > > > > just want it to be over. I'm also not sure what is the best > reconstructive > > > > method. I think I would rather have it come from my own > body. > Can anyone > > > > share with me their experience? > > > > Thanks > > > > Debbie > > > > Call Upon ME in the day of trouble; I will deliver thee. > > > > Psalm 50:15 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > God Is Good!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------------------------------- > > -- > > > > > > > > > No virus found in this incoming message. > > > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > > > Version: 7.1.408 / Virus Database: 268.13.4/480 - Release > Date: > 10/17/2006 > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Hi.. i am kind of new to this group. I had a biopsy and have DCIS (Sep.26) .. I am having a re-lumpectomy tomorrow to get " clean margins " .. If all goes well, I'm going to have 6 weeks of radiation starting mid-late November. I feel so consumed thinking about all this.. am hoping to try and get some normalcy back.. I am concerned about nutrition and anything else I can be doing to improve my odds.. I think all of you are amazing ..what great fortitude and great attitudes you have!! I'm working on it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Hi Char, I had DCIS and IDC (2 tumors = 1.05cm). I think I told you this before that generally 2 mm is considered clear margins, but it varies. When I had a mastectomy more extensive DCIS was found and a possible microinvasion, so for me it was the right decision. take care, starshinespedestal wrote on 10/19/2006, 6:59 PM: > -Where it is in the breast/location? Gosh I feel stupid on this stuff > and all the terms. But location wise, just to the side of my nipple. > I have DCIS. I still have to go in for more removeal of tissue. I had > a 3cm clear margin around it? Stage 0, but the surgeon said they > perfer 5. He said they would check my lymph nodes then. > > -- In breastcancer2 , wrote: > > > > I also had a mastectomy and no radiation. It depends where your > dcis or > > tumor is and if you have lymph nodes involved. Sorry, Char, but I > forgot > > what you had. > > > > - > > > > Francine Kilmer wrote on 10/19/2006, 6:22 PM: > > > > > It probably depends on more than just one factor, but I had a > full > > > mastectomy and did not have to have radiation for that reason. > > > ~ Francine > > > _____________________________ > > > > > > Did I read somewhere that if you have a full mastectomy you dont > need > > > radiation? Does anyone know? > > > > > > char > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2006 Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 Hi Jen, my operations and diagnosis is the same as yours - except I'm stage1 - what is stage 1c? - jbuzzard@... wrote on 10/19/2006, 8:19 PM: > Char - > I intially had a lumpectomy (which would have been > followed by radiation), however, when the path came > back it showed my margins were not clear so I ended > up going back for a mastectomy. I was told I would > not need radiation, that I could go straight to chemo > (oh, joy) because the mastectomy negated the need. > > - Jen : ) > Stage 1c, Grade 3, ER- HER2+ > Lumpectomy, SLNB, Mastectomy > Diagnosed: 7/2006 (1st Mammo) > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 20, 2006 Report Share Posted October 20, 2006 ; Stage 1c would be right before becoming Stage 2 (I was on the verge so to speak). I hit 40 in December and working in a school (interpreter) I had the requisite mammogram as soon as we hit summer break (of course I didn't realize it was going to be anything other than the first annual squashing of the boob : ) My SLNB showed tumor cells but they were so small that it counted as negative (they'd clobber them with chemo). Hope this helps! - Jen : ) Stage 1c, Grade 3, ER- HER2+ Lumpectomy, SLNB, Mastectomy Diagnosed: 7/2006 (1st Mammo) On Thu, 19 Oct 2006 22:00:55 -0400 writes: > Hi Jen, > > my operations and diagnosis is the same as yours - except I'm stage1 > - > what is stage 1c? > > - > > jbuzzard@... wrote on 10/19/2006, 8:19 PM: > > > Char - > > I intially had a lumpectomy (which would have been > > followed by radiation), however, when the path came > > back it showed my margins were not clear so I ended > > up going back for a mastectomy. I was told I would > > not need radiation, that I could go straight to chemo > > (oh, joy) because the mastectomy negated the need. > > > > - Jen : ) > > Stage 1c, Grade 3, ER- HER2+ > > Lumpectomy, SLNB, Mastectomy > > Diagnosed: 7/2006 (1st Mammo) > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 20, 2006 Report Share Posted October 20, 2006 > > Dear Diane, Hang in there. Take one " baby " step at a time...nutrition is something you can look into later, after you've recovered from your procedure. I wish you well today on your procedure, and remember we are all here to help each other get through. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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