O/T Re: mercury symptom ?

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> - it's usually the insecure, slightly off

> person that targets me

If 2 of the 3 give glowing references and the third is different, then

the problem is with that third person, not with you. At least you

know not to give that person as a reference next time.

Work places are getting more and more difficult with all of the back

stabbing and meanness.

Mercury has so many symptoms and the severity is so different in

different people and with time that it's hard to pin point exactly

where mercury ends. In general I find that we have developed

mechanisms to compensate for our mercury, but it will catch up with us

eventually, like it did with me. At the point I am at now I really

don't think I could survive a workplace.

Hope better days are ahead.

J

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> I know Andy has said that mercury toxicity can make people

> constantly fear that they are going to lose their job. Well, I have

> had that fear for years but also because it's been true for years.

> However, I usually never see it coming. I'm constantly being

> blindsighted - I find the politics of jobs to always get the best of

> me. I've grown to distrust and fear most of my boss' as a result.

> I'm rambling but today I was offered a job - all they had to do was

> check my references. 2 of the 3 I gave had written me glowing

> references. The 3rd reference (a former boss) verbally agreed to give

> me a reference. Well, the offer was rescinded because " one of the 3

> references gave information that caused concern " . I'm floored. But

> sadly not surprised - such backstabbing and meanness is a common

> experience. I've had so many jobs and there always seems to be

> someone who has it in for me - it's usually the insecure, slightly off

> person that targets me. I'm at a loss.

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