Re: Re: My tigger - same here - what gives with these family members anyone right to ?

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I just wanted to say even the experts who find and treat turn on you. I

developed a DVT while carring my last child, was put in the hospital TX with IV

heprin then told if I would learn to do my on injections I could go home on

complete bedrest giving myself shots every 2 hrs, really was upsetting, a

pregnant woman bedrest for the last 2mo, and shots around the clock!, anyway he

the vascular attending Doc released me to go home with these instructions

continue with heprin inject up until first labor pains, take one at onset and

that would be it, then had given me coumadin orders after delivery. Well son

was born stood up from w/c to get put in bed in hosp stay room and gush gush

nurse was turned away from me I said oh oh, I am bleeding kinda, now this was my

3rd, and she sweetly says oh honey that happens after birth, I had to say not a

puddle on the floor and still splashing before she would turn around and look. I

was quickly put in bed DR called for hep block. Then

once home from that, continuing Dr order oh the coumadin set up ahead by

vascular guy, breast feeding and 2 days later laying in bed gush gush gush,went

in changed out laying there gush gush gush! obstrician called, get to hosp.

admitted he was wild first I should not of been on coumadin breast feeding 2nd

vascular had me on to high of dose for this. I was admitted a few days later the

vascular one comes in to see me and asked me when I was going to quit this?!!, I

was shocked, and emotional as I had 3 at home and 2 were babies 11mo apart one

newborn, and I just wanted to be home with my newborn, What had I done. How

could I make this up, he felt I was exaggerating what happened, and he got

talked to by the other doc so i get questioned on how real was this hemmorage.

SICK uncaring individual.

Sharon

jeribelle2000 wrote: Tigger, I'm so sorry you

were treated badly in a family setting, where

we are supposed to be able to be ourselves. Stinks, how well I know.

I don't have much to say to comfort you. The evening after my heart

cath, I was resting at home and my spouse lit into me. He was saying

things like I'm a hypochondriac. He thinks I love attention and that's

why I had the heart cath. Yeah, right. I'm glad for the good news, but

does he really think I just got a heart cath because I wanted one?!

Like I didn't have to have symptoms or something in order for health

insurance to even approve it?! I mean, can a person fake high blood

pressure? If so, where do those numbers come from? Maybe I could fake

lower blood pressure?! Or can a person fake high cholesterol? How about

this one - Do ya think I can fake the ground glass haziness on the ct

scan of my lungs? Or do ya think it's possible to fake a hiatal hernia,

during a barium swallow test in the hospital? Is it possible I just

dreamed up the pocketing in my intestines because I think having

diverticulosis is glamorous? Or maybe I think wearing my bipap mask is

sexy in bed?! I guess he thinks I dreamed up the hip pain from

bilateral congenital hip dysplaysia so I could have 3 hip surgeries

thus far, like I think it's neat to learn to walk again three times in

only five years?!

Yepperz, I know all about families being no support at all. I'm a

strong woman, and capable of just handling the emotional part of this

without any support on the home front. In fact, I kicked my own spouse

out of the hospital because he was being such an arse! I just don't

want him accompanying me to anything medical if I can help it. When he

was riding me so hard that night, I asked him to go along with me to

the doc to hear what she has to say about the tests...that got me a

whole nuther tirade, so I just walked out of the room and took to my

bed.

girlsaylor