Guest guest Posted January 27, 2008 Report Share Posted January 27, 2008 Subject line says it all Does anyone else see a correlation between these in their own lives? My room is a God-Awful-Mess - my " excuse " is that I locate things and remember locations visually, therefore a " logically " (read abstract) organization system won't work for me). But I'm wondering if another part is just that first organizing things (especially those things that 'don't belong anywhere') - or even just straightening things up (pupshing things into neat piles in the corner, etc) is a psychological/emotional stressor if nothing else, which the body in AF may just not want to put up with that (even if it can). Incidentally, my mother has said that clutter (my father at least is *extraordinarly* organized) is rather common - and she can't see how people can live in it. I wonder - is it on the rise, and could that indicate that AF is getting more common (even in the lower stages)? Jim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2008 Report Share Posted January 27, 2008 >>But I'm wondering if another part is just that first organizing things (especially those things that 'don't belong anywhere') - or even just straightening things up (pupshing things into neat piles in the corner, etc) is a psychological/emotional stressor if nothing else, which the body in AF may just not want to put up with that (even if it can).<< Well sounds like a good excuse to me! WHOOPS.. maybe that is me accepting ANY reason for the awful clutter I live in! LOL -- Artistic Grooming- Hurricane WV http://www.stopthethyroidmadness.com/ http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/NaturalThyroidHormonesADRENALS/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2008 Report Share Posted January 27, 2008 Abso-damn-lutely!! If I can't see it, I don't remember I even have it.So I certainly cant find it. If I try to organize it, my perfectionism kicks in and I am totally overwhelmed. Now, just thinking about getting organized overwhelms me. When I get bouts of energy I try, but my organization never lasts because I get too tired again to keep it up. Its one of those situations where I cant win for losing. I need a handmaiden or a butler, lol! English > > Subject line says it all Does anyone else see a correlation > between these in their own lives? My room is a God-Awful-Mess - > my " excuse " is that I locate things and remember locations visually, > therefore a " logically " (read abstract) organization system won't > work for me). But I'm wondering if another part is just that first > organizing things (especially those things that 'don't belong > anywhere') - or even just straightening things up (pupshing things > into neat piles in the corner, etc) is a psychological/emotional > stressor if nothing else, which the body in AF may just not want to > put up with that (even if it can). > > Incidentally, my mother has said that clutter (my father at least > is *extraordinarly* organized) is rather common - and she can't see > how people can live in it. I wonder - is it on the rise, and could > that indicate that AF is getting more common (even in the lower stages)? > > Jim > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2008 Report Share Posted January 27, 2008 A huge part of my problem is the perfectionist thing. If I can't do it all and do it right,then why bother? The Fly Lady program is great for perfectionsits but I don't have the energy to follow through right now. She focuses on small steps and the fact that even if you can't do everything doing a small thing here and there adds up. Cherie A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. Herm Albright > > Abso-damn-lutely!! If I can't see it, I don't remember I even have > it.So I certainly cant find it. If I try to organize it, my > perfectionism kicks in and I am totally overwhelmed. Now, just > thinking about getting organized overwhelms me. When I get bouts of > energy I try, but my organization never lasts because I get too tired > again to keep it up. Its one of those situations where I cant win for > losing. I need a handmaiden or a butler, lol! > > English > > No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.516 / Virus Database: 269.19.11/1244 - Release Date: 1/25/2008 7:44 PM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2008 Report Share Posted January 27, 2008 A huge part of my problem is the perfectionist thing. If I can't do it all and do it right,then why bother? The Fly Lady program is great for perfectionsits but I don't have the energy to follow through right now. She focuses on small steps and the fact that even if you can't do everything doing a small thing here and there adds up. Cherie A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. Herm Albright > > Abso-damn-lutely!! If I can't see it, I don't remember I even have > it.So I certainly cant find it. If I try to organize it, my > perfectionism kicks in and I am totally overwhelmed. Now, just > thinking about getting organized overwhelms me. When I get bouts of > energy I try, but my organization never lasts because I get too tired > again to keep it up. Its one of those situations where I cant win for > losing. I need a handmaiden or a butler, lol! > > English > > No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.516 / Virus Database: 269.19.11/1244 - Release Date: 1/25/2008 7:44 PM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2008 Report Share Posted January 27, 2008 A huge part of my problem is the perfectionist thing. If I can't do it all and do it right,then why bother? The Fly Lady program is great for perfectionsits but I don't have the energy to follow through right now. She focuses on small steps and the fact that even if you can't do everything doing a small thing here and there adds up. Cherie A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. Herm Albright > > Abso-damn-lutely!! If I can't see it, I don't remember I even have > it.So I