Re: Perception by others that sensitivity is *your* fault, rather

[Guest guest]

Honey my heart goes out to you and I am praying for you. I have a similar

situation going on, though with us it is my inability to realise the ice cream

shop we were headed to was right across the street and not down the road, that

set my so called " friend " off. I have nonverbal learning disabilities, which

means I have almost no visual memory. I don't carry a map around in my head like

most folks do, so I did not have a reference in my mind is to just where it was,

just that it was on alt 27 in Bronson somewhere. Unfortunately it was right

across the street from the post office and my " friend " absolutely can't

understand or believe I was being anything else but " obstinate, silly and

stubbern. " I am autistic and don't have many friends but have boycotted his

phone calls. If he calls me again it had better not just be an apology but a

repentence. I have turned all four cheeks and have nothing left for him to

verbally slap. My adrenal levels are better now too, and I'm no longer being the

door mat that folks are used to me being, and that combined with my lack of

social skills, is causing havok.

I agree with Nil's post when she said all mental disorders are physical. Jesus

said it best, " The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. " Freud is dead and

burning in Hell and Jesus lives!

Hensley <>< 8-)

I will say my response to noise has gotten SO much better since on a good

dose of HC. My loud obnoxious neighbors are barely bothering me anymore.

Sometimes you have to lose people to get well. I had to make decisions and

could no longer extend myself to people who were not supportive. I figure

the ones who are real friends will always come back. The others weren't real

friends to begin with. This has proven true. People who are true will

support you in good and bad, no matter if they understand or not. I have

certainly been there for a lot of friends during problems in relationships

even if I thought they were making poor choices. I kept my lip zipped and

just listened, because that is what they needed. I don't think that it is

too much to expect some reciprocation, nor should you.

Oh, and maybe you are just jealous of cats like me. lol

Cheri

-----Original Message-----

We had lots of good work with my energy healer but when it came to my

noise sensitivity she insisted telling me that I was unconsciously jealous

of other happy people around me(my neighbors were talking loudly until very

late).my best friend kept telling me that my healer could be correct and

this could be psychological. Finally after starting to increase my isocort

dosage my sound and light sensitivity issues are getting better but pain of

loosing last two person from my life is still going on.

bw

Nil

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