Re: Need advice (maybe be graphic)

[Guest guest]

There are certain manual techniques involving

pressure exerted around the base of the penis

and/or perineum to prolong an erection and

delay ejaculation. Has he/you ever experimented

with those?

Another thing that can help is to have

your partner ejaculate before you have sex

(the timing of that dependent on how quickly

he can get back to arousal mode), so

that the second time around (and your first)

arousal and ejaculation time will not be as

speedy. Obviously, this requires some pre-

planning, but it can be quite successful.

Just two thoughts.

Hollis

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Date: 2008/02/03 Sun AM 10:01:06 CST

To: vulvarDisorders

Subject: Need advice (maybe be graphic)

Hi ladies, It's been a while since I've postted (I mostly lurk). My pain is

80-85% gone although lately I've been having more clitorial pain too. I'm

diagnosed with VV,IC,and IBS. I am also pre-menapauusal. Lately my partner has

been having problems pre-ejaculating when we are having sex. My times to have

pain free sex are limited so it is more fustrating to me when this happens.

We've talked about it and he has tried pills but they take an hour to work and

sometimes it's hard to plan ahead. I was wondering if anyone had any advice

regarding this. Thanks! Sue

[Guest guest]

Try " the squeeze technique " as a search term. It basically is

squeezing right below of the head of the penis and it kinda " resets " a

guy. You also have to be a little understanding that if you aren't

having sex very often, it can be hard for a guy not to get overly

aroused when he finally gets a chance.

Roque

>

> There are certain manual techniques involving

> pressure exerted around the base of the penis

> and/or perineum to prolong an erection and

> delay ejaculation. Has he/you ever experimented

> with those?

>

> Another thing that can help is to have

> your partner ejaculate before you have sex

> (the timing of that dependent on how quickly

> he can get back to arousal mode), so

> that the second time around (and your first)

> arousal and ejaculation time will not be as

> speedy. Obviously, this requires some pre-

> planning, but it can be quite successful.

>

> Just two thoughts.

>

> Hollis

>

>

> =====================

>

> Date: 2008/02/03 Sun AM 10:01:06 CST

> To: vulvarDisorders

> Subject: Need advice (maybe be graphic)

>

>

> Hi ladies, It's been a while since I've postted (I mostly lurk). My

pain is 80-85% gone although lately I've been having more clitorial

pain too. I'm diagnosed with VV,IC,and IBS. I am also

pre-menapauusal. Lately my partner has been having problems

pre-ejaculating when we are having sex. My times to have pain free

sex are limited so it is more fustrating to me when this happens.

We've talked about it and he has tried pills but they take an hour to

work and sometimes it's hard to plan ahead. I was wondering if anyone

had any advice regarding this. Thanks! Sue

>

[Guest guest]

have him ejaculate a short while before having sex. the second ejaculation (when you are having sex) should take more time to happen.

Need advice (maybe be graphic)

Hi ladies, It's been a while since I've postted (I mostly lurk). My pain is 80-85% gone although lately I've been having more clitorial pain too. I'm diagnosed with VV,IC,and IBS. I am also pre-menapauusal. Lately my partner has been having problems pre-ejaculating when we are having sex. My times to have pain free sex are limited so it is more fustrating to me when this happens. We've talked about it and he has tried pills but they take an hour to work and sometimes it's hard to plan ahead. I was wondering if anyone had any advice regarding this. Thanks! Sue