Guest guest Posted February 28, 2008 Report Share Posted February 28, 2008 ~~It rarely works to get involved with a messed up marriage. In my mind and my life, my son would come first. My brother and I decided to buy condos side by side 3 yrs ago to share the care of my Mom, it's been nothing but headache, arguement, issues ever since. My Mom lived next to my husband and I prior to moving here, which worked out fine for over 12 years. Personally, think my brother was afraid I would get my mom's money. I traveled way off the subject, anyway, it's sounds you have already made your decision in your heart. Your words, " I want to move home. " Follow your heart. Judy/WI Jeanne and Dave wrote: - You need to do what is best for YOU. I thought you had already decided that you should move back with your son. This problem with your brother is a seperate problem, and it sounds like HIS problem, not YOURS. Afterall, it is his wife causing all the difficulties. Even if you could have a good relationship with your brother, would it be worth it to stay? To me, it sounded like your son would take care of you if you moved in with him. I don't believe your brother will be able to take care of you, even if he was able to visit. We are here for you, , whatever you decide. Take care. Jeanne in WI I agree with you to some extent . I am going thru some bad family stuff right now and was going to just let it go but she gets away with too much so I have decided to confront her on it all. I shall write it down first so I can cover it all as you tend to forget some things when you are so hurt and angry. Mine is that my sister-in-law does not want my brother and I to see each other. I moved here to be close to him as he requested. I am not allowed in the house or him in mine. No phone contact. I don't even know what I did. Yesterday she said she couldn't control my brother when I was around. do I tell him what is going on. I hate to cause trouble between them but he has told me the marriage is dead. He keeps telling me to hang on as I want to move back home. What to do? Little Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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