certainly cant find it. If I try to organize it, my > perfectionism kicks in and I am totally overwhelmed. Now, just > thinking about getting organized overwhelms me. When I get bouts of > energy I try, but my organization never lasts because I get too tired > again to keep it up. Its one of those situations where I cant win for > losing. I need a handmaiden or a butler, lol! > > English > > No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.516 / Virus Database: 269.19.11/1244 - Release Date: 1/25/2008 7:44 PM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2008 Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 when my adrenals improve I start noticing disorganized things and start organizing them. otherwise I don't even notice. bw Nil Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2008 Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 when my adrenals improve I start noticing disorganized things and start organizing them. otherwise I don't even notice. bw Nil Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2008 Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 when my adrenals improve I start noticing disorganized things and start organizing them. otherwise I don't even notice. bw Nil Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2008 Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 LOL, Cherie, I tried Fly Lady but I got too hung up on the damn binder and it all fell apart and that was before my crash. English > > A huge part of my problem is the perfectionist thing. If I can't do it all > and do it right,then why bother? The Fly Lady program is great for > perfectionsits but I don't have the energy to follow through right now. She > focuses on small steps and the fact that even if you can't do everything > doing a small thing here and there adds up. > > Cherie > > A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy > enough people to make it worth the effort. Herm Albright > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2008 Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 LOL, Cherie, I tried Fly Lady but I got too hung up on the damn binder and it all fell apart and that was before my crash. English > > A huge part of my problem is the perfectionist thing. If I can't do it all > and do it right,then why bother? The Fly Lady program is great for > perfectionsits but I don't have the energy to follow through right now. She > focuses on small steps and the fact that even if you can't do everything > doing a small thing here and there adds up. > > Cherie > > A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy > enough people to make it worth the effort. Herm Albright > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2008 Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 LOL, Cherie, I tried Fly Lady but I got too hung up on the damn binder and it all fell apart and that was before my crash. English > > A huge part of my problem is the perfectionist thing. If I can't do it all > and do it right,then why bother? The Fly Lady program is great for > perfectionsits but I don't have the energy to follow through right now. She > focuses on small steps and the fact that even if you can't do everything > doing a small thing here and there adds up. > > Cherie > > A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy > enough people to make it worth the effort. Herm Albright > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2008 Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 Flylady irritated the CRAP out of me! If I wanted someone to nag me, I would have a hubby. LOL -- Artistic Grooming- Hurricane WV http://www.stopthethyroidmadness.com/ http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/NaturalThyroidHormonesADRENALS/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2008 Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 Flylady irritated the CRAP out of me! If I wanted someone to nag me, I would have a hubby. LOL -- Artistic Grooming- Hurricane WV http://www.stopthethyroidmadness.com/ http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/NaturalThyroidHormonesADRENALS/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2008 Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 Touche'. It sounded like a good idea but became a bunch of spam for me. It took me longer to read the email and figure out exactly what she was trying to say then to just get up off my rump and go shine my sink, lol. Plus it seemed more geared to women who are stay-at-home moms. I couldn't find much that applied to how my life is structured. Cheri -----Original Message----- Flylady irritated the CRAP out of me! If I wanted someone to nag me, I would have a hubby. LOL -- . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2008 Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 Touche'. It sounded like a good idea but became a bunch of spam for me. It took me longer to read the email and figure out exactly what she was trying to say then to just get up off my rump and go shine my sink, lol. Plus it seemed more geared to women who are stay-at-home moms. I couldn't find much that applied to how my life is structured. Cheri -----Original Message----- Flylady irritated the CRAP out of me! If I wanted someone to nag me, I would have a hubby. LOL -- . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2008 Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 Touche'. It sounded like a good idea but became a bunch of spam for me. It took me longer to read the email and figure out exactly what she was trying to say then to just get up off my rump and go shine my sink, lol. Plus it seemed more geared to women who are stay-at-home moms. I couldn't find much that applied to how my life is structured. Cheri -----Original Message----- Flylady irritated the CRAP out of me! If I wanted someone to nag me, I would have a hubby. LOL -- . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